Kodwa okokuqala, makhe sikhumbule inkqubo yokuzala yendoda ezayo. Abafana abavunyelwe ukugqoka i-diapers ixesha elide. Ukuba ekhaya ukubeka iliso ngokukhawuleza, konke kuxhomekeke kuphela kwiminqweno yakho okanye ukungafuni ukungena kwi-diapers ezimanzi, ke kufuneka ikhaya lokubeleka limele lilwe. Iidrafers kwizibhedlele zokubeletha zanamhlanje zisetyenziselwa ukunyaniseka okukhulu. Yaye inyaniso kukuba ngaphantsi kwe-diaper ulusu lomntwana lushisa. Ukwandisa izinga lokushisa kwindawo ejikeleze izidalwa zentsholongwane yenkwenkwe ngezinga elilodwa kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezizayo. Njengoko uphando lubonisa, kwixesha elizayo, abafana abahlala begqoka i-diapers kwasebuntwaneni, banda ingozi yokungabikho. Ngako oko, zama ukugqoka umntwana wakho kwi-diapers ngokungabonakali kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Ukuba awuhlose ukusebenzisa i-diapers, kungcono ukuba iintsana zizisebenzise i-diapers okanye zigqoke i-slide, kunokuba zigqoke kwi-overalls okanye indoda encinci. Ngoko kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukuba utshintshe iimpahla ezimanzi. Nangona kunjalo, ii-diapers nazo zenza ubunzima bazo, esiza kuxoxa ngazo ngezantsi. Ngoko ke, abaxhasi baya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo. Kukulungele ukusebenzisa i-sliders nge-straps. Abaxhamli abanjalo abayi kuwela kumntwana ngokwawo, kwaye ukuwathabatha kumntwana osebenzayo kunzima kakhulu. Ukuba ufumana i-sliders eneengcambu zokulinganisa ubude, ziya kukukhonza ixesha elide.
Makhe sihlale ngohlambuluko lwabafana abatshatayo ngokubanzi. Ekuzalweni, kumakhwenkwe, ijwabu lihlanganisa intloko yepenis ngokupheleleyo. Le nto ibonwa ngokuba yi-physiological phimosis, iyanyamalala eneminyaka eyi-3-5. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba iibhaktheriya azihlangani phantsi kwechumba, ezingabangela ukuvuvukala, umntwana kufuneka ahlambuluke ngeyure emva kweeyure ezintathu, ukuba uthembe i-diaper okanye emva kokuba enamanzi adibanisi amabini okanye amathathu.
Ukugqithisa komzimba osezantsi kubafana abayithandekanga njengokupholisa. Ngoko ke, iingubo zamakhwenkwe amakhwenkwe kufuneka zikhethwe kunokuba zikhethe. Kumele kubefudumale, kodwa kungenjalo ukuba umntwana akhuphe. Naluphi na indlela ukhetha ukugqoka ngayo umntwana wakho, kuhle ukuba uhla lwemoya lwenziwa phakathi kweengubo kunye nomzimba womntwana. Ngokunxiba iingubo ezivulekile, umntwana uqinisekileyo inkululeko yokunyakaza, okwenza ngokusemthethweni uyamkhusela kwi-heat and hypothermia. Ngako oko, ukukhwabanisa umntwana obunzima kakhulu akusebenzi.
Izinto ezininzi zokugqoka umntwana akukhuthazwa. Ukugqithisa kungonakalisi kuphela kwiintsana, kodwa nakwabantwana abadala. Ngokuqhelekileyo unokubona indlela ekwenzeni i-kindergarten yokugqoka umntwana ngeengcambu ezimbini, kunye neengxowa ezivela phezulu. Ngelishwa, ngokunjalo abantwana abatsha bazalwa ngamanye amaxesha. Mhlawumbi, kwipropati enye ukusuka kwisitalato ukusuka kwikhaya lokubeletha ukuya kwikhaya kwaye kuyimfuneko ukugqoka imvu ngokufudumele. Kodwa ekhayeni yena uwanele ngokwaneleyo kunye ne ryoshonki. Into ephambili kukuba ekwindawo apho umntwana ekho khona, kwakungekho iifrikhthi. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ubanda, ungachukumisa impumlo. Ukuba umntwana ubanda kakhulu, impumlo iya kubanda.
Musa ukuthatha iingubo ezintshontsho ngeempuphu ezivela ngasemva, kuba umntwana usebenzisa ixesha elide kwi-supine position. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kucetyiswa ukubeka i-ruffles ngasemva ngedonga. Jonga kuphela ukuba usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa aluzange lulale emacaleni amaqhina.
Imfesane yabantwana abafake imfashini kubafana kufuneka benziwe ngamagqabi alula kakhulu adlula umoya. Kungcono ukuba ukhetha izinto zokwendalo - ikotoni, ilinen, uboya. Elula kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukubeka izinto, kuya kuba ngakumbi ukhululekile kuba wena kunye nosana. Ukuba uthengela i-jumpsuit, thobela ingqalelo loo nto umntwana angayivakalelwa ngokukhululekile kuyo kunye ne-nappy efakwe. Ezinye iifolothi zinokunqunywa okhethekileyo kwamanyathelo amanyathelo, apho umntwana akhululekile ukuhamba khona.
Amagama ambalwa malunga namasiko. Ngoku kungokwesiko ukugqoka ngamakhwenkwe ahlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kunye namantombazana asepinki. Kodwa ngaphezu kwekhulu leminyaka edlulileyo esi siko senziwa ngokubhekiselele ngqo: umbala wepinki wawuthatyathwa ngokucacileyo kwaye unobindi ngaphezu kohlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Emva koko i-pinki igqoke amakhwenkwe amakhwenkwe. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki, yiyiphi imbala yembala ekufuneka kuthengwe kuyo umntwana, khetha umhlophe. Abathengisi bembatho yabantwana badla ngokucetyiswa ukuba bathenge izinto ezimhlophe kubantu abangenakunyaniseka ngentsimi yomntwana. Umbala omhlophe uphelelekile kuba uyinto enhle kakhulu, ucoceko (ngaphandle kokuba i-marble) kwaye xa udibene kunye ne-shades, kulula kakhulu ukhetha izinto ezimhlophe omnye komnye ngombala.