Umngane usana
Phantse iminyaka kunye nesiqingatha iminyaka, amantombazana aqala ukuzichazela ngokwabelana ngesini. Oku ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kumdlalo. Kutheni amantombazana adlala "kumama-ntombi"? Kungenzeka ukuba, ngenxa yobume bemvelo bubeka umnqweno wokunyamekela umntu., Ukususela ebuntwaneni engazi kakuhle ukuba kufuneka aphumeze umsebenzi wakhe wokuzala. Akusiyo ingozi ukuba imfundo iqale ... Ukuthengwa kwamathoyizi. Oku akuthethi ukuba intombi ifuna ukuthenga iidodoli kuphela. Kodwa ke akudingeki ukuba adlale iimoto kuba ufuna ikhonkco lakhe ngeempahla zokudlala, ifenitshala, imithwalo kunye neengubo. isidleke saso isidleke. Kulo mdlalo, umntwana ufumana izinto ezininzi ezibalulekileyo, ufunda, ufunda imigaqo yokuziphatha kuluntu, kwaye ngaphandle koko, umdlalo uyisibuko kubazali. Zama intombi uze uqaphele ukuba kumdlalo usebenzisa amagama akho , impawu, indlela yokunxibelelana.Asifezekanga, kwaye ngoncedo lomntwana ungabona iimpazamo zakho ekukhuliseni.
Indlu ecocekileyo
Ukususela esemncinci (malunga nonyaka), ndakanya intombazana ekwenzeni imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye. Thatha ingxaki ukuyithenga nge-mop, whisk. Zama ukuqala ngokucoca ngendlela yomdlalo. Ngexesha elifanayo, ngokukhawuleza ujwayele ukuchaneka, cela ukuba uqedele loo nto. Akuyimfuneko ukuvimbela amaqhekeza ukuba enze "ishishini" loo shishino - mayekuhlamba, ukucoca, nangona kungasebenzi ekuqaleni. Nika umntwana ukuba abe negalelo kwimisebenzi yasekhaya. Kucacile ukuba umama uya kwenza konke ngokukhawuleza kwaye angcono, ngokomzekelo, uya kutshaya enye indawo. Kodwa ukuba uyayinqanda intombazana ukuba incede, inokuyilungisa ngaphakathi kwayo, kuya kuba nokuzithemba. Kwaye kwongezelela oko kuya kudala ixesha elide ukuphelisa umnqweno wokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Kukho nengxaki yokungabikho koqhagamshelwano nabantwana. Njengoko ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka: Ama-resorts aphuma emsebenzini, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ekhitshini - alungiselela ukutya, aze aphelise. Ukujongana nomntwana akusekho ixesha, kodwa xa ekhupha phantsi kweengalo zakhe, uyasuswa nje. Kodwa zama ukwenza konke kunye. Mhlawumbi, ukupheka kunye nokucocwa kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakumbi, kodwa umntwana uya kulonwaba aze asebenze! Kwaye umama wabubulala ngokukhawuleza kabini, kodwa iintaka zintathu ngelitye elinye: uya kwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo, uya kumfundisa kakhulu kwaye ahlawule ukungabi nxibelelwano.
Graft i ngcamango
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfihlo enkulu kumama - indlela yokugqoka intombazana? Apha, ngokungaqhelekanga, kuyafaneleka ukunika umntwana ilungelo lokukhetha. Ngokomzekelo, intombazana engaphambi kweminyaka emibini igqoke i-panties kuphela. Emva kokunikezelwa kwengubo kamama ngaphantsi kweentombi intombazana endiyithandayo. Ukususela ngoko, ucele ukuba uthenge kuphela iimpahla zokugqoka, "njengamakhosazana", kwaye wenqaba ukugqoka nantoni na into.Iimeko ezinjalo, unokumnyanzela umntwana oko uthandayo, kodwa ngaba ufanelekile? yena kunye naye, kwaye ngaphezu koko, ukubeka ingcamango yakhe kwinto nayiphi na into ayiyi kukhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into. Kungenzeka ukuba xa intombi ikhula, ayiyi kukwazi ukuthatha impahla yakhe kwaye iya kuhlala ifuna iingcebiso zomntu. imibala kunye nezitayela, akuyimfuneko, kodwa ukuchaza iziphi izicathulo kubalulekile ukufaka intleko entle kwintombazana. Chaza ukuba kukho iingubo zemihla ngemihla kunye nokuzonwabisa, xelela ukuba yintoni umehluko. Zama ukunyanga izinto ngokunyamekela. Ngokuqhelekileyo amantombazana aziva xa ephunga okanye engcolileyo ingubo. Akumangazi, ukuba asebenze ngokukhawuleza, kodwa umntwana uya kuwuqonda umsebenzi womama kwaye uya kuba nolunzulu ngakumbi. Abazali abaninzi basondela ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwinqanaba lebhodi yeshumi. Okwangoku intombazana esele idlulileyo kunyaka kunye nehafu iyakwazi ukudibanisa. Bonisa indlela eyenziwe ngayo, ndixelele ukuba izitayela zentwele ziya kumelana naye. Wena kunye nawe uzakukrazula iingxaki ezingenasidingo, kwaye intombi iya kuba eyimfuneko ngakumbi. Kufuneka kube ne-fashionista encinci kunye nezinto zakhe zokugqoka. Kwaye umama uya kukuxelela indlela yokuyiphatha kakuhle. Izimonyo zikaMama zisebenza kwintombi ngokukhawuleza. Usana lubona indlela umama ayenziwe ngayo, kwaye naye ufuna ukukhangela. Musa ukufihla ukumenza kusuka kwintsana. Kulungile ukuchaza indlela yokusebenzisa zonke ezi zinto. Makhe intombazana ibe neyakhe yokwenza: umlomo we-hygienic, i-perfume yabantwana kunye ne-nail polish. Ukutya kunye nokunambitha kwakhona. Ukumfundisa njengomntwana ngowomnye wemisebenzi ephambili kwimfundo yentombazana. Kwixesha elizayo, akayi kukhetha kuphela izambatho, kodwa wenza kwakhona ngaphakathi ngaphakathi endlwini. Kwaye-kwaye uhlakulele intleko yentombi yakhe.
Imfihlelo yokubamba kokuqala
Bobabini abazali kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba ekukhulisweni kwentombazana. Kodwa inxaxheba ekhokelayo, mhlawumbi, ayisekho kumama. Uya kunika intombi yakhe kwiingxowa zamakhosikazi. Kwaye unokwenza oku kuphela xa uthemba omnye nomnye. Nasi omnye umzekelo. Intombazana, ephuma kwi-kindergarten, yavuma ukuba yayiyayithanda le nkwenkwana. Ukumanga kokuqala ngumcimbi ophazamisayo, ohlala ememori iminyaka, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wabelane ngawo nonina. Ukufumana ukuthembela komntwana akulula. Abantwana abaxoleli ukungabi nabulungisa, ukukhohlisa. Yiba nentombazana yakho kwaye uyinyanisekile. Awufuni ukuba intombi yakho ibe nemfihlelo evela kuwe? Ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, bonisa uthando lwakho nentlonipho. Ngaloo ndlela, uyise oyintombazana kuqala kwaye ngowona mgcini wokhuseleko kunye nomhlobo omhle. Kuye, uziva ekhuselekile. Ubawo unako ukuvumela iintlobo ezahlukeneyo (mhlawumbi ugibe ngehashe), ukudlala ibhola. Kubalulekile ukuba uyise uhlawule ingqalelo yakhe kwintombi yakhe, wanikela ngo-Matshi 8 kungekhona nje amathoyizi, kodwa iintyatyambo, ngaloo ndlela zibonisa ukuba ubona kuye intombazana encinane. Nangona kunjalo, akudingeki ukuba ulandele intombi yakho kwaye uyigcine intombi yakho. Ngaphandle koko, ubhekana nobunzima ngokukhetha umyeni wakhe. Ngokomzekelo, u-actress waseMelika u-Lisa Minnelli wavuma ukuba akakwazi ukuzifumana ixesha elide: akukho mviwa omele akwazi ukumelana nobaba onothando ongenalo nto kuye. Kubonakala ukuba umfazi ukhetha yena oogxa bomntu ofana nomzali okanye ngokuphambene nento - kuxhomekeka kukuphi uhlobo lobuhlobo olusesentsapho. Ukuba umntwana akanalo uyise, umzekelo "ungumyeni wangempela" unokuthi, umzekelo, utata okanye umalume.
Umzimba kunye nococeko lomphefumlo
Enye yeengongoma eziphambili kwindlela yokufundisa intombazana inempilo. Intombazana kufuneka ifundiswe kucoceko kwi-diaper. Kwaye ngaba abazali bahlala bejamelana nobunzima, kuba abantwana banomdla, bavula umhlaba wonke malunga nomzuzu (kunye nabo ngokwabo). Kungcono ukuba umntwana uvale unina iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakhe kwi-anatomy, evela kuye, kwaye engekho kwintombazana yommelwane, ufunda malunga nesakhiwo somzimba. Akukho nto ingabalulekanga ukuhlambuluka komphefumlo. Yintoni efanelekileyo yowesifazane kwintlalo yanamhlanje? Unomusa, unomusa, unesineke, unako ukuvakalelwa. Ibhinqa le-XXI leminyaka kufuneka libuye likwazi ukukwazi ukuzimela. Indlela yokuhlakulela le mpawu entombazana? Okokuqala, ngomzekelo ngamnye. Ngandlela-thile umntwana uthatha umbono wehlabathi lonina. Ukuba uvumelekile ukuba ube lukhuni, ubukhali kumlingane wakho, intombazana iya kuziphatha neqabane elizayo. Abantwana bazama ukuzama ukufana nabazali babo, umzekelo omncinci ukhuthaza umzekelo ophilayo, kunokubongoza nokuxoxwa kwezemfundo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abadala, ukubiza omnye, benze okuchaseneyo. Umntwana akakholelwa kakhulu ngeendlebe zakhe, kodwa ngamehlo akhe. Yizisa intombi yakho kwihlabathi lobugcisa, ikufundise indlela yokucula nokudansa, ukudweba, ukubhala iivesi, nokuzisa imithetho yokuziphatha. Khumbula ukuba abantwana badinga ukufudumala kunye nothando. Kodwa uthando kufuneka lube luncedo. Ngenxa yokuba, ingaba ungayiqonda into eyimfihlo yabamama, indlela yokufundisa intombazana, kwaye zeziphi iimfuno oza kuzibonisa intombi yakho, kuxhomekeke ekubeni yeyiphi ibhinqa ethathwa esandleni sakho ngumyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo.