Imithetho yokuthandana nomfana onxibelelwano

Ukudibana nomntu kwinethiwekhi, okokuqala, kufuneka uphendule kumbuzo: kutheni ufuna ukwenza oku? Ukuba nobuhlobo, nje ngesondo okanye ngobudlelwane obunzulu, obunokubangela umtshato? Kwaye, xa ujonga iiprofayili zabafana ozithandayo, qiniseka ukuba ujonga indlela abaphendula ngayo lo mbuzo (kuzo zonke izingosi zokuthandana ezibandakanya kwi-questionnaire).



Ukongeza, kufuneka udale iprofayili yakho kule ndawo. Ngaphandle kwayo, awukwazi ukusebenzisa amanqaku amancedo anikezelwa nguwe. Ngokomzekelo, kwenye yeziza ezidumeleyo zokudibanisa ungabuka iiprofayili zabafana kwaye ungabhaliswa, kodwa awukwazi ukubhala umyalezo womntu kwiziko lewebhu. Oko kukuthi, ungaqhagamshelana nomfana othandayo kuphela xa eshiyile idilesi yakhe ye-imeyile okanye inombolo yefowuni ekhoyo. Omnye wemithetho ebalulekileyo yokuqhelana ngokuphumelelayo nomntu kwinethiwekhi - i-questionnaire yakho kufanele ihluke ngokupheleleyo kwezinye iifom kule ndawo. Kwenzeka kanjani-kuku kuwe. Ungakwazi ukubeka isithombe esihle kakhulu (kuphela kungcono ukuba ungalayishi iifoto kwi-swimsuit okanye ngaphandle kwayo, ukuba uyazi ubudlelwane obude kunye nobunzulu - awuyi kuqondwa), unokuza ne-motto eqaqambileyo. Ukuba unomdla ongavamile, unomdla wokuzonwabisa - ukhululeke ukubhala nabo. Wonke umntu ufuna ukunxibelelana nomntu onje into enokuthetha ngayo - lo mthetho awuvumelekanga kuphela xa udibana kwinethiwekhi, kodwa nakumntu. Futhi ungakulibali malunga nale ngcaciso-cinga into enomdla kunokuba ibinzana elithi "unjani" kwaye "wenza ntoni".

Ukuba ufuna ukubhala ngaphezulu kuwe, kufuneka uqaphele iphrofayili yakho. Hlaziya (ngubani oza kuwufumana kwiphepha lesithathu okanye yesine?), Yongeza izithombe ezintsha. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona iinkonzo ezihlawulwayo, zeziphi iindawo ezihlala zibonelela ngazo. Njengomthetho, ababizi kakhulu, kwaye, umzekelo, isibonelelo sokubeka i-questionnaire kwithuba elithile kwiphepha lokuqala lesayithi linokuba luncedo kakhulu.

Ukuba ufuna ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo iimibuzo zabafana, ngoko uya kuthotyelwa kwenye imithetho yokuthandana kwikhompyutha. Ngokuqinisekileyo, i-questionnaire yakho kufuneka isenomdla (emva koko, intombazana oyithandayo iya kuyijonga xa ubhalela), kodwa akuyiyo into eyona nto. Into eyona nto kukufumana umntu ofanelekayo kwaye ubhalele kuye ukuze abe nomdla kuwe (apha imigaqo efanayo ifake isicelo sokubhaliswa kwemibuzo-mvume).

Kunengqiqo ukudala i-imeyile emithathu ngokukhethekileyo ekuthandeni inthanethi. Bhala umntu owakuthandayo kuzo zonke iidilesi ezintathu, enye uchaza onke amanqaku akho ambi kakhulu, kwelinye - xelela ngawe njengokuba uyinyani, kwaye ngowesithathu uzihlobise kangako. Emva koko ujonge ukuba yeyiphi incwadi eya kuphendula. Njengomthetho, ukuba umfana uphendula zonke iileta ezintathu, akayi kuthatha inzala enkulu ekuthandeni inthanethi, kwaye mhlawumbi, ayiyi kuhamba kunxibelelwano olubonakalayo. Ukuba umntu uyaphendula kuphela kwidilesi apho uzinikezele khona - umfana uyamkhangela, ngoko ke, ubudlelwane bakhe kunye naye buyakwazi ukungahambisani naye. Kodwa ukuba uyaphendula loo ncwadi, apho uchazwa ngokukhanya kwangempela, udibanise ngesibindi ingxoxo-ngakumbi ezo nxu lumano.

Umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu ukhuseleko xa udibana nabafana kwintanethi - akakho, ngaphandle kokumqonda umntu ngomntu, unganiki umnxeba wekhaya, nangona kunjalo, idilesi yakho. Musa ukundixelela indlela yokuya endlwini yakho. Kodwa iifowuni inokunikwa, ngaphezu koko, kungcono ukuba ungalibali ixesha lesibhalelwano, ncokola nomfana kwifowuni, kunye neyesithathu okanye yesine kwaye uvumelane kwintlanganiso. Akukho nxu lumano ayiyi kukuvumela ukuba wazi malunga nomntu ongaphezulu koqhagamshelwano lobuqu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, awuvumelani nomhlangano wokuqala kwindawo engafani okanye ekhaya - akunandaba nokuba yena okanye wena. Kodwa ipaki ebanzi, isixeko sendawo okanye i-cafe iya kwenza okulungileyo.

Le yimiyalelo elula yokuthandana nomntu onganiselwano kwi-intanethi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, yonke intombazana ngokwayo ikhetha isicwangciso kunye namaqhinga okuthintana nolwahlukileyo olwahlukileyo, kubandakanywa kwinethwekhi, kodwa imigaqo yokhuseleko kufuneka ilandelwe rhoqo, kwaye phakathi kwezinye izinto ziya kufumana into enomdla kuye. Abantu abaninzi namhlanje bafumana i-destiny yabo kwi-intanethi kwaye ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi ulindele kuwe kwisiza sokuthandana.