Apha ihlobo elilinde ixesha elide - ixesha leeholide kunye neeholide. Ungayichitha njani kunye kunye ne-crumb encinci efanelekileyo kwaye inomdla?
Ukuba udibana nalo mbuzo kunye nezingane zakho, uya kuziva ukuba xa ukhetha indawo yeholide leyo, umntu kufuneka akhokelwe yindawo ekufuphi kuyo. I-villa ye-suburban efanelekile, indlu ka-Grand-grandfather's kwidolophana okanye kwisibhedlele kufuphi nesixeko sakho. Esi sikhundla sichazwa ngokulula. Okokuqala, ngoko umntwana akayi kuba nako ukutshintshwa kwenguqu yemozulu, kwaye okwesibini, "kwimeko apho" unokuhlala uhlala ekhaya. Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze xa ulala uze ubone amaza olwandle, unxweme ophuzi, kwaye ufuna ngokwenene ukuhamba nohambo? Ewe, kunokwenzeka, ukuba yonke into ihlelwe ngokuchanekileyo. Kuphi ukuphumla?
Njengoko sele kukhankanywe, inketho eyamkelekileyo yokuphumla nomntwana yindlu ephantsi kwesi sixeko. Okokuqala, akukho mvume yokuthobela, okwesibini, uyayazi le ndawo kwaye uya kuba nakho ukubonelela ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, uncedo lwezonyango. Unako ukuya kwindlu yelizwe kwangaphambili kwaye uhlele yonke into yokuphumla kunye nosana. Olunye "udibaniso" - ikhaya lakho linokukubona lula kwaye likulethe iimveliso oyifunayo.Onye "kodwa" ... khumbula ukuba uya kuphumla nomntwana, kwaye ungabandakanyeli kwizicwangciso zentsapho. Ukungqinelana nokuphumla kweli lizwe kunokusebenza kuphela. Kodwa kule meko kukho indlela yokuphuma: ingaqeshwa ehlobo.
Enye indlela yokuphumla kwi-cottage inokuba yivawutsha kwiziko lokuzonwabisa elikufutshane nedolophu yakho. Ewe, ukuba umntu ovela kubahlobo bakho nabantwana sele esele ehamba khona, baya kuba nako ukuxelela malunga "neengqungquthela", kwaye, ekuphumeni kweeholide, uya kukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kwaye uyayilumkisa ngani. Ukuba uya kwindawo engaqhelekanga, cela ngaphambi kweemeko: ngaba kukho ugqirha kwisiseko, ukulungiswa kokutya njani. Ngeke kube lula ukuba ulindele "izindlu zekhadibhodi ngaphandle kwezinto ezifanelekileyo." Kule meko, onke amandla omama aya kukwasekwa kwempilo yemihla ngemihla, kwaye angabi nandipha ngokuphumla kunye nabanye.
Ulwandle lwabantwana luyabomeleza kwaye ludumise. Amageyitha anamaqabunga amancinci kunye namaqebunga ahlakulela izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, ukuhlamba kwamanzi olwandle kuphucula ukunikezelwa kwegazi, umsebenzi weentlanzi kunye ne-endocrine. Kuthekani ngomoya! Ukuba umntwana wakho sele sele eneminyaka eyi-6 ubudala, unempilweni kwaye ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo, unokugqiba isigqibo ekuhambeni kolwandle. Kwakhona, cwangcisa uhambo oluya ngasentla ukuba lucetyiswa ngonyango lwezilwanyana ngezizathu zonyango (izibhengezo, ukuvuselelwa emva kwezifo zokuphefumula). Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, qwa lasela ukuba inkqubo yokungqinelana kweentsana ithatha malunga neentsuku ezili-10, ngoko ke mthabatha umntwana elwandle ubuncinane kwiiveki ezi-3. Uhambo olufutshane aluyi kuba luncedo kuphela, kodwa luyakwenzakalisa impilo yemntwana. Cinga, mhlawumbi, isigqibo sokuba ususe kuyo yonke ihlobo ihlobo lolwandle luya kuba luhle kuwe.
Ngaba ufuna ukuhamba yonke intsapho kwindlela yokuya kwelinye ilizwe? Inzuzo yokungahambi kakuhle kokuphumla kwamanye amazwe yinqanaba eliphezulu lenkonzo. Uhambo oluya kwi-sanatorium kunye nehambo, umzekelo, ukuya eTurkey kuyafana. Ngesinye isikhathi kwihotele yaseTurkey iimeko eziphilileyo ziya kuba ngcono - ichibi elinamanzi ahlambulukileyo, umoya ophezulu kwigumbi kunye nezinye izibonelelo zentlalo. Akuyi kuba neengxaki zokutya - ukuba ufuna itafile yokutya, ngoko isicelo sakho sabapheki bendawo siya kunika. Eyona nto "kodwa" ... Uhambo olungaphaya kwamanye amazwe ungahamba kuphela kuloo nto, ukuba unokucwangcisa ikhefu okungenani iiveki ezi-3. Kule meko, ungahambi kumazwe aqhelekileyo, khetha iindawo ezinesimo esifana nesimo sezulu-ukuguquka okubukhali kwimozulu kunye nemimandla yexesha ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kuhamba kakuhle.
Ewe, yeka yonke into kwaye ngaphambi kokuya eholidini "inkululeko." Ngokuqinisekileyo, kumnandi kakhulu, njengeminyaka yomfundi, ukudibanisa inkampani yolwazi olufanelekileyo, ukuthatha iitente, iibhegi zokulala, iibhitari, iibheki zokukhanda kunye neengqungquthela, ngoku ngoku, iintsapho, ngokunyuka. Ukuba inkampani enkulu iya kuhamba, unokunyamekela abantwana, ubukele ikhitshi uze uhlambe izitya - kwaye uza kuba nethuba lokuphumla, uthathe ukungcola echibini okanye kumlambo, ususe ilanga. Enyanisweni, konke oku kuyi nyaniso, kodwa ... i-Porridge, iphekwe kwisibonda, ihlamba kwaye ihlamba emthonjeni, ukulala okuvuthayo kwihlathi lepine - lo mthando ulandela bonke abantwana abadala. Ukongeza, kude nempucuko, umama uya kuphazamiseka ngcamango "kodwa ngokukhawuleza ..."
Yintoni endifanele ndiyizise nam?
Enye yemisebenzi ephambili yentsapho ehamba nohambo kukuqokelela iifomethi ngokuchanekileyo. Ingakanani inokuyiluncedo eluhambweni! Kakade, akufanele uthathe yonke impahla yekhaya nawe endleleni, kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akumele ulibale into efunekayo. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuqala ukwenza uluhlu lwezinto eziyimfuneko ngeveki ngaphambi kokuhamba. Yaye yonke imihla ukubhalela kuyo into oyisebenzisileyo namhlanje kwaye ngaphandle kwakho kunye nentwana ongenakukwazi ukwenza kwiholide. Mhlawumbi uluhlu lokugqibela lulo lulandelayo:
I-Kangaroo okanye ityhiyiti kunye ne-stroller elula yokubamba "umdaka" - ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba luncedo ekuhambeni.
Iidrafers - thatha umgama omkhulu, uhambo lonke - ngokukhawuleza awukwazi ukuzithenga khona ndawo.
Izambatho. Gqoka ezinye iimpahla ukuze ungahlamba yonke imihla. Ungakulibali ukubamba into efudumeleyo kwimeko yemozulu embi kunye nezolo epholile. Uze ungalibali i-headdress, eya kukukhusela intloko yeemvuthu ukusuka elangeni.
Iiterala zeTerry - zinyamekele ukuba zihlukaniswe ulwandle kunye nokubonisa.
Iipilisi zephepha kunye neendlela zokucoca amanzi - ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba zifikeleleke kuzo zombini nasendleleni.
Iidrafers - zinokusebenza njengephepha elilula okanye i-cover for chair.
Iziqholo zezingane (isepha, i-gel yokuhlamba, i-shampoo, i-cream cream okanye ubisi lwezonyango) - awaziwa ukuba ungathenga izimonyo eziqhelekileyo kwintsana yakho kwindawo, kwaye isikhumba esitsha singabonakala kuye.
Ama-Creams okanye i-lotions ukusuka emva nangemva kokutyhulwa - xa ukhetha, qiniseka ukuba ubeke ingqalelo kwiindlela ezifanele umntwana ngokudala, kwaye i-sunblock inezinga lokukhusela okungenani i-SF 30 ("Biocon", Chicco, Bubchen).
Izitya zezingane - iplate, i-spoon, indebe. Ukuba umntwana usesondlo sokwenza okuthile - isethi yeebhotile, ingxowa. Ukuba isifuba - umpu webele uya kuba luncedo.
Amathoyizi - thabatha abanye bathandwa kakhulu ukuba bathathe imvuthuluka endleleni. Olutsha - "i-diggers" elunxwemeni okanye i-rattle ongayithenga kuyo.
I-ambulula yaselwandle iyimfuneko ukuba umntwana athathe iibhitshi zelanga emthunzini.
Ukunyamekela isonka sohla ngemihla
Ukuhamba nomntwana ukuphumla, kufuneka ucinge ngokucacileyo indlela ukutya kwakhe kuya kulungiswa ngayo.
Ukuba uya ku tyelela ugogo wakho, ngoko yonke into iyacaca - ukutya kuya kuqhelaniswa, umgangatho wokutya. Kodwa ukuba uya esikhungweni sokuzonwabisa okanye kwisibhedlele, kufuneka uthabathe ithikithi "ngokutya", ukuze ungayi kuma iholide kwisitofu. Enyanisweni, ukuba umntwana ubelethwe, akuyi kuba neengxaki zokutya. Qhubeka uwalondla ngendlela efanayo njengoko wenzayo ekhaya. Ngendlela, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ikhefu akusiyo ixesha lokusuka kwibele okanye ukuqaliswa kokutya okuncedisayo . Ukuhlehlisa oku kutshintshwa kweziganeko kamva. Ingane yakho isele iqalile ukuzama ukutya kwabantu abadala? Musa ukuzama nokuvelisa iimveliso ezintsha ekudleni kwakhe. Thatha nawe ukusuka kwindlu ekulungiselelwe ukutya kwezingane. Ayaziwa ukuba ungayithenga kwindawo leyo. Ukongeza, ukwenzela ukuba ugweme ukusulelwa ngamathumbu emathunjini, unike umntwana umntwana ukuba aphephe iibhotile okanye, kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, abilisiwe. Xa ebuya ekhaya, umntwana uya kuphinda ahlawule ukulungelelanisa, ngoko ngeveki ujonge ukutya okuqhelekileyo kwintsana. Yiba nokuphumla okuhle!
Ndiyabulela ngoncedo lwakho ekulungiseleleni u-Olga Sergeevna Kachalova, udokotela wezilwanyana, uMviwa weSayensi yezoNyango.
Ukuhamba uhambo, ungalibali ukuthabatha ikiti yokuqala yokunceda!
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