Indlela yokufumana indoda

Abasetyhini abaninzi bayazibuza "indlela yokufumana indoda" ngobudlelwane obunzulu, ngobusuku obunye, ngomphefumlo okanye ngomzimba, kunye nokukhulelwa kunye nemfundo yabantwana, okanye kwimfundo esele ikhulelwe.

Okokuqala, qwalasela okwenzayo oku. Ndenze i-hairstyle yefestile, yambatha ingubo emfutshane ngephunga elincinci, yenziwe i-makeup. Izenzo ezinjalo ziphela.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ibhinqa kufuneka ibonakale ilungileyo kwaye iphunga elimnandi limele livela kuye, kodwa oku akwanele, kuba phantse bonke abafazi benza okufanayo.

Ufumana njani indoda? Amadoda amaninzi adinga ukunyuka ukuze afikelele kumfazi, ngakumbi ukuba uyamthanda.

Izizathu zingahluka.

Ayikho indawo efanelekileyo - Wonke umntu unobandlululo lokuziphatha okuhlukeneyo, umzekelo, omnye umntu ucinga ukuba abafazi abahloniphekileyo abaqhelani nesitalato, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo loo mzamo uya kuphelelwa ekutheni okanye uya kucinga kakubi ngaye.

Mhlawumbi uxakekile, kwaye ukuba ubuhle obunjalo abuqeshwanga, ngoko ke unomdla ongenakubekezelelwa. Ndandicinga njalo ngaphambili, kodwa emva kokumba kwiiforam ezahlukileyo, amanxibelelwano enzentlalo, iindawo zokuthandana, ndagqiba ekubeni ndiphosakele. Ukongezelela, "umfazi womntu" wam nje ufumana umsebenzi omtsha, apho iqela labesetyhini, kuphela omnye wabo ohlala kunye nomfana (kunye nam), kunye nomnye utshatile, abanye bafunwa. Yaye ininzi yabo ibhinqa elithandekayo.

Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto, kodwa ngokukodwa ukwesaba, ewe, nathi sinabantu abanelungelo lokwesaba. Kwaye, ukuba ukhangele kuyo, phantse zonke izizathu ziyisizathu senu, kwaye ukukhangela izizathu ezinjalo kuqala ngokuyika, ukwesaba ukukhishwa, kubonakala ngathi idiot, njl njl.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda ayesaba ukuthetha nabasetyhini, kunye nalabo abangesabi, abayithinteli ibhinqa kunye nokubopha umntu onjalo kuya kuba nzima okanye akunakwenzeka.

Ibhinqa kufuneka ibe ngowokuqala ukunika iimpawu zengqwalasela kumntu othobekileyo, umzekelo, ukudubula amehlo, ukumncumo, ukubambelela kuye.

Oku kuya kwandisa amathuba, ukuba uya kukwazi ukuza. Kwaye kungcono ukuqala ingxoxo ngokwakho, umbuzo othize, unokucela ixesha okanye uye kwisitalato sikaKarl Liebknecht, kwaye ngelixa ephendula, jonga amehlo akhe kwaye umomotheka (kungekukho ukukhohlisa).

Emva koko qhubeka uqhubeka nencoko, unokwazi ukuziqhelanisa. Umntu uya kukhangela ngokukhawuleza ukuba unomdla kuwe okanye cha, uqala ukuba neentloni, ukumamatheka, kukho intle emehlweni akhe, ngoko unomdla.

Oku kufanele kube ngokwaneleyo ukuba asebenze, kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, kunokwenzeka, njengokuba kunjalo, ukumhlangabeza ngengozi ngenye indlela. Kodwa ungayithandi, kuba ufuna ukuba anqobe.

Kwaye ngoko, ngoko uyamlandela, ayidingi mntu. Ukuba umfana uyazi ukuba ufuna ukumhlangabeza ngokukodwa, ngoko akayi kukuphumelela, ngaphezu koko, unokufumana amanqaku kuwe.

Ngamanye amagama, kufuneka ubenomdla kwaye ukhuphe ukwesaba okufutshane, uze umvumele enze yonke into ngokwakhe, unokuyichukumisa kuphela inkwenkwezi ngenxa yenkosikazi enhle.

Kuphi konke oku kwenziwa? Ewe, naphi na, esitrato, kwisitrato, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, kwi-cafe, kwiqela. Ndiza kuqaphela nje ukuba kungcono ukuba ndikwazi ukuphilisa kunokuphila kwi-intanethi. Amadoda anesilumko awayekanga emnatha. Musa nje ukuhlehlisela ngomso, le mihla yokutya ingahlala ngonaphakade kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba.

Ngokusondeleyo umkhangeli, vala ikhompyutha uze ufumane abafana ababandakanyekayo!