Unokubala njani i-waxer?
Indlela yokususwa
Into elula kakhulu eyahlula umfazi kumntu oqhelekileyo ungumhlobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu omaziyo uziphatha ngokuthobekileyo nangokunyanisekileyo, okusoloko ebhenela kubasetyhini, kuba lenza lube luleke kwaye luxabiseke. I-femanizer isoloko izama ukudlala indima yaloo mntu, eyakholelwa ukuba ingaphezulu kwayo yonke, izama ukugxininisa iimpawu zangaphandle, njengomshini, kwaye zihlala ziziqhayisa. Ngexesha elifanayo lingaba lukhulu kakhulu.
Ukuchithwa kwamagama eengcamango
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye umfazi, nangona akazange ahlangane naye, tozh uvile nje ngala madoda alungile kuphela ngamazwi, kwaye xa kuthengwa kwishishini, ngoko aphelelwa yindawo ethile. Le yinye yempawu yowomanizer oqhelekileyo-ngokuqhelekileyo ngamazwi ukulungele ukunikela yonke into kuwe, ukuba uhlukanise umtshato, ukuwazisa amaxhoba, ukuba unike isandla sakhe nentliziyo, kodwa ude ufumane ingcamango, kwaye emva koko - wambona kuphela. Ukuba umntu uthembisa kakhulu, kodwa akanalo ixesha lokunika ixesha, mhlawumbi unalo nanye, okanye awunomdla kakhulu kuye njengoko epeyintiweyo. Jonga bhetele umntu oza kukulungele ukukubonisa ingqalelo.
Ixesha lemini
Ukuba umntu uyavuya kukubona nje ngokuhlwa okanye ekupheleni kwebusuku, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba uvela kuwe ufuna enye - ibhedi. Kulula ukuqaphela, ngakumbi ukuba usuku oluvela kuye alukho iindaba ezifanayo, kwaye ngokuhlwa ucinga zonke iintlobo zezizathu zokuba zizathu zokuba zizathu. Ukuba umntu uyayixabisa intombazana njengomntu, uya kuba nomdla ekukhulumeni nayo nayiphi na imini yosuku nangayiphi na indawo, oko kukuthi, uya kuba nomdla wokuhamba naye epakini okanye kumyuziyam, uhamba malunga nomzi.
Ubuninzi bemincoma
Oo, kula madoda alamantombazana ahamba phambili phambi kwamadoda aqhelekileyo - emva koko, kwiimeko ezininzi, sinemizuzu neminyaka yoqeqesho. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo onke amancomo abo ayengaphezulu. Ukuhlukanisa ukunyaniseka okunyanisekileyo ukusuka kumgangatho osemgangathweni wezincomo ze-femanizer kungabonakaliswa ngoluphawu olulandelayo-ukuba u-prawns ukhangele enye kuphela, kwaye ngokuhlukahluka okuphindaphinda into efanayo-qaphela, mhlawumbi uzama ukuvala "ukususa".
Akukho mpendulo, akukho mkelekile
Enye yezenzo ezimbi kakhulu ezinokuthi zilandelelwe ngumfazi womzimba xa, emva kokuchitha ubusuku bothando, akabonakalisi kwakhona ebomini bakho, uyaphela nje ngaphandle kwezilumkiso, amanqaku okanye iifowuni. Kule meko, kukulungele ukulibala kwaye uqhubeke. Apha unokuqonda ngokukhawuleza oko akufunayo kuwe, ngoko ngenxa yoxolo lwengqondo, kungcono ukucinga ukuba ufuna kuphela okufanayo kuye.
I intanethi
Ubuchwephesha bwanamhlanje ejongene noonxibelelwano olunxulumene noluntu lunokunceda ukufunda okuninzi malunga nolwazi olutsha. Kwaye ukuba ukuba kwiphepha lemifanekiso yamadoda, apho achitha ixesha kunye namantombazana ahlukeneyo, abahlobo bakhe balawulwa yintombi, le sizathu esicacileyo sokuba siqaphele .Umntu oqhelekileyo akanakwenzeka ukuba aguqule ubomi bakhe ibe ngumcimbi omkhulu ngabahlobo.
Elide
Kukho abantu abambalwa abesabayo ukuthatha iimbopheleleko, okanye abafuni ubuhlobo besikhathi eside, okanye abafuni ukubopha kumntu othile. Kuzo zonke iimeko bazama "ukuthabatha" umntu ngoncedo lokudlala ngothando, kodwa bonke abo bafuna ukuwanelisa. Ukuba umntu akazange adibana nentombazana iminyaka emininzi ngokulandelanayo, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo liqinisekisa ukuba akayidingi ulwalamano oluqinileyo, mhlawumbi mhlawumbi ungumgqirha. Indoda ethatha ibhinqa ngokubalulekileyo kufuneka ihlale kunye nayo ubuncinane ubuncwane bonyaka.
Ukudlala
Ngokuqinisekileyo, njengoko kuyaziwa ngokubanzi, uhlobo lwabantu lulolu hlobo lokuba amehlo abo adonsela kwiindawo ezihle. Nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuba ayidlulele imida - ukuba umntu ongenawo ahlawule ngakumbi ingqalelo kubasetyhini abasondezayo, kwaye kungekhona wena, iqabane lakhe, ke le lixesha lokubonisa. Ngomntu oqhelekileyo, iqabane lakhe lihlala linombolo enye, kwaye kwabanye kufuneka bhathathele ingqalelo, kuba abafazi bakhe banelungelo kuye.