1. Indoda yakho yatshintshe indlela yakhe yokujonga. Emva kokuba uchithe ixesha elide kakhulu ukuba umenze uhlambe imihla ngemihla. Kwaye ngoku yena ngokwakhe ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo zakho imihla ngemihla uhlamba ekuseni kwaye ngokuhlwa ngokuhlwa. Kwaye emva koko uthi uya kusela kunye nabahlobo bakhe.
Uqaphele ukuba utshintshile indlela yakhe yokugqoka kwaye waqalisa ukuhlaziya ikhabethe kunye nokuba uyaphawula i-cologne ephathekayo kwi-shelf yakhe. Kwakhona waqala ukutyelela i-gym kwaye ujabulela yonke i-drop of kilogram. Esi sizathu sokuqala sokuhlaselwa kwakhe.
2. Uqaphele ukuba watshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo kuwe. Ngaphambi kokuba abe nomona kuwe bonke. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uhlala emsebenzini, wayehlala ecwangcisa ama-scandals kunye nemibuzo. Inokuba nayo enye indlela. Ukuba umntu wakho uhlale ezolile, kodwa ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kwesizathu esilungileyo, waqala ukukrokrela ukukhwabanisa, okwakungekho kwaye akunako.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza waqala ukubamba zonke izinto ezincinci. Emva kokuba wayeyithanda yonke into ngawe ongayenzanga, kodwa ngoku uhlala ekholiswa yinto yonke. Kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba umntu wakho uhlala eqinile, kwaye awuzange ubone izipho ezivela kuye, kodwa apha akucaci isizathu sokuba aqale ukukuzalisa ngeentyantyambo, uyancoma kwaye uthe indlela enhle ngayo.
3. Kwakhona isizathu sokumnxusa ukuba uhlaselo luye kukuba waqala ukuchitha ixesha elide emsebenzini. Awukwazi ukufikelela kuye, uhlala exakeke ngeengxoxo kunye neentlanganiso. Okanye uvele wamcima ifowuni yakhe yeselula. Kwaye ukuba sele sele enomsebenzi ohambelana nokuhamba kwezoshishino, kwaye waqala ukuhamba ngokuphindaphindiweyo apho, okanye ukuhlala emva kokuhamba kwezoshishino. Kwaye kwaqala ukufika ebusuku
4. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba wayenentombi edla ngokumbiza, kwaye uchazela kuwe ukuba ubudlelwane babo buhlobo kuphela kwaye akukho nto.
5. Ngokukhawuleza wayeka ukukuthatha emibuthanweni.
6. Uqaphele ukuba akasayi kushiya ifowuni kufuphi nawe kwaye uhlala ehamba naye.
7. Kwakhona isizathu sokuba utshintshe ukuba uqale ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kufuphi nekhompyutha, kodwa xa ufuna ukubona oko akwenzayo, iiphasiwedi zibekwa kuyo yonke indawo.
8. Uqaphele ukuba ubulili buye buba buhlungu kwaye bubuhlungu. Kwaye maxa wambi akufuneki ukuba, ukuba awuthathi nxaxheba.
9. Ukuba umntu wakho unemali encinane yokuzisa ekhaya. Kungenzeka ukuba wayeza umntu.
10. Eyona, iphuzu lokugqibela kukuba uqaphele umatshini womnye umntu emotweni yakhe, njengoko uthi izinto ezilibala.
Ngoku uyazi ukuba ungayibona njani ukutshutshiswa komntu othandekayo.