Sisiphi isipho endikukhethayo ?
Ungalokothi unike intombazana into ethile, ukuba kuphela, njengoko bethetha, beka uphawu. Uya kuhlola esi sipho ngokufanelekileyo, nomsindo kuwe. Kwakhona, ukuba umntwana wakho unomsindo kwaye unganakulinganisela, unokuba nethemba ekuphumeni kwakhe, kwaye oku kuya kwenza ukuba ucinge ngexesha elide. Njalo ulandele umgaqo wokuba ungcono ukwenza isipho esincinane, kodwa ulungile. Into leyo, nokuba ibiza, ayikho, ayiyi kukukholisa umntwana wakho ngokungathi ayithengi ngexabiso, kodwa inomdla, inomdla kwaye ilinde ixesha elide. Makhe azive ukuba uyazi ngephupha lakhe, kwaye oku kukude nawe. Ukuba ungenayo imali eninzi ukuthenga isipho esibi, unokwenza okuthile ngezandla zakho, umzekelo, ukubopha okanye ukugcoba enye ibhatyi negama lomculi. Unokwenza isikhwama kunye nomfanekiso wesithixo. Ngokuphathelele intombazana, kuya kufuneka ucinge ngenye indlela. Zama ukufumanisa into enokuthanda ukuyifumana kwisikhokelo sesifundo uze usebenze.
Abaselula bafuna okungakumbi kwiinkathalo zethu kunabantwana abancinane. Ngokungafani nalokhu, bazama ukukhupha inkululeko yabo nokuzimela kwabo kubantu abadala. Bavakalelwa kukuba baye bakhula abantu abanelungelo lokuvota kwaye banendlela yabo yokujonga ubomi. Kwaye ke, ukuba kukho ubunzima bokukhethwa kwesipho, ke unike into engcono, eyamkelekileyo kuwe, isixa semali okanye ucinga ukuba imali ayiyi kubukeka iyimangalisa? Okanye ngaba kuza kubonakala ngathi uyakwazi ukufumana ubungenamandla? Yiphosa entlokweni yakho. Ngokuchasene nale nto, uya kugxininisa ukuzithemba kwakho ekuzimeleyo kwinkwenkwe, umntwana wakho, kwaye ufumane inhlonipho enkulu ngokwakho.
Isipho ngokwemfuno
Ukukhetha isipho kumfana osemtsha kuya kuba nzima, funda nje iindonga zegumbi. Kwaye kukho iipowusta kunye neefowusta, apho imifanekiso yamacandelo aphefumlelwe ngobuciko. Oku kuya kuba luhlobo loncedo xa ukhetha isipho. Thatha ithikithi yekhonsathi, kuba ubukho beetikiti ezimbini buya kumnika ithuba lokumema umngane okanye intombi. Ewe, ukuba ebomini bakho ubomi buninzi ixesha linikezelwa kwikhompyutheni, kuyafaneleka ukuba abuze ukuba unomnqweno wokungeza into ekuthandeni kwakhe, umzekelo, umthamo wememori yokusebenza iyafana ne-esweni esitsha, isondo lokuqhubela phambili kumdlalo okanye kwikhadi elizwakalayo. Intombazana intsha ingakwazi ukufundiswa ukubhalisa kwisikolo samaspilli okanye iklabhu yezempilo. Mhlawumbi, nguye ophupha malunga ... Kodwa kukho izikolo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo zokwenza nokudanisa. Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba intombazana iphupha ukuba ngumdlali.
Eminye imithetho embalwa
Ungaze wenze izipho zokukhula. Khumbula ukuba abantwana abasenayo ingomso ngengomso, kuba bahlala kuphela emini namhlanje. Ngoko, iingubo ezinikelwe ehlobo aziyi kumkholisa. Futhi ungalokothi wenze izipho ezisebenzayo. Musa ukulibala malunga nokusebenza kunye neemfuno zansuku zonke. Yenza isipho esicacileyo nesikhunjulwayo.
Xa ukhetha iimpahla, ungenzi wedwa. Kuya kuba ngcono xa uthengela isatifiketi sesipho semali ethile kwisitorethi sokugqoka ulutsha kwaye wenze isipho kule fomu. Ngoko uya kuba nethuba lokuzikhethela ngokuzimeleyo oko akuphuphayo. Ungakholelwa, apha uza kubulala iintaka ezimbini ngelitye elinye - uza kubonisa ukuthembela kwakho kumntwana osemtsha - kwindawo yokuqala. Ngesibili, unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuzuza ngokuthe ngqo oko wayezithengela yona. Kodwa cinga nje umzuzu-into efanayo oyithengayo. Apha uyakwazi ukuyiqonda ngokucacileyo, njengokungathi uzimisele ukuthanda kwakho. Ngeke kubekho iingxaki ukuba umntwana ufumana yonke into ebomini.
Izipho zabantu abadala
Isipho se-ipus, okhethile, siya kufanekisela umntu omdala osemtsha. Okanye, kuya kubonakala ngathi ukwazisa ukuba unelisekile kwaye ungathandabuzeki. Yeka into leyo ingabibizi, kodwa umntu omdala. Intombazana inokuvuyisiswa kunye neeseti zezimonyo. Kodwa ukuthengwa okunjalo kufanele kwenziwe ngokuqwalasela ubudala, njengesikhumba esincinci udinga uhlobo olukhethekileyo lwezonyiso. Kwimeko enjalo, kuya kuba ngcono ukuthenga isatifiketi sokuthengwa kwisitresho sesithambiso, ukuze intombazana ikhethe isipho ngokwayo. Kukho iinkqubo zokwenza, apho bafundisa ukusebenzisa izimonyo ngokuchanekileyo, ukongeza kwaye ugxininise ubuhle bayo bemvelo ngoncedo lwezonyango. Ngoko uthenge intlawulo yezo zifundo. Yintoni enokuyakholisa intombazana yakho?
Umfana osemtsha, ngokwemvelo, uya kuvuya kakhulu ngesipho esivela kwizinto ezisezingeni eliphezulu. Kulo mbuzo kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba yintoni kanye efuna ukuyifumana njengesipho, ephuphayo ngaye. Ukuba into ephuphayo iprogram kwaye sele isele indlela ehamba phambili kwiiprogram ezifundiswa esikolweni, mnike ngesipho sokuqeqeshwa okuqingqiweyo koqeqesho njengesipho. Esi sipho siya kumkholisa umntwana kwaye siya kuba sisiseko sakhe esilandelayo ekuphuculeni phambili kunye nobomi.