Indlela yokukhulula iimfuno zobuxoki

Ingqondo yethu inekhono elimangalisayo lokusinceda ukuba into ehambelana nokunyaniseka, nokuba ayikho. Ndiyifumene oku xa nditshintsha indlela endiyenza ngayo, kwaye xa ndandichitha udoti.

Xa ulahla i-junk (kwaye utshintshe imikhwa), ucinga ukuba ufuna into ethile. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwayo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuyiyeka. Nangona kunjalo akunjalo. Le nkolelo yamanga, imfuno yonyani. Nazi ezinye izibonelo:

• Ndifuna ishizi. Ngoko ke ndacinga ixesha elide, kwaye landibeka ekubeni ndilahle imveliso yobisi engafanelanga umzimba wam. Kwavela ukuba le ngcamango ephosakeleyo. Ezinye iindidi: Ndiyayifuna iwayini, i-tshokoleta, iipesele, ii-chips, njl njl. Akukho nanye yale nto yinyaniso yempilo okanye yengqondo.
• Izinto ezinomdla, njengemifanekiso, iifoto, izikhumbuzo zabantwana, izipho ezivela kubathandekayo-abaninzi abantu abafuni ukuhlukana nabo, njengoko befanekisela imemori okanye uthando. Kodwa oku akuyinyani, kuba uthando okanye iinkumbulo ezingabonakaliyo kweli zihloko, ziphezu kwentloko nentliziyo yakho.
• Ndifuna izinto zokuziva zikhuselekile. Kubonakala kungenangqungquthela ukuba ungabi neentaba zezinto, kuba abantu abaninzi abanempahla yindlela yokukhusela. Akunjalo - izinto azikuniki ukhuseleko olungakumbi. Oku kunikwa ngokufumaneka kwamatyala amancinci amancinci, kunye necebo lokugcina.
• Ndifuna ukutshekisha i-imeyile x ngamaxesha ngosuku. Uyakhathazeka ngokulahleka into ebalulekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kungabalulekanga, phantse akukaze kwenzeke, akunjalo. Ihlabathi lam lingakaze lidibane ngenxa yokuba andizange ndihlolisise ii-imeyli iiyure eziliqela, okanye isiqingatha semini, okanye yonke imini. Uyenzela yonke into kamva.

Kusebenza nakwizonxibelelwano zentlalo.

• Ndifuna ukuba yinto exakekile - kuba kungenjalo ibhizinisi lam liyi kuphumelela okanye kuba abantu abayi kucinga ukuba ndiyimpembelelo okanye ndinamandla. Ndafumanisa ukuba oku akunjalo. Ukuba uxakeke kakhulu, kuthetha ukuba uyazi indlela yokubeka phambili, kwaye uyakwazi ukuqikelela. Kwaye umphathi ophezulu wandibuza ukuba ndiyenze njani. Baye banomdla wokuba baxakeke kangangokuba bekude kunzima ukuyeka le mkhuba.
• Ndifuna iimpahla ezintle. Sikholelwa ukuba sifanele sijonge ngendlela ethile, bonisa umfanekiso okanye ulungele imeko. Ndifumene ukuba ndivumele ukuhamba kwidingo yokugqoka ukwenzela ukuba wenze ingqiqo. Endaweni yoko, ndinxiba iingubo ezintle, izambatho ezincinci, kwaye akukho namnye onalo nxamnye nalo. Ewe, imisebenzi ethile ingadinga ikhowudi ethile yokugqoka, kodwa nangona kunjalo, ezi mfuno zihlala zicelomngeni.

Zininzi ezinye iintlobo zeemfuno zobuxoki, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba uyayiqonda intsingiselo ngokwayo. Qala uhlolisise iinkolelo zakho uze uyeke ukucinga ukuba bonke bangokoqobo.

Indlela yokuhlangabezana neemfuno zobuxoki

Mhlawumbi ufumene imfuno yonyani. Kodwa ungayifumana njani ukuba usenokuba noloyiko olungenangqiqo olukhusela ukuba uzikhulule kuyo? Nazi ezinye iimbono:

1. Ukuhlola. Uyazi njani ukuba le mfuno iyinyani? Hlola. Ukuqhuba uvavanyo: sishiye oko kukufunayo, iveki okanye kwinyanga. Kwaye ukuba izinto zazingekho okubi, ngoko kwakufuneka imfuneko yonyani kwaye akudingeki ukuba uxhalabele kakhulu ngokuchasa.
2. Sebenzisa ibhokisi "inokwenzeka". Ukuba unayo izinto ongayisebenzisiyo, kodwa ukwesaba ukuba uya kuzifuna, zifake ebhokisini "mhlawumbi". Bhala ebhokisini lomhla wamhla, ulibeke kwigaraji okanye kwenye indawo, yenza isikhumbuzo kwikhalenda ngomhla wezinyanga ezi-6, kwaye ukuba ngeenyanga ezintandathu awudingi nantoni ebhokisini, unokukhupha ngokukhuselekileyo ezi zinto.

3. Qaphela ukuba uthando alukho kwizinto. Izinto ezinentsingiselo yentsingiselo zifanekisela uthando kunye neenkumbulo, kodwa ngokwenene, uthando alukho kwizinto. Izinto zikhumbuza uthando nothando, kwaye zibiza kakhulu, kuba zithatha indawo eninzi kwaye zifuna ukuba ube namandla kunye nexesha. Endaweni yoko, yenza isithombe sedijithali, unamathisele kwisibonisi sesilayidi, ongayidlala nyanga zonke okanye ezintandathu kwiinyanga, uze ulahle isihloko sakho. Ukuze ufunde oku, kungathatha ixesha elide, kodwa xa uphumelela, uya kulahla i-attachment yakho kwizifundo ezibangelwa iimvakalelo.
4. Zibuze into eyenzekayo kwimeko enzima. Ukuba uyayilahla into okanye imfuno, yintoni enokuba yimeko engathandekiyo? Ngokuqhelekileyo akuyibi kakhulu okanye kulungile. Unokukhupha ngokukhuselekileyo into ethile kwaye ungakhathazeki malunga naluphi na umonakalo.
5. Fumana isicwangciso sokulondoloza. Kuthekani kuthi ukuba imeko ebi kakhulu ayiyinto enhle kakhulu? Ngaba unako ukwanelisa isidingo kulo mzekelo nangayiphi na enye indlela? Uyakuthi ubolekise ithuluzi onqabile ukuba uyifunayo kumhlobo, okanye uthathe incwadi kwithala leencwadi, okanye ufumane into kwi-intanethi kunokugcina izinto ongazisebenzisiyo.

Ukukrazula iimfuno ezingamanga kubandakanya ukuhlola, ukuphonononga, ukuhlalutya ukwesaba kunye nembono ecacileyo yezinto.

Iiseshoni zansuku zonke

Nantsi indlela yokuqhuba iiseshoni zakho zemihla ngemihla ekubuyiseleni kubomi obungenanto eziqhotyoshelweyo:

1. Yenza uluhlu lwento ocinga ukuba uyayidinga ebomini, kunye noko ufunayo, kodwa oko akusiyo imfuno yakho.
2. Yonke imihla, qwalasela enye yezidingo okanye iimfuno. Ngaba le yimfuno yakho yangempela? Cinga ngesizathu sokuba uyidinga okanye kutheni ufuna? Ngaba le nto iyancedisa ubomi bakho, okanye ingaba nzima nje yonke into? Ngaba ungahlala ngaphandle kwayo kwaye wenze lula ubomi bakho ngale ndlela?
3. Cinga ngethuba lokushiywa kwexeshana kwidingo okanye umnqweno wokubona ukuba luhlobo luni lobomi oluya kuba ngaphandle kwalo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuyeka into ethile, silahlekisa iqela elipheleleyo lezinto ezinxulumene nazo. Umzekelo, ukuba unokushiya imfuneko yokubukela iTV ekupheleni kosuku, unokukrazula iTV, iinkonzo zeTV ze-cable, mhlawumbi kwii-chips okanye ii-cookies ozidlayo ngokubukela iTV. Lo ngumzekelo omnye nje kuphela, kodwa ukudala inkululeko kuthetha ukuyeka into esiyidingayo kuphela kwiimvakalelo, kungekhona ngokwenene. Iimfuno zeefayile zivela rhoqo ekudleni kwaye zikhokelela kwiziqhotyoshelweyo, ubunzima obukhulu, kunye nesono sokutya. Njengoko nayiphi na isinamathiselo, ngokutya, unokudala ubudlelwane bokuthula obungathathi hlangothi kusekelwe kwinkululeko. Kukhona i-dessert njengophatha kakuhle, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kweesekese. Jabulela iqela lomgangatho weshizi xa ufika e-Italiya okanye eSwitzerland kwaye ungaphuli ekutshintshweni kwayo. Okanye vumela ukuhamba kwidingo yekhofi yintambama kunye ne-tsholatshi ukunika i-adrenal glands into yokuba umzimba uphucule ngamandla kwaye ekugqibeleni ulahlekelwe isisindo. Konke okunokwenzeka, ukuba kuchanekileyo kule ndlela. Kwiprogram "Rainbow kwi-plate" uza kuba nethuba lokudala ubudlelwane obungathandabuzekiyo kunye nokutya kunye nokulahla izinamathiselo. Ngethuba elifutshane le nkqubo inikelwa mahala. Ungabhalisa kule khowudi.