Nguwuphi na oomama oye wahlushwa ngumbuzo wento enokupheka kwiqela labantwana? Yintoni yokupheka ukuze abantwana baneliseke kwaye bazele? Yintoni yokupheka ngala maqabunga, kwaye ziziphi izitya eziya kuthanda? Yintoni elungileyo okanye entle? Kwaye kukho imenyu "enempilo" yeeholide zezingane?
Indlela yokuphatha abantwana kwiholide?
Kakade, bakhetha into enomnandi, nokuba yingozi. Ngosuku lokuzalwa, ungathatha iziqhamo kunye nejusi esikhundleni seCoca-Cola, kuya kuba luncedo ngakumbi, kodwa oku kuvela kumbono wabantu abadala, kodwa abantwana abakucingi njalo. Emva koko, abantu abadala eholide bazincame ngaphezu kwexesha eliqhelekileyo, kwaye kutheni kungabikho abantwana?
Imenyu yabantwana iquka imilinganiselo emiselweyo yokusela, iziqhamo, ezithandekayo. Ukwenza umkhosi wokuzonwabisa, i-champagne engeyona yotywala ifanelekileyo. Kufuneka kubekho ikhekhe kumcimbi wokuzalwa. Abantwana abanomdla omncinci, kubo ubukhulu bekhekhe kwaye uhlobo lubalulekile. Emva koko, abayi kuthetha nabo ontanga, ukuba ikhekhe yayimnandi. Kwaye unokuziqhayisa ukuba ikhekhe lokuzalwa lalingamathathu.
Abantwana bathanda inkukhu i-schnitzel kwiintlanzi, iinkukhu ezinkukhu kunye namazambane adibeneyo. Akufanele kubekho isidlo esinzima kwimicimbi yokuzalwa. Abantwana abathandi inyama, badinga into yokutya ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuzonwabisa, gxuma, ugijime. Ukususela kwisiqhamo unokwenza i-mini-shish kebabs, kuba oku kusasaza kwi-skewers 4 iziqwenga zeziqhamo ezahlukeneyo.
Kwiqela lezingane kufuneka libe neetyekiti ezininzi kwaye kunjalo, isiskrimu esicinekileyo kunye nokuzaliswa okuhlukahlukeneyo - i-marmalade, i-chocolate, i-raspberry jam. Ukususela kwiinkwenkwezi, ezenziwa ngesibisi, abantwana banjengobhanana kunye ne-strawberry kakhulu.
Oko uza kuphatha abantwana kuxhomekeke kwimeko yeholide, ukuba ukufumana ukulungiswa okanye uza kuhlala kubantwana. Kukho nawuphi na, kuya kuba nemenyu elula. Iholide yezingane iifom elula kakhulu kwaye inomdla iyithebula le-buffet. Unokwenza iindidi ezininzi, ekuqaleni zenze iiswitshi ezincinci ezingaqhelekanga, ezithathayo ukuthatha.
Unokwenza itafile elimnandi kubantwana, upheke amaqebelengwane amancinci ahlukeneyo, ukuze ukwazi ukuwahambisa emlonyeni wakho. Kwaye ke, ikhekhe. Kwiholide zezingane, kungcono ukuba ungasebenzisi i-glassware, kodwa kunoko sebenzisa izitya zeplastiki ezintle. Ukuba ijezi zenziwa kwiiglasi zeglasi, kufuneka usebenzise iiglasi eziphantsi, apho kuya kuba lula ukuba abantwana basele.
Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka uxoxe nabazali babantwana abamenywe kumthendeleko, ukuba babone ukuba banayo imveliso yezilwanyana. Yaye xa usenza imenyu yeeholide, konke oku kuthethwa ngqalelo. Ukuba ufuna ukukholisa umntwana, ke ukhethe okokuthanda akuthandayo. Kwiqela lokuzalwa lomntwana yonke into kufuneka ibe yinto emangalisayo kunye neholide. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba isobho kunye ne-cutlets zidibene neeholide, ulindele into engavamile. Okungenani kanye ngonyaka, akufanele ubeke phambi kweendwendwe kunye neetayibhethi ezigcotyiweyo zokutya kunye ne-cutlets. Kungcono ube yiphiko lokukhupha inkukhu.
Eyathandwa kakhulu kumaqela abantwana ukuba iziphuzo eziqabulayo, ukuba ngobomi obuqhelekileyo awuvumeli ukuba uphuze iKoca-Cola, ngoko ke unamhlanje ungavunyelwa ukuba uzonwa ngesiselo esinqatshelwe. Kwaye akukho nto iya kuba yinto embi xa abantwana belo suku bahamba olunye usuku ukusuka ekudleni okunempilo. Ngaloo mini unako ukuvumela okufutshane.
Bonke abantwana bathanda ice cream. Kodwa iziqephu akufanele zibe zikhulu kakhulu. Kodwa into ephambili kwiholide yezingane yilekheke. Lo mzuzu wendlela. Kubantwana, into eyona nto kukukuvuthela ikhandlela. Zifanele zibe zihle.