Kukulungele ukuba nomhla kwaye uyakhohlwa yonke into kunye nomthandayo. Abacebisi bentsapho bakholelwa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha isibini esitshatileyo kufuneka simele sinike zonke iingxaki eziqhelekileyo kwaye sibe kunye kunye. Kwaye maxa wambi isibini esinesibindi sokuziva sisilungile, kwaye sifuna ukulungiselela umntu osithandayo ngokumncedisa ngomhla wokuthandana. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kuya kuba yinto ephumelelayo kunye neyokuzonwabisa ukuxhamla.
Isizathu somhla wokuthandana sinokuba isiganeko, isiganeko sokukhumbula, njalo njalo. Kwaye unokuhlela umhla kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu, nje ukwenza umntu othandekayo kunye nawe. Kwaye unokwenza oku rhoqo - ukulungiselela imihla ngemihla kunye nobusuku bokuthandana.
Okokuqala, sigqibo malunga nexesha nendawo. Kungcono ukuhlela usuku ngaphambi kweveki, ukwenzela ukuba kusasa kusasa, akukho namnye kuni omele asebenze ngokukhawuleza. Iindawo zendawo yokuthandana zingabaninzi kakhulu, kuxhomekeka kukucinga kwakho kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Umhla wokuthandana awudingi ukuba uphawulwe kwiprogram ye-banal, njengokudla kwi-cafe okanye uhambo lwama-movie, nangona apha, kwakhona, unokufakeka. Kwaye oku akudingeki ukuba ube yindlovu yokutya ekhaya, okokuqala kuqala engqondweni yabantu abaninzi. Umhla wokuthandana unokuqalisa yonke imini okanye kusasa kwaye iphela yonke imini!
Unokuhlela umhla ongaqhelekanga nolungalindelekanga, kunye nezinto zokuzonwabisa, ukuba ufuna. Unokuhamba ngokuhamba kwinqanaba le-desert, elinikezela ngombono omhle, ulungiselele unyango ngendlela ye-champagne kunye neziqhamo, mema abaculi abaza kukudlala umculo omnandi, kwaye uya kudansa nomhlobo wakho. Kwaye unako, umzekelo, ulungele uhambo oluya kwi-limousine kwisixeko sasebusuku, ngokubanga kunye ne-champagne. Okanye uhamba ngesikebhe, i-yacht.
Unokuba nepikiniki ukuba uyayithanda. Kungenzeka emini, kwaye kunokwenzeka kwaye kushushu ebusuku. Thatha ingubo, ingubo, itiye kunye nezinto. Jabulela omnye nomnye, ebusuku, ngeenkwenkwezi, ziholele iingxoxo ezingathandabuzo zothando kunye nokunye. Nantsi into ephambili ukucinga ngokucophelela malunga nendawo yepikiniki. Ungalungiselela kunye nomthandayo, umzekelo, ukukhwela ihashe, gxuma ngeparachute. Unokuthatha isitimela uze uye nasiphi na isixeko esiseduze, apho uya kuhamba yonke imihla kwaye ujabule. Unokwenza umyalelo ukusuka kubaqeqeshi umbutho wosuku olungavamile, umzekelo, ngomdlalo, ngokusekelwe kwiingcingo, ukuze ulandelele iifoto zothando kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi - yonke into iphela kumaphunga kunye nemali. Yiba yintsusa. Ungalungiselela isidlo sothando ngophahla lwezakhiwo eziphakamileyo. Khanyisa ikhandlela, vula umculo, gubungela isidlo sokutya: iwayini, iziqhamo, ukutya okulula. Ke wena kuphela, ubusuku neenkwenkwezi ziya kuba!
Enye indlela ukuhamba nje ehotele, apho ungatshintsha indawo eqhelekileyo yokuhlala kwinto entsha. Ehotele unakho ukulungiselela isidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kunye nobusuku obumnandi bothando, udibanisa yonke ingcinga yakho. Eli khetho lilungile kuba awuyi kuphazamiseka ngumlingane wakho, uphazamisekile, awuyi kupheka, uze uhlambulule uze uhlambe izitya, utshintshe indawo yomsebenzi ukusuka kwigumbi eliqhelekileyo ukuya kwigumbi lehotele kunokunyusa umnqweno wakho ngakumbi. Umyalelo wenani ngaphambili, awukwazi ngisho nangenye imini, kodwa ngeeninzi. Ukuba unabantwana, ushiye abantu abanokwethenjelwa uze ukhululeke. Musa ukucwangcisa ixesha lakho lokuzonwabisa, ushiye ikhefu ngeminqweno yangaphandle. Hlaziya, ncokola, nithandane. Ulibale malunga neekhomputer, iifowuni, amatyala kunye njalo njalo. Vumela u-romance yakho ebomini bakho, ukhohlwe malunga neengxaki zemihla ngemihla.
Ukuba unomdla wokulungiselela ulwalamane olusenyongweni ekhaya, kufuneka kwakhona ucinge yonke into ngaphambili. Makumangaliswe le nto kumyeni wakho. Okokuqala, cinga ngengubo yakho. Kuya kuba yintoni? Ukugqoka kwambatho, isambatho esingaphantsi kweengubo, ihembe lakhe, libeke umzimba ozelele okanye into? Ukuxhamla imimoya emihle. Khanyisa amakhandlela amaninzi endlwini, vula umculo womsondo, sebenzisa isibane somoya ukuze ugcwalise umoya ngephunga elithile. Ngeenjongo ezinjalo, iphunga le-bergamot, i-ylang-ylang, i-sandal, i-patchouli, i-sinamoni, njl njalonjalo. Kodwa musa ukuyithatha - inkohlakalo enamandla ingabangela intloko. Unokufafaza iipalal of roses kuyo yonke indawo, gcwalisa ibhedi ngamanzi afudumeleyo, wongeze i-foam. Sitshintsha ilinen ngelinen. Ibhedi, ngendlela, inokukhenkcezwa ngama-rose petals.
Gubungela itafile - faka iwayini okanye i-champagne, iziqhamo, ukutya okulula, umzekelo, iifatyambo zaselwandle, i-dessert elula. Khumbula ukuba ukutya akufanele kube nzima kwaye kunondle kakhulu, kwaye akufuneki kubekho utywala obuninzi. Itafile ihlotshiswe ngeentyantyambo kunye nekhandlela. Wena kunye nomthandi wakho unako ukubukela ifilimu ethandekayo, umdaniso womculo ophuculayo, uthetha ngezihloko ezintle, khangela iifoto zothando. Unokwenza umyeni wakhe uhlaziye umsila, umdaniso ngomdaniso wesondo kunye nokunye. Kwaye, ke, impawu eziphambili zelo busuku lihle ngesondo.
Ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi, kodwa ungenanga nomhla wokuthandana ofanelekileyo kuwe, thetha nabahlobo bakho, funda iincwadi ezahlukeneyo, ubukele iifilimu, mhlawumbi kwindawo ethile oza kuzifumana yona. Kwaye, ke, ukwakha kwizinto ezithandwa ngumntu othandekayo.
Uthando luyondla uthando lwethu, lusomeleza iimvakalelo zethu. Iziganeko zothando - oku yiloo nto umntu akhumbula ngayo ubomi bakhe bonke. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukucinga nantoni na, kwaye ungenayo isibindi namandla, kufuneka uzame! Into ephambili kukuba usebenze, kuba akunzima kakhulu ukwenza uthando kumntu wakho othandekayo. Kodwa emva kokuhamba ngothando uvakalelwa ngakumbi uthando nothando. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ngomhla wokuthandana, imvakalelo ifanele ifane! Ngoku uyazi indlela yokwenza indoda yakho ethandekayo ibe ngumhla wokuthandana. Uthando nolonwabo kwiintsapho zobudlelwane!