Iingcebiso zengqondo
Inyaniso kuthiwa le ngcamango iyimpahla. Unina ka-Elena esele ephantsi kwinqanaba le-10 leminyaka edlulileyo wayebonakala ekhangele intombi yakhe imeko apho "akayi kuba neebini." Okokuqala, kufuneka uhlale uqaphele ngeengcinga kunye neminqweno yakho, banakho ukukwazi ukuzaliseka. Ngokwemvelo, unina wayengafuni ukuba intombi yakhe ibe yedwa okanye ingatshatanga, kodwa wayebonakala ecinga engqondweni yakhe ukuba umhlobo ofanelekileyo ebomini intombi yakhe ayikho. Okwesibini, abafazi abaphumeleleyo nabanomdla ngokwabo benza umfanekiso wokungena. Ziyintle, ziphumelele, zinenjongo, zihlala zizikhokeli, ngoko amadoda angamabhinqa anesaba okanye aphelile, ngenxa yokwesaba "inenekazi". Inkokheli yendoda ayiyi kubavumela ukuba bawisele umthetho, umntu oxhomekeke kwindoda akanakho isibindi esaneleyo sokusondela "njengenkosikazi yekhephu". Okwesithathu, owesifazane ohlakaniphile, omhle, ophumelelayo udla ngokuba ngumsebenzi wokuphila. Okokuqala ufunda, ngoko ufuna umsebenzi othembisayo, uhamba phambili kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kwaye emva koko kuba "ukhohliwe" ukutshata nokuzala abantwana.
Sibeka phambili
Ebomini, akukho ndlela yokuba yonke into kanye. Kufuneka ukuba ukhethe. Ukuba unothando kunye nentsapho yasekuqaleni, ukuba uyabathanda abantwana kwaye ufuna ukuzalela abantwana ubuncinane ukuya kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu, uze ubeke umsebenzi wakho kwi-burner yangemuva. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ube ngumfazi wendlu kunye nomgcini wentsapho. Kunengqiqo kwaye kunelungelo lokufumana yonke into ebomini, ukuba uzibonele nje ngoomama wentsapho, kodwa nje ngokuba ngumntu othanda umsebenzi wakhe. Kungokuthi xa ufanele ukhethe ebomini, kufuneka ukhethe ngokufanelekileyo, ukuze ungazisoli kamva.
Ewe, ukuba akunjalo-onothando nothando
Kodwa yile nto kuphela kwaye musa ukuphoswa. Ngokukhawuleza entloko yam kule ngxaki iqala ukulusebenzisa eli binzana elithi: "Kukho uvuyo - ayikwazi ukuba".
Umntu othandekayo nothando nguye, uhlala kwindawo ethile, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kudibana. Into ephambili kukuba awukudluli. Mhlawumbi uya kukhwankqiswa xa ndithi le ntlanganiso ingenzeka xa ungeneminyaka engamashumi amabini ubudala ubudala, kodwa emashumi amathathu ngomsila omncinci ... Yonke into inexesha layo.
Yiyo nje kwesi sihloko ndifuna ukwabelana ngemeko ebomini kumhlobo wam omdala omhle. Xa uVictoria eseneminyaka engamashumi amabini ubudala ubudala, wayenothando olukhulu nolubonakalayo ngonaphakade. Igama lakhe nguOleg. UVika no-Oleg bahlala ndawonye emtshatweni womtshato malunga neminyaka emihlanu, baze "bathande," oko kukuthi, uOleg, washiya. Ngokukhawuleza watshata nomnye, kwaye kuVicky, kubonakala ngathi, ihlabathi lonke lehlile. I-mood iguquka, ixinezelekile, ixinzelelekile-iimpawu zowesifazane onesizungu kunye noshiyiweyo, ehamba kunye no-Vic iminyaka emininzi emininzi emininzi. Xa wayeneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, wayeselunxwemeni. Kodwa ubomi bethu yidube kwiimpawu ezimnyama kunye ezimhlophe. Kwaye nangona le miqatha engabonakaliyo ingafani, ingangokuthi, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kuya kubakho ukukhanyiselwa ngendlela yemigca emhlophe. Ngoko kwenzeka ntoni noVictoria. Ngoku uneminyaka engama-32 ubudala. Ngonyaka odluleyo, wamkela yonke into ayilindele iminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi: umsebenzi wokuba ngumphathi kunye nomthandayo omdala. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezedlulileyo wamtshata. Ngoku ba lindele ukuzaliswa kwintsapho yabo. Ngoku uVictoria akayena owaziyo kuphela kwaye ontle, kodwa uphumelele kwaye uyonwabile ...
Amadoda athanda iindenge kunye ne-blondes?
Ewe, amadoda anjengeziwula kunye nama-blondes, kwaye abathanda kakhulu ngobusuku obubodwa, kwaye sele esithandwa ngamanye amadoda ... Ibhinqa kufuneka ihlakaniphe kwaye ilumke ngelo xesha. Kwaye abantu bathanda ukuba banqobile, okanye ubuncinane bacinge ukuba bafezekisile okuthile okanye banqobe umntu. Musa ukugijima kwifowuni yokuqala yomntu oyithandayo, kodwa ungabonakali ngokubanda kwakho nokuzithemba. Umfazi owaziyo into ayifunayo, uya kufeza oku.
Akukho zikhulu! Sitshabalalisa iimbono!
Ingxaki yabasetyhini abahle kunye neengqondi kukuba kukuba ngobuhle babo benza umfanekiso wokungakwazi ukufikelela, kwaye iingqondo zabo azimniki umntu ilungelo lokwenza iphutha. Oku akukwenzekayo. Amadoda ngabantu abaqhelekileyo, abafanelekanga. Yaye wena, ukuba awufuni ukuba yedwa, kufuneka utshabalalise loo mveliso eyenziwe entloko yakho. Xa uthanda, awuboni nayiphi na impazamo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo zijika zibe ziziqhamo. Ukuba mnandi, uhlakaniphile kwaye unesizungu ngexesha elifanayo, akunangqondo. Kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha, tshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ebomini, nakubantu ngokukhethekileyo. Ungayifaki i-diagnostic ngokukhawuleza: akuyena uhlobo lwam. Zama ukunxibelelana nomntu, makangenise ekhaya, kwaye ukuba "u-spark" wabamba umlilo, ngoko uvumele ulwalamano luqhubeke.
Yenza izigqibo
Intombazana enhle, eyengqiqo, eyincinci yengqondo evela kwicala yayiza kubonakalisa njengomtshakazi onamandla. Kwaye kuya kuba njalo, ukuba ukholelwa kuwe, zithande uze uphinde ucinge ngemigomo yakho yobomi kunye nezinto eziphambili. Unayo yonke into ekufuneka uyithande kwaye uyithande, ufuna nje ukukholelwa kwinyani yeminqweno yakho. Kwaye khumbula ukuba "izinto ezintle zenzeke ngokungalindelekanga ..."