Intombazana ethandekayo, ngaba uthanda intombi? Ukuba ewe, ke le nqaku ikwawe. Kuvela ukuba abafana bahluke iintombi. Ekuqaleni wena, ngokuqinisekileyo, awuyi kukholelwa ukuba uyintombi. Emva koko uya kumangaliswa. Ewe, xa kungathandabuzeki, kuya kufuneka ukuba unqume ukuba ngaba ufuna udlelwane nomntu onjalo. Yintoni enokuyilindela kubo kunye nento enokuyenza ngayo?
Okokuqala, qwa lasele iintlobo zeentombi ezincinci. Bathanda amantombazana amaninzi. Siyakubona ngokukhawuleza ukuba uluvo oludumileyo malunga nokunyaniseka kwelo lutsha alukho ngokupheleleyo. Ukucatshulwa kweengcamango kwimibandela yesondo ngokufihlakeleyo kukufihla ubuninzi bobuxoki.
I-pseudo-macho.
Sekude omaziyo uya kufunda malunga nayo yonke "yokunqoba" yangaphambili. Ngoko ke, kodwa uluvo lwakhe, amadoda okwenene aziphathe njenge-hamovato kunye neenkohlakalo. Ukubonisa isimo sengqondo sabo sokungafuni ukuziphatha ngokwesini, uya kuba yimeko efanelekileyo okanye engafanelekanga. Kungenzeka ukuba inxalenye ye-bile iya kuwa nawe-phambi kobukeli abancinci kwinkampani yakhe okanye ngabahlobo bakho. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba umlingo-mlilo ube kunye nawe wedwa, umgudu "wesibindi" uya kuba yintloni. Indlela eqinisekileyo yokukhupha ingxaki yakhe kukumhlonela ngokwenene, "ukuxhaphaza" kunye nokuthandwa kwabasetyhini. Gxininisa yakho-kunye neendawo ezikufutshane-kwiimpawu ezingenakuthenjwa kunye neenzuzo ngaphezu kwamanye amadoda. Mncede ukuba akholelwe kuye, kwaye awuyi kufumana unomdla kwaye ulungele ukuba uqabane phakathi kwabalindi abanzima be-love front.
Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka: Uvakalelwa njenge-superman, i-pseudo-macho ingafuna ukuqinisekisa ukunyuka kwamanye amaqabane. Ukubhikisha kwakhe malunga namava akho okanye umnqweno wokulawula, naye, awukwazi ukudlala indima engcono.
Knight umfanekiso obuhlungu.
Imibala ekhangelekayo, iimbongo zokufunda, ibubula ebhentshini, ihamba yinyanga - phambi kwakho umfana onguyintombi. Uyaqhaqhayisa aze abe neentloni nangaphambi kokuthintela, nangona kwintetho eqhelekileyo kwisihloko esingacacanga. Ukuba abafana abasha bafumana abafazi abathandanayo njengamaconsi amanzi amabini, kukho iifundo ezilungileyo, ezithi: "Esi sikolo ndawonye". Ngobudlelwane nomntu ongafihlekanga iimvakalelo zakhe, umgaqo-nkqubo ongcono kakhulu unobungqiqo kunye nobuchule. Ukuba uvuma ngokuzeleyo kwaye uvumelekile ukuba uyazi isizathu sokuba neentloni kwaye awuboni nantoni na eyoyikisayo, uya kukuphendula ngothando nangombulelo.
Iingxaki ezinokubakho: inxaxheba yakhe enomdla iya kumkholisa kakhulu kangangokuthi kwixesha elizayo uza kuhlala uthabatha inyathelo. Ukuba unxulumene nolwalamano olunzulu, khuthaza nayiphi na, nokuba yinto encinane, umsebenzi weqabane eluntwini.
Ngoku makhe sichaze iintlobo eziphambili zeentombi zindoda. Ucinga ukuba wayelitshatile ixesha elide okanye wayeseqhawule umtshato - ngobudala, kwabekwa. Kodwa kwavela ukuba oku kungalunganga. Kwaye kwenzeka.
YeFijiki okanye isrici.
Iminyaka elishumi edlulileyo, okanye emashumi amabini, wayexakeke kakhulu. Wabhala intetho, wazama ukufumana idiphozithi ye-pyrite evuzayo okanye efuna ukuzithemba kwisihloko somqhubi ofanelekileyo kwingingqi ye-Perm. Ngokuqhelekileyo, wayengenasiphelo sempilo yabucala. Ukuzaliswa kweencwadi kunye neefolda itafile ethuliweyo kunye neesokisi ezingabonakali ziimpawu ezikhethekileyo zolu hlobo lweentombi. Ungumhlobo othakazelisayo, kwaye awuyi kubuhlungu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ithemba lokuba ngumhlobo wobomi bengqondo kunye nomdali, ngakumbi ukuba uye wafikelela kwizinga elithile kwintsimi yakhe yobungcali, uyalinga kakhulu. Kodwa kuthekani ngesondo? Indoda eyenza ngaphandle koluntu lwabasetyhini ixesha elide linokuthi lonwabe ngokubonakala kwesidalwa esihle kwibhedi yakhe. Into eyona nto ukukwabelana ngeminqweno yakhe yokomoya, yonke into yinto yokwenza izinto, okungafani nawe, akunjalo.
Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka: inkqubo yezinto eziphambili eziphambili ziye zenziwa. Kububugugu ukuthemba ukuba ngokuza kubomi bakho, umsebenzi wobomi bakhe bonke uya kuthatha isihlalo sokubuya. Ngandlela-thile, kuya kufuneka unciphise rhoqo i-lyric physicist kwizenzululwazi "izulu" ukuya kwisono (ngokugqithiseleyo kwegama) umhlaba. Qonda, ulungele oku.
Umama ubuncwane.
Unyana womama onamandla kunye nokuzingca kwakhe. Akukho namnye wabasetyhini abonakala kwindawo yakhe, ngokutsho komzali, wayefanelekile ukwenza ulonwabo lobuncwane bakhe. Ngelo xesha, umntu onjalo unokuphumelela, ufundiswe kwaye anikezelwe. Yaye mhle, yinto ehlaselayo. Le yenye yeemeko ezinzima kakhulu. Kodwa yonke into inokwenzeka, ukuba ulawula ukunyenga intombi enjalo ngaphambi kokudibana nonina. Unalo uhlobo oluthile lomntu, kwaye into yokuxhomekeka iyahlukahluka kuxhomekeke kwiimeko.
Iingxaki ezinokwenzeka: kule meko ziqinisekisiwe. Awukwazi ukuthatha indawo yomama ebomini bakhe, ngoko ungayichitha ixesha lakho namandla. Ukubambisana rhoqo kunye nakho kunokubonakala ngokugqithiseleyo. Kodwa ukuba unokufumana inhlonipho yakhe, uya kuba ngumyenikazi ongatshintshi entliziyweni yendoda enjalo. Kwaye awunakuze ube nabadlali.
Iintombi ezidumileyo.
Kukholelwa ukuba kukho uxhulumaniso phakathi kweetalente nokuhlanzeka. Abaninzi abakhulu bahlala bengenacala kubo bonke ubomi babo, kwaye abanye babesazi ngokulala ngesondo. Ingxaki noLee Carroll kukuba uAlice wakhula ebomini bakhe. UJohn Raskin wahlala engumfana nangomtshato. U-Hans Christian Andersen wabhala intsomi yothando ngento ayengenayo. U-Nikolai Gogol wathatha isondo ngesono. UArt Schopenhauer, "oku kwenzeka" eneminyaka engama-70. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, uSigmund Freud, ogama lakhe linxulumene ngqo ngesondo phakathi koluntu lonke, wagweba abafazi baze baneminyaka engama-30.
Izizathu zobuntombi.
Kubalulekile njengoko ukulungelelaniswa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo ukuqala kobomi bezesondo. Ukuhlehliswa kwakhe kwiminyaka engama-22-30 ithetha ngeengxaki zokunxibelelana nabantu besini esahlukileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuzithemba okuphantsi kweentombi kubonakala. Le ngcamango inamacandelo amabini: indoda ingaba nefuthe kakhulu kwintombazana, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha le nto yinto yesikhashana. Emva kokunandipha kokuqala, ukukhangela iimvakalelo ezintsha ku qalisa. Ngako oko, ukuba ubudlelwane nentombi busekelwe kuphela kwizinto zendalo, aziyi kuba namandla. Ukungafuni ukuzithemba kwindoda egcwele umona, ukuxineka kwamazwe. Ukuba inoveli enentombi inemvakalelo yangempela kunye kunye nabalingani babechule ngokwengqondo, isiqalo esinjalo sinokulungela kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ukuba amantombazana oyithandayo kunye neentombi iintombi zakha ubudlelwane, zibekezele ngakumbi kunye nokunciphisa.