Yintoni iBDSM?

Abantu abaninzi bafuna ulwahlulo phakathi kombhede kunye nobusuku obuhle ubuza umlingane wakho ukuba akubethe ngobumnene, kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo uhamba, "vuthela imilomo yakho", ecinga ukuba umthandi wakho wayegxotha izandla. Ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle ngokususela ekuqaleni, kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni isini esinzima kakhulu, kufuneka ufunde amava ezidlulileyo, uze ulandele!


Ndibuhlungu ...

Masochism, sadism .... Abaninzi bethu banesimo sengqondo esibi malunga nala mazwi, ngaphezu koko, bangela ubudlelwane obungathandekiyo. I-sadist ngumntu onobonakala obubonakalayo, obhenkcelayo kwiintsana, kunye ne-masochist yinto ebuthathaka.

Nangona kunjalo, inyaniso, i-masochist into ebanzi kunokuba wonke umntu asetyenziswe ukucinga. Khumbula indlela olungiselela ngayo ukuba ukhulule iintsuku. Ngaba kwenzeka kwenzeka ukuba abasebenzi bakubiza ngokuthi i-masochist xa ubona ukuba isidlo sasemini nesidlo sidla kuphela umntu? Abazali baphinde bathupha iintloko zabo baze bakubize ngokuthi u-Sadist. Ngokuqinisekileyo unomphathi oqinileyo, ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, awunalo msebenzi okhululekile, kodwa ekhaya wena ngokwakho uyayilungisa intombi ibe yinto engathandekiyo. Yonke ubomi bethu sidlala into engaphantsi, ibe yinto ephezulu, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba ubuhlobo obunjenge "khoboka-khoboka" bufikile kumagumbi ethu okulala.

Yintoni iBDSM?

I-BDSM ubuhlobo obunokuthiwa ngumdlalo odlala indima ejikelezayo kwinqanaba lamandla. Abantu banokuthetha okulungileyo, kodwa ngokwenene akusiyo umdlalo wesini kwisimo sawo esicocekileyo. Iibinibini ezininzi zibonisa ukuba oku kuphila. Ukuba ukhangele i-BDSM ukusuka kwingcamango yentlalo, ngoko sinokuthi le yinkcubeko okanye i-subculture.

Uthini umahluko phakathi kwamanqanaba okudlala indima kunye ne-BDSM kwiifom zokuziphatha eziyingozi, kuba zombini amaqabane akhululekile ukwenza oku, kwaye ezo zihlobo zisekelwe kumthandi owedlulisela amandla ngaphezu kwakho? Into ebaluleke kakhulu akuyikuphoqelela umntu ukuba enze into ayifuniyo okanye into engaqinisekanga ngayo. Abantu abaninzi abanomdla ngokubundlobongela bayesaba ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo. Emva koko, ukuba uqaphela ukuba awufani nabo bonke abantu, unokufumana ingxaki yengqondo, ukudakumba nokunye okuninzi.

Ndiyabulela uphando, kwacaca ukuba abantu abathanda ubuhlobo obunjalo ebuntwaneni bafumana uxhatshazo lwengqondo nangokwenyama. Ewe, ukuba uhamba amaxesha ambalwa kwisazi sezengqondo, unokukrazula iingcamango ezingenakukhathazeka. Kuze kube kutshanje, kwaziwa ukuba i-BDSM ithathwa njengophambuko lweengalo kwaye ikhuthazwe ukunyanga, zombini kunye nakwiziko ezizodwa ezizodwa.

Oku kubangelwa ukuba uluntu luqinisekile - yonke into yokuziphatha ngokwesondo kufuneka ilungiswe ngokukhawuleza. Ngaphezu koko, izibini ezithandayo i-BDSM zihle kakhulu kwezinye izinto eziphambukayo, ngoko uluntu "lwamakhoboka kunye namakhosi" luzaliswe ngabanye abantu abaneemiboniso engapheliyo - i-transvestites, i-fetishist njalonjalo.

Kubalulekile ukuba ungesabi ukubonakaliswa kobulili bakho, ungesabi ukwenza amalinge. Kukho umthetho onjalo, obizwa ngokuba nguMthetho weNgqungquthela, uthi-nantoni na into oyindwendwe oye watyelela kuyo, awuyedwa. Kukho nawuphi na, kuya kubakho umntu omnye emhlabeni onqwenela okufanayo.

Phantse ama-30% abantu abadala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bathandwa ngokwesini kunye nesini, benze izinto ezithile zeBDSM. Nabagqwiri abaphatha unyango ngocwangco bahanjelwa phantse wonke umntu!

Yintoni isichazi magama?

Isichazamazwi sithetha ukuba i-BDSM imele oku: Isibambiso ngumqobo wenkululeko, Uqeqesho luyimfundo, iSadism kukulawula kwaye iMasochism isingqinisiso. Ngokuqhelekileyo, imigaqo ebaluleke kakhulu yinto yokuzithandela, ingqiqo nokukhusela.

Utshintsho ngumntu onandipha injabulo efanayo ekuthobeleni nasekuthobeni.

Konke kucingwa

Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubulili obunzima abuyinto ebuthakathaka, kubalulekile ukwabelana ngamava, umzekelo, akasoze aqale ukusebenzisa i-whip kwiqabane lakhe, ngenxa yokuba aqhutywe kakubi, njengoko kuyenziwa kwifilimu okanye ufunde kwincwadi. Umntu olawulayo kufuneka abe namava okubuhlungu ngaphambi kokuba afake isicelo esingaphantsi kwayo. Ngaphezu koko, bonke abambini abafuna ukuhluka kunye nokugqiba kwelo hlobo kufuneka baqwalasele imeko.

Kuthetha ukuthini oku? Ezi zinto zibhalwe kwiphepha, apho zombini ziya kuvuma, kwaye kufuneka ubhale phantsi izenzo kunye neempawu eziza kuyimfuneko. Ngokubanzi, kufuneka uchaze yonke into kwiinkcukacha ezincinci.

Ukuba ubeka isicatshulwa ndawonye, ​​ngamanye amaxesha akacaci ukuba ngubani umphathi kwaye ngubani ongukhoboka. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiimeko ezinje, eziphambili zizinto zokudlala zamakhoboka ezinamandla.Khumbula ukuba akufuneki ukuba ungene kwiskripthi zonke iingcamango vaspossetili!

Yiya esitolo kubantu abadala!

Isibonda. Kuzo zonke izindlu kukho le mfanelo, kodwa akusiyo yonke intambo efanelekileyo yokubetha. Akunakwenzeka ukusebenzisa iibhande eziqinileyo kunye namabhande kunye nomhlaba wokukhulula - ngoko unokuzilimaza okanye iqabane lakho. Intlungu inokubangelwa yintambo yokubetha, nangona kubonakala ngathi kulula.

Amakhanda. Umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu we-BDSM ngumqobo kunye nokubophelela inkululeko. Amatshini abomeleleyo awasebenzisekanga kuphela izixhobo zokuhamba kunye nezikhwama zesilika, zikhona iintambo ezikhethekileyo, iindlela ezikhethekileyo zokudibanisa, imishini e-X yokubethela. Ewe, akunakubonwa kuphela kwiifilimu, mhlawumbi umqeshwa wakho, obonakala ngathi ungumntu othobekileyo, kodwa ebusuku uyavuka kanje ...

Intonga. Enkulu kwizixhobo eziphathekayo, ingakumbi ukuba unquma ukwenza oko kwendalo. Nangona kunjalo, umele aqikelele, intonga phantsi kwephunga eliphakathi likhupha isikhumba.

Stack. Isixhobo esinamandla nesigqityiweyo. Iintyatyambo ziba ne-slap ekupheleni kwaye ngaphandle kwayo.

Uthando nobudlova

Igumbi lakho lokulala lalingenakonwaba kwaye lipholile, kwaye ubudlelwane belahlekelwa yintliziyo yabo yangaphambili? Yongeza i pepper! Ukwenza ubulili obuhlukeneyo, akudingeki ukuba usebenzise iimbhobho. I-BDSM yinto oyifunayo.

Ukuba uthabatha isilikhi, ubophe emehlweni omyeni wakho othandekayo okanye intombi, kwaye wenze oko ngokwakho, ngoko uya kuba yinto enqabileyo enjalo inkululeko. Umlingani akayikukubona nje uhamba (ngokwenene, lo mfanekiso uhle, kodwa akuyi kubuhlungu ukulahlekelwa iikhilogram ezimbalwa), kodwa ungaziziva ukhululekile, ukhuphe ngokupheleleyo ukuba awukhangeleli uphelele kwaye uzinikezele kwinkqubo.

Ukuba uvala inxalenye yecandelo lombono, ngoko uya kuba yinto ephezulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unako ukubopha inqamlezo ekhangele amehlo akho, kodwa yinto encinci, zama ukuhambisa ifakeki kwizithende zakho. Kodwa kungekhona ukuba acele inceba, kodwa ukuba aphuphe ngokumanga kwakho.

Ukuba udibanisa izandla zeseqabane, ngoko unokubonisa konke okwazi ukukwenza. Ewe, ukuba unamathele, oko kulungile ngakumbi: hlala kwaye ujabule.

Ukuzaliseka - yilokho okufuneka uyenze uthando. Vala ukuva kwakho kwaye uvule umnxeba.

Kwi-BDSM, ukulala ngesondo akuyona nje indlela yokuhlazisa nokuhlwaya, kodwa ukukhuthaza. Dlala kunye nomthandi wakho ngomnqweno okhulayo, ngoko uya kuba nethuba lokuzama i-pose, eyade iphupha.

Khumbula ukuba i-aphrodisiac yeyona nto ingaphantsi kwengubo yangaphantsi ebomvu eyenziwe yerobhothi ebomvu okanye emnyama.

Iingcali zengqondo zithi:

Kukho esinye isizathu sokwephuka okunjalo: ngaba abazali banomnqweno wokukhulisa umntwana ekufezekeni, kodwa abantwana abanako ukuhlala bekho konke, kwaye ngoko ke kubonakala amandla ezobulili, aqondiswa apho kufanele ukuba khona. Umntu ngokwakhe akaze akwazi ukujamelana nale nto, apha ufuna uncedo lwezengqondo zengqondo.

Ubunzima be-BDSM obubanjwe ngumntwana xa umntu efumana ukwaneliseka ngokwesini kuphela ngoncedo lwentlungu.