Abantu abaninzi, bengakhange baqaphele, banika u-kisses amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Ngokomzekelo, sihlala sibetha umama, utata esesidini, mzalwana, udade, thumela ubabalo kubangani, ubambe isilwanyana esithandayo kwimpumlo okanye nathi ngokwembonakalo kwisibuko. Kodwa, ewe, ezi zinto zingenakuqhathaniswa nalezo esizibiza ngokuba "abadala" kwaye zibhekiswe kumntu othandekayo. Emva koko, bobabini kunye nentombazana, balindele omnye komnye isisa, isithandane, isithandwa kunye kunye nokudibanisa kwemilomo kumdaniso obizwa ngokuthi u kiss. Kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu bayazi into ethile malunga noko bathethayo ngokwemigaqo yengqondo.
Iziqulatho
Amaqhinga enqwenelekayo malunga nokumanga iinganekwane malunga nokumanga Intsingiselo yokubangaNgoko, sonke sikhumbula ukumanga kwethu kokuqala. Abaninzi bethu baye bakhumbula kwaye bebuhlungu kakhulu ngalesi siganeko. Kodwa ngoku sizame ukukhumbula ukuba umfana ofanayo naye wamanga njani wanikela le nto. Uhlobo luni lomntu emva kwakhe konke: unomdla, unesisa okanye unobundlobongela kwaye unamandla kakhulu? Akukho mntu wayenokucinga ukuba imvelaphi yeengqondo zathintela nakwizinto ezibonakalayo. Ngoko ke, ngokweengcali zengqondo, indlela yokumanga umfana inokumisela umhlaba wakhe wangaphakathi.
Iinkcukacha ezinqwenelekayo ngokumanga
UPlato ngaphezu kweyodwa wabhala ukuphathwa kwakhe kwimixholo yento ebangela abantu ngexesha lokumanga. Kwaye unokuza kunye nenkolelo yakhe yemvelaphi yomsindo ngokwawo. Kule ngqungquthela yePlato kwathiwa ekuqaleni umntu wayefana nebhola eliqhelekileyo, elinesibini imilenze, imilenze kunye nenani elifanayo leentloko ezahlukana zabafazi nabesilisa. Ngokwemvelo yayo, isidalwa esenziwe ngesibhola sahluke ngokuzithemba okukhulu nokuzikhukhumeza. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba ibhola le ndoda yavutha kakhulu unkulunkulu wezulu, indudumo kunye nombane, owawunayo ihlabathi lonke kwaye igama lakhe linguZeus. Nangu uZeus wanquma ukuhlwaya esi sidalwa waza wawahlula ibe ngama-halves kunye nabesilisa. Ngaloo ndlela, ukwahlula. Kwaye, ngokukrakra ngokwaneleyo, ukumanga kuphela kunokudibanisa le mizuzu emibini yeqalo lamadoda kunye nabesifazana ibe yinto enye. Ngoko, ngokwembono kaPluto, kwaye lo msebenzi mhle wazalwa.
Ngamhla, ngokwemibare, amaninzi namantombazana kunye nabamantombazana babanga kuqala kwiminyaka elishumi elineshumi elinesibhozo. Okumangalisayo kukuba, amaJamani ayithathwa njengento ebangayo yothando kwihlabathi lonke. Baya kumanga ngosuku oluphindwe kabini okanye kathathu, bethana ngesinye.
Iingoma malunga nokumanga
Kuthetha ngokumangazela ukuba kukho iindlophithi ezininzi, kunye nezinye zazo esinqume ukukuzisa. Ngendlela, akuzona zonke ezi ngqungquthela ezifumene ukuqinisekiswa okanye ukuchithwa kwazo. Ngoko, ngokomzekelo, izazinzulu ezivela e-US zibeka phambili ingcamango yazo, ethi abo bantu bavame ukuvanga, bahlala ixesha elide kwiminyaka emihlanu kunabo abaphika ngokwabo lo msebenzi omnandi. Oku kubangelwa kukuba kwinkqubo yokumanga umzimba womzimba ivelisa inani elininzi lalawo ma-neuropeptides, anakho ukutshabalalisa iibhaktheriya ezahlukeneyo kunye ne-microbes. Ngoko ngexesha lokumangalisa umzi womntu ongeyimbi uqinisa.
Enye ingqungquthela ithi ibanga lingatshisa inani elixabisekileyo leekhalori emzimbeni womntu. Oku kubangelwa kukuba ngexesha lokubethana okunomdla malunga nemashumi emine-emine imisipha ibandakanyeka, elibhubhisa malunga neekhalori ezilishumi elinesibini kwaye imithathu nje yokumanga.
Ukongezelela kwiinzuzo zokubanga, ukhononda malunga nokulimala kwakhe. Ngoko, umzekelo, kukholelwa ukuba xa abantu bebanga abantu bebanana banokutshintshisa inani elikhulu lezinto ezincinci ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa abantu abaninzi bayathula malunga nenkqubo yokuba umntu ufumana i-0, 7 i-milligram yeeprotheyini, i-0, i-milligram ye-fat, i-0, ii-milligrams zeerti, i-0, ii-milligrams zeemfihlelo kunye ne-60 milligram zamanzi. Kodwa akukho nto yokongeza malunga nosulelo apha. Ngendlela, kubalulekile ukuphawula kunye nokuba i-human sali iqukethe i-enzymes ekhethekileyo. Bayakwazi ukulwa nemigqomo ehlukeneyo. Ngaphezulu, le sali iqulethe okuthiwa, i-androsterone, ejongene nokuvusa isondo somntu.
Iintsingiselo zokubanga
Xa ubanga ngokuzayo nomthandayo, nikela ukubaluleka kwendlela akwenza ngayo. Nantsi imimangaliso yokubanga, echazwe kwinqanaba leengqondo.
Ubusiso obuninzi. Umfana uzama njengokungathi isiphepho sithatha imilomo yakho, ukumba phakathi kwabo nokukhahlela ngentshiseko. Ukumanga okunje kufana nokuhlaselwa okunyamekayo. Ukubaluleka kwakhe kwengqondo, njengoko oogqirha besithi, kukuba umntu onjalo awuboni ikamva eliqaqambileyo, kwaye ukuthanda kwakhe kunye naye kuya kuba mfutshane.
Ubusana obomileyo. Ubusana obunzima kakhulu kwaye obambelele. Umlomo wakhe usemoyeni ozolileyo, kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba ufuna ukumanga, kodwa akenzi. La madoda athatyathwa kakhulu athembekileyo kwaye angabikho abahlobo obunobomi. Enyanisweni, kukho enye inzuzo, aba bantu bahluke ngokupheleleyo kwinto enjengokuthandana.
Ubusiso obubizwa ngokuba yi-brace. Ngexesha lokumanga okunjalo umfana uzama ukukhwela kuwe kunye nalo lonke umzimba wakhe. Uhlala emelana nawe kwaye uzama ukukubonisa ngemisebenzi yakhe ukuba ufuna ukuziva njani. Lowo ummeli wesini oqinileyo uhlukile kwabanye kuba uya kuba ngumyeni othembekileyo kwaye othembekileyo.
Ubusiso obubizwa ngokuthi "umlilo". Olu hlobo lokubanga luquka imvula yonke yokubanga okuncinci, kwaye ngexesha lokumanga kakhulu emlonyeni umntu angasondla aze ancede. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokuziva ngathi umfana ukhetha ubuchule obutsha rhoqo ixesha lokubanga. Ngokweengqondo zengqondo, amadoda anjalo abathandekayo kunye namadoda angathembekanga.