Iphupha lomfazi okhulelwe, umntwana ongakazalwa

Kwinqaku elithi "Umfazi okhulelwe sele ephupha ngomntwana ongakazalwa" uya kufunda: njani ukuzisa umntwana ozayo kwiimpumelelo ngeempawu ezifanelekileyo.

Amanqaku ambalwa amanga.
Ungacula wedwa ngemoya okanye kwiikhosi kwinkampani ekhulelwe njengabantu abanomdla. Okokugqibela kukuthandeka: unxibelelwano aluyikukhulisa kuphela ingoma yomculo, kodwa kunika ezininzi iimvakalelo ezintle. Ngamanye amaxesha ingoma ingatshintshwa ngokuchukumisa iingxoxo: ilizwi lomama lisebenza kumntwana olungcono kunamachiza. Nangona kunjalo, ungazithembi wena kuphela. Ukuze udibanise amava, bhekisa kwii-classic. Umculo we-Classical ukhokelela ekuhambisaneni kwenkqubo ye-nervous central nonomama kuphela, kodwa nangomntwana. Abantwana abavame ukuphulaphula umculo omnandi womculo ngaphambi kokuba bazalwa bahluke kwiontanga ezinezixhobo eziphezulu. Kwaye, ngokuchasene noko, umculo owonakalisiweyo, ingxondorha eqinile, uxinzelelo kwinkqubo yesantya.
Bhukuda!
Ngendlela efanayo, umntu unokukhula ukusuka kumntwana umculi onetalente, imbongi okanye umdlali wezemidlalo. Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ndaya echibini malunga nexesha lokunikezelwa. Emva koko mna nentombi yam yahamba nebele, apho intombi yam eyayisandula kuzalwa yayibonisa imimangaliso yezemidlalo. Phakathi kwezinye izinto ezincedo ezinokuphuhliswa kumntwana nangaphambi kokuba azalwe: ukukwazi ukusetyenziswa kweelwimi zangaphandle, ukuxhomekeka kweemathematika kunye nokukwazi ukucombulula iipuzzles, umdla wokuphila kwimeko ... Ukukunceda - iikhosi zolwimi zangaphandle, iikrebhu kunye nekerubhi yeRubik, izilwanyana kwaye uhamba ehlathini ...

Uvakalelo oluhle.
Nangona ungagqibekanga ukuba ufuna ukubona njani unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho, akazange acinge ngemeko yeempawu ezinqwenelekayo kunomntwana ozayo, ngoko uthabatha uhlobo oluthile lokudala kunye nokucinga ngendlela enhle kwiinyanga ezilisithoba ezonwabileyo kuya kukunceda. Okokuqala, ubuchule buza kunciphisa ukukhathala kwaye kukulethe uvuyo, oluya kutshintshwa ukusuka kuwe nakwiimvumba. Okwesibini, kungekhona abantu bobugcisa kuphela, kodwa kunye nezihlobo ezihambelanayo - abo bahamba kunye nempumelelo baneengcinga zokucinga. Ngoko ke, ukuphuhlisa amathuba okudala kumntwana, awuyi kukhula ummeleli weza bozayo. Okokuqala, ukhula ngumntu onobuchule, onomdla.

Ukuba awufuni ukuhlakulela nayiphi na impawu zobungcali kumntwana wakho, kodwa ufuna nje ukubonelela ngomoya okhuselekileyo kunye noxinzelelo kwi-tummy yakho, ngoko ufuna nje uxolo, uxolo, iintlanganiso kunye nabantu abanomdla, abanomdla kunye nabathandekayo, ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi. Ukuba umsebenzi wakho unxulumene noxinzelelo okanye unxibelelwano nenani labantu abaninzi, kungcono ukuguqula okanye ukungasebenzi kuwo onke ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Sekuyisikhathi eside ukuba izazi zengqondo ziqaphele ukuba ngokuphindaphindiweyo umfazi okhulelweyo wayefanele afake amalungelo akhe, ukuphikisana okungakumbi kunye nokulindela komntwana, kakhulu amathuba okuzalwa komntu obuthakathaka okanye ubuncinci umntwana ongenasiphelo. Oomama, abakhulelwe ngokweenzululwazi eziyinkimbinkimbi, bahlala bejamelana nobudlova, ukuvalwa okanye ukuziphatha kakubi kumntwana wabo. Umntwana esibelethweni somama akafunekanga kuphela ukuphuhlisa, kodwa ukuthetha naye, ukumkholisa. Akumangalisi ukuba iimagazini ezigcobayo zibonisa imifanekiso yendlela abathandana ngayo abafazi abakhulelweyo abathwele abafazi abakhulelweyo. Oku akukona nje ukujonga kakuhle, kodwa kunentsingiselo ephezulu. Ngaloo ndlela, uyise ozayo ubonisa uthando lwakhe kumntu omncinci. Abantwana bavame ukuphendula ngoku ngokuhamba.

Sawubona, isisu!
Ngoko, kunye nomntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kufuneka unxibelelane ngakumbi. Ngentsasa, tshela ku-"Good morning" kunye nentsimbi yakho. Ndixelele ukuba ulindela njani intlanganiso yakho, indlela oyithandayo ngayo. Ngethuba lokuhamba, emva kokubona into enomdla, yabelana ngentshisekelo yakho kunye nosana lwakho, kwakhona, ukubetha isisu sakhe.