Ngoko kutheni amantombazana akhetha ucebile kwaye entle?
Ngaba yonke ikhoyo namhlanje? Kakade kukho! Kodwa kubonakala ngathi abaninzi banokugxeka kakhulu, bahlambalaza amantombazana namabhinqa anamhlanje ngenxa yokuhaha, ukuqonda nokunyaniseka.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, abathandi bemali yamanye amazwe babehlala kunye naphi naleyo, kodwa ngokuphuhliswa koqoqosho kwimeko yethu kunye nemigangatho yokufumana imali, amanani abo anokunyuka ngokusemthethweni.
Ngaba akunakuthandeka kwaye ukuziphatha kakubi kumantombazana amancinci ukuba abe nesigxina, esithembisayo, isityebi? Sizakuzama ukuqwalasela lo mbuzo kumacala onke.
Namhlanje, urhulumente wethu uvule amathuba amaninzi ekuphakanyeni umgangatho wemisebenzi kunye nemali emihle yomvuzo. Ngenxa yoko, bekukho uhlobo lokhuphiswano phakathi kwabameli besilisa - abaza kubonakalisa bhetele amandla abo engqondo, abanobunenjongo, abaya kuvuka ngokukhawuleza kwi "nqanaba" baze bafezekise ngakumbi. Ewe, ukuncintisana okunjalo okunempilo kunceda ukwandisa inani lamadoda abutyebi. Kwaye intombazana, okwangoku, yenza izigqibo: ngubani ozuza ngaphezulu, usebenza ngakumbi. Ngenxa yoko, oku kulungele ukulungiselela inzala ezayo.
Emva koko, wonke umama ozayo kwikanqanaba elincinci lizama ukulungiselela ikusasa elifanelekileyo kubantwana bakhe. Ifuna ukubonelela ngeyona nto imfuneko, kodwa nokuqinisekisa ukukhuliswa kakuhle nokuphuhliswa. Kanye nje kwinqanaba elincinane, umama uzama ukugubungela emva kwelo xesha, ukuba kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza - uya kufa okanye abegula kakhulu. Emva kokutshata nendoda ecebileyo nethembayo, unika abantwana bakhe nge-inshurensi kwixesha elizayo-elifanelekileyo lokuphila nokuphila.
Kukho konke oku kulandela isigqibo esisodwa: intombazana ikhetha umntu osisityebi, ekhokelwa yintsimi yendalo yokubelelisa abantwana bayo.
Umnqweno wokubonelela abantwana babo ngekamva elifanelekileyo akuyona yodwa into ebangela ukuba amantombazana akhethe ocebileyo kwaye afanelekileyo. Isizathu sesibini ngumoya wobomi bwanamhlanje.
Okwangoku, onke amaphephandaba-iTV, iprinta ngokunyanisekileyo ubomi obutyebi, obuhle kunye nobuhle. Zininzi iinkqubo, amanqaku kumaphephancwadi kunye namaphephancwadi anikezelwe kwiCinderellas yanamhlanje, abafumana iinduna ezicebileyo, ezintle, ezibonakalayo kumadoda abo; Amantombazana amancinci abancinci athatha indawo yamanye ama-oligarchs nabanye kunye namantombazana abo ubuhle babo buvulela iingcango zabo kubomi obuhle kunye nokungakhathali. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba intombazana encinci imele iqale phantsi koxinzelelo lwayo yonke inzondelelo yenyango kwi-media. Uqala ukukholelwa ukuba la maantombazana ayengcono kunabo, ukuba akafanelekanga nje kuphela umntu ocebileyo kodwa indoda enhle. Emva kwayo yonke into, ubutyebi bakhe buthembisa ubomi obuhle, obuhle kunye nobunqabileyo, kunye nomhlobo omhle, okokuqala, umona ngabanye (ikakhulukazi phakathi kwezesondo ezifanelekileyo), akuyi kuhlazisa ukutyelela ivenkile yokudlela, indawo yokuzonwabisa kunye nezinye iindawo zoluntu. i-genotype engcono. Ngako oko, amathuba okuzalwa kwabantwana abancinci kakhulu, nto leyo ibaluleke kakhulu kumfazi.
Kukho esinye isizathu sokuba amantombazana akhethe indoda ecebileyo enhle. Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, amantombazana ngokwabo aba zimeleyo ngokwaneleyo (ukukhululwa kudala kuye kwaphuma ngaphandle kweNgilani kwaye unyaka wonke i-geography yayo iyaba bubanzi). Bafumana kakuhle, ngokukhawuleza kwaye baphumelele ngenyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kwaye kungekhona nje ngenxa yeenkcukacha zabo zangaphandle, kodwa kunye neengqondo zengqondo. Ngamafutshane, amantombazana amaninzi abazimeleyo ngokwezimali, anokuzinzela zona. Ngoko ke, kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba kubonakala kubo - indoda kufuneka ifanele okanye ingcono. Ngako oko, izicelo zala ma mantombazana ziyadlulela. Okuqhelekileyo, kulungile. Ukuqonda kwangaphambili kwesiqingatha esihle akukazanga kuncitshiswa ekuzibonakaliseni kwabasetyhini: indoda kufuneka ibe ngumlamli, umxhasi othembekileyo, onamandla kuzo zonke iziganeko. Ukuba ndiphumelele kakhulu, ukuba ndiphumelele, ndiyindoda kwaye ndiyintle, ke umhlobo wam, ngendlela efanelekileyo, kufuneka abe kumgangatho wam, kunye ne "additive" - njengoko nayiphi na intombazana okanye umfazi ophumelele kwimpumelelo ethile ebomini bakhe.
Kodwa ke, amaninzi amantombazana aphupha ngomyeni ocebileyo omhle. Kodwa akuyona ingozi ukuphupha kwaye awukwazi ukunqanda, ngaphandle koko, amanye amaphupha kunye neminqweno inokuzaliseka, ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, kule phupha uzama ukuzama ukwenza konke okulungileyo. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, khetha umntu ofanelekileyo. Okokuqala kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba amadoda abutyebi abonakala ngathi. La madoda angena kwiintlobo ezimbini.
Kwimeko yokuqala, la madoda ayenokuba zizityebi, ngaphandle kokuzama ukwenza nayiphi na umzamo: ifa, ifunyenwe ngenkohliso kunye nokweba, njl. Olu hlobo lugabisa ngobutyebi balo. La madoda akhetha iimoto zezemidlalo ezinje (ezifana nePorsche, Ferrari, Jaguar okanye iMartorghini), iimpahla zamatye adumile.
Kwimeko yesibini, amadoda akhangeleka kakhulu kunowokuqala. Ababonisi ubutyebi babo. La madoda ayenze inzuzo yabo, ngokuqhelekileyo ngomsebenzi wabo wengqondo. La madoda akhetha imoto ephezulu kunye nehloniphekileyo (iJamani kunye neJapan). Bakhetha ukungaboni, kodwa iimpahla eziphezulu kunye nezicathulo. Uhlobo lokuqala lwabantu ababutyebi lufumaneka ngokubanzi kuma-casino, kwiivenkile. Kwakhona banokufumaneka kwiinkqubo ezisezemidlalo eziluncedo. Kodwa uhlobo lwesibini lokufumana nokubamba kunzima kakhulu, kuba bachitha phantse bonke ixesha labo emsebenzini.
Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba zombini iintlobo zamadoda zifumaneka kwindawo yokubonisa okanye kwivenkile. Le ntombazana iya kuthi apha idibana nomntu ocebileyo, kubuza imibuzo embalwa malunga nalawo okanye ezinye iimpawu zeemoto. Ukuzingela kufuneka ulungiselele ngokupheleleyo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka u tyelele i-salon efanelekileyo kwaye usebenzise imali efanelekileyo, kodwa oku kulungile, kwaye ukuba usebenzisa isiluleko esifanelekileyo, unokufumana umyeni ocebileyo.