Sihlala siqwalasela ukuba kutheni abantu baba ngabazali. Bangaphi abantu - inani elifanayo leembono. Into enye ilungile, wonke umntwana unelungelo lonwabo kwintsapho. Ngelishwa, namhlanje umxholo "wosapho" ushintshile kwaye ulungelelaniswe kwiimeko ezikhoyo zobomi. Kuthetha ukuthini oku? Oku kuthetha ukuba ngeli xesha inani elikhulu kakhulu labantwana likhuliswe ngumnye wabazali.
Akukufanelekanga ngokupheleleyo ukucinga ukuba ngubani obaluleke kakhulu kulona. Njengomnyama nomhlophe njengemini nobusuku, ngoko umama nobawo bafanelekile ngokufanayo kumntwana. Umama ufuna umntwana ukuba asondle aze amnyamekele. Yaye ubaba uyimfuneko yokugcinwa kwintsapho yonke inkxaso efunekayo neyopheleleyo kwimfundo. Intsapho kufuneka iqale ngokuyakhelwa ngokuqonda kunye nokuthenjwa. Abantwana - izibonakaliso ezingcono kwiimeko zentsapho. Banobuqili obukhulu becinga ubuxoki okanye ubudlelwane obubi phakathi kwabazali.Ngoko ke, ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi kwintsapho, umntwana kufuneka ajikelezwe ngononophelo kunye nenkathalo. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa abantu abatsha abatshatileyo, ukuba bangabhekanga ngokubonakala komntwana wokuqala. Intsapho kufuneka ikhule ngakumbi ngakumbi ngokwengqondo nangokwezimali. Ukubonakala kwabantwana kwintsapho kuba ngumcimbi obalulekileyo kwaye uvuyo kakhulu. Kubuphi ubudala baba ngabazali - oku kukhethekileyo. Ndiba novelwano kunye nabo bantu abanesizathu esithile abanako ukuba nabantwana. Kwaye andiyixhasi le ntsebenzo ngoku, ukusasaza ubomi ngaphandle kwabantwana.
Emva kokufunda iingcaphuno ezimbalwa kwi-intanethi, ebhaliweyo ngabaxhasayo babantu abangenabantwana, ndiziva nje kuba nesihe ngabo bantu. Bawususa umphefumlo. Bangaphi abafazi kwilizwe eliphupha lokuba ngumama! Le ncamango iyabulala! Ababonisi ukungafuni ukuxanduva lobomi bomntu. I-Egoism kwifom ye-hypertrophied, kunye nesondlo seengqondo ukusuka ekuqaliseni ukuba abayedwa kwinqweno yabo yokungabi nabantwana.
Chaza ukuba bangaphi abantu abalahlekelwa ngulowo ozithandela ngamabomu uxolo lokuba ngabazali, andiyikuthanda. Kodwa ndiza kuthetha ezinye zezihlandlo zokudibanisa kunye nehlabathi lomphefumlo womntwana. Wonke umzali onothando uyazi ukuba umntwana wakhe uphefumlela. Ukususela ekuqaleni siqala ukufunda ihlabathi ngamehlo omntwana. Kwaye ukukhula okuhlangeneyo kubangela ukuba abazali kunye nabantwana babe nemihlali kunye nokholo. Sifunda komnye nomnye ukuqonda, umonde kunye nokholo lokuba abantu benze intsapho inwabe. Kule ndlela kuphela onokwakha isiqithi sovuyo nobutyebi. Ngokuchasene nokuzikhukhumeza kunye nokunganakwa ngabantu abaye banqanda uthando ezintliziyweni zabo ezintliziyweni zabo.
I-intanethi isinika inkululeko yenkcazelo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ininzi neentengiso ezibhubhisa imilinganiselo yokuziphatha. Ukunxibelelana kwabantwana abaneekhomputha kufuneka kulawulwe ngabazali. Ukugembula namhlanje kuxhaphake kakhulu, kungekuphela kwintsholongwane. Kunengqiqo ukufaka izihlomelo ezizodwa, apho unokuthintela ukutyelela kwiindawo ezithile ngabantwana bakho. Kwakhona, kufuneka uqwalasele ukuba ukuthetha rhoqo kwihlabathi elona nto kwenza umntwana wakho akhathalele ihlabathi lenene.
Kubaluleke kakhulu namhlanje ukufundisa abantwana bethu ngengqiqo yentsapho kunye neemfuno zeentsapho. Zama ukufaka ingqalelo kubo uxanduva kunye neempawu eziphezulu zokuziphatha. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba isabha isandi, ukubonakalisa ngomzekelo wakhe umgca okhethiweyo wokujonga ihlabathi. Kwaye ke, zeziphi iindlela zokufundisa abantwana babo, wonke umntu uya kuzikhethela. Into ephambili kukuba umntwana kufuneka akhuliswe ngothando kunye nemvakalelo yexabiso kubazali.
Mhlawumbi, akukho zindlela ezifanelekileyo zokudala ubuntu obumanyanisiweyo. Uluntu ngokwawo alukude. Kungenzeka ukuba abantu abaninzi ababazondayo abantwana namhlanje, baya kulula ngokunyanisekileyo izandla zabo ukuze bahlangabezane nomntwana kusasa. Makube njalo! Nangona kunjalo, kukho izinto umntu oqhelekileyo akwazi ukwenza. Ukuze uzuze yonke imihla kubathandekayo bakho ukuze ubonise uthando lwakho kwaye ube nelungelo eliqhenyayo lokubizwa ngokuba yintsapho!