Kwaye ukuphinda kube yimpumelelo yokuziphatha okanye uthathu kubaluleke kakhulu?


Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuthetha nabantu, bekuphawula ukungaqiniseki. Ukumamatheka kunzima, isihloko sesincoko asinasiphelo, ukubonakala kungenanto, ukunyakaza kunye nezenzo zendalo akuzona zendalo. Okanye, ukunxibelelana okusebenzayo kubangela ukudibanisa kunye nokwethemba, emva koko udibanise iimbali zakho, uze ufumane ukuba imfihlo yakho ayilona eyakho kuphela. Uyazi izinto ezininzi, kunye nefomu ephosakeleyo. Emva kokuxoxisana nabanye, asinakuphucula, sixoxa ngeempazamo zabanye, asiyikuzikhupha zethu. Namhlanje ndifuna ukudibanisa, kwaye ukuphinda kuyinto evamile yokuziphatha, okanye i-triad efanelekileyo ?

Ngamanye amaxesha kunomdla kum, umntu onjalo ucinga, uyamomotheka ebusweni. Ndibetha ebantwini ukuba umgangatho emva komnye umntu uxelela iingcamango. Kutheni ungamxeleli lo mntu ngokwakhe? Okanye umehluko onjani, luhlobo luni lomntu? Emva kwakho konke, bonke abantu emhlabeni abaphelelanga, bonke banezinye iingxaki zabo, ezizaliswe iimpawu ezilungileyo. Kutheni zonke ezi ziphindiwe? Okanye mhlawumbi ukuphinda kube yinto evamile yokuziphatha ? Okanye uhambo olubaluleke ngakumbi ? Ndiya kubiza abathathu emininzi. Laba ngabantu abanobuso obuthile kuwo onke amaxesha, okanye imaski. Kwaye le mihla iyimfumba.

Ukuphindaphinda ubuxoki, uhanahaniso, ukunyaniseka, ukuphinda, ukungaqiniseki, kunye neqela leentsingiselo ezingathandekiyo. Andiyi kukhankanya ukuba ngamnye wethu ujongene neembini. Singabaxelela ukuba bonke abantu emhlabeni bajongene namabini, oko kukuthi, baxoxe nabanye. Ngaba akulula ukugqoka ubuso bakho, kungekhona imaski yomntu? Emva kokuzenza ngathi ungumntu ohlukileyo, ekugqibeleni sigqala ukuba sibukeka njani. Kwaye abo bajikelezileyo abasasazi nhlobo. Ngamanye amaxesha siyaqiniseka ukuba "nooo, andinxibe i-mask, andinombono ombini, ndiyindalo kwaye andizange ndizenza." Okanye mhlawumbi sele ukhohliwe ukuba ungubani ngempela? Ngaba asiyithandi ngokwenene, ukuba sesaba abanye ukuba babonise ubuso bethu? Okanye ngaba sinoyiko lokuba abanye baya kusibangela intlungu, ubunjani bethu beze? Kodwa yonke imihla siyifumana imiphumo evela ekufeni kunye nabantu kwaye sifihla intlungu, sidonsa ngobuso. Ngaba akunjalo okuphindiweyo? Kutheni ungabonisi abantu ukuba kukukhathaza, kwaye ungabonakali ukungakhathaleli kwabo, ngokungathi akukho nto eyenzekayo? Ukunyaniseka kwinto eyoyikisayo xa kukho abantu abaninzi abangathembekanga kuwe. Mhlawumbi, lixesha lokuba sonke sitshintshe kancane ukuze sibe ngcono?

Ndineentombi enye engabali abantu kubantu. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba engabibizi: izidalwa, izidalwa ezingafanelekanga, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ukufowunjwa kwenkwenkwezi kunye nexesha, ukungcola, njl njl njl. Nangona unamanqaku amaninzi, uyakwazi ukudlala ngothando kunye nokudlala ngothando, wenza ngokuchanekileyo kangangokuthi uhlala emangaliswe. Uyancwina kubo bemihle kwaye benomdla ebusweni, kwaye xa kungekho nto yenkampani esondelene nayo, iyabahlazisa kakhulu kangangokuba ndide ndigule ... hayi, ngokuqinisekileyo uyakwazi kwaye ebusweni bathi, kodwa kuphela ukuba le ndoda ayifuni ku funeka. Kubuhlungu kakhulu, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo lihle kwaye livulekile, njengencwadi evulekileyo enokubhaliweyo okulula ukufunda, kodwa kunzima ukuyiqonda.

Uyazi ukuba ngabahlobo bokuba ngabahlobo bobuhlobo, bayayixabisa kwaye bayayihlonela. Akasoze anike umsindo. Ungumuntu omhle kakhulu, kwaye mhlawumbi xa ethanda, uya kutshintsha encinane aze ayeke ukuba ngumntu onobukrakra, kodwa uhla lwe-duplicity kuye luya kubakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, njengathi sonke, ukuba kungenjalo ngokuphathelele kumthandekayo wakhe, ngoko kubantu abakujikelezile, uya kuhlala elala amancinci kwaye enze ngathi ngathi sonke. Ufana nentaka, ocinga ukuba ingonyama enomlomo omkhulu. Umlomo, kunene, unomsebenzi omkhulu, kuphela umlomo wemibuzo, eyanelisayo ngokukhawuleza ngoncedo lwabantu, ngokuphindaphindiweyo unikezela ukumomotheka kwakhe okubangela ukuba nomona phakathi kwamantombazana akhe athile.

Ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba sisoloko sisola abantu ukuba babhekene neembini. Kwaye thina? Ngaba asiyithandi loo nto? Ngaba asifihli inxalenye yomvuzo kumyeni ngenxa yeendleko zethu, kodwa ke siyakwazi ukuluma inqatha yomvuzo? Ngaba asimhle kumnika umntu umomotheka aze amqalekise. Njengoko sifuna kubo, kunjalo nakwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngoko kubomi bonke bendalo. Ukulibala malunga neemeko zalo, siqala ukuxubusha ukuphazamiseka kweengxenye zethu ezithandekayo. Kodwa ngaba awuzange ucinge ngokubamba ngaphakathi kwakho, fumana ezi ngxaki ukuzilungisa, kwaye mhlawumbi umntu wakho uya kwenza okufanayo kuwe.

Kukho intetho enhle "musa ukugweba, kwaye musa ukugwetywa". Kodwa ngubani na ukuba sigwebe omnye umntu. Sonke silingana phambi koThixo kunye nathi sonke sinokwenza iimpazamo kunye nokusilela. NguThixo kuphela onokugweba umntu ngenxa yezono zakhe. Kwaye ukungonakali kukubaluleka kwabantu, akufanele bahlulelwe. UThixo uqobo wasidala ngokungafezeki. Ukuba uThixo akagwebi ngenxa yabo, ngoko sinelungelo luni lokugweba iimpazamo?

Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu wasweleka ngubani ongathandekanga kuwe, okanye engathandanga nhlobo, awuyi kuvuya emngcwabeni wakhe! Kuphela ngenxa yokuhlonela abafayo kunye nezihlobo ezibuhlungu, uvumele ukulila - akubikho okubizwa ngokuba yi-duplicity. Kodwa oku kuphinda kube kuhle. Oku kubizwa ngokunyanisekileyo. Kwaye emva komzekelo onjalo, sinokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukuphinda kube yinto evamile yokuziphatha, oku kuphawu lophawu. Kwaye ukuba umntu akanalo mgangatho, ngoko uluntu aluyi kuthatha.