Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba ubukho bamadoda bokwenene buqala kunye nobudala be-chivalry. Kodwa akunjalo, bekunjalo ngamaxesha onke. Ngaba kukho na amadoda okwenene ngoku? Kakade! Kodwa zibukeka zihluke kakhulu kunomntu wokwenene wexesha elidlulileyo.
Indoda yangempela kwiGrisi yamandulo nguZeyus, oyindoda enamandla, ehambelana nomsindo, uphonsa umbane kwaye utshintshe umfazi wakhe wasezulwini uHera ukuya ngasekunene nasekhohlo nabasetyhini basemhlabeni. Njengoko bethetha kwi-Intanethi namhlanje, "wayeyisiphukuphuku kunye nobudenge."
NgeMinyaka Ephakathi, kumfanekiso wendoda yangempela, kukho impawu ehluke kakhulu, iimpawu zendoda. I-knight kufuneka ibe nobuqili, isisombululo, isilumko, ixhomekeke kwezinye izinto zesini. Ukubonakala kwezi mpawu kubangelwa kwiindawo ezithile zentlalo. Inyaniso kukuba ngokwemiqathango yamandulo, onke amazwe anikwe umntu oyindlalifa eyindlalifa, unyana oqhelekileyo waya kwindlu yeendwendwe (umsebenzi we-monk wajongwa njengento ehloniphekileyo), kwaye omncinci wafumana ihashe kunye nekrele. Ithemba labo kuphela lokubuyela kwisiqulatho esivamile sasingumtshato ophumelelayo. Ukususela ngelo xesha, inkokheli yeDown Lady idlulile, ngomfanekiso wendoda efanelekileyo, ukunakekelwa, ukuthatha inxaxheba, ingqwalasela kumfazi iqala ukuvela. Kodwa nawasekufuphi nakwii-knights ezifanelekileyo zelo xesha ayekude kakhulu nomfanekiso wenkcubeko yesimanje eyenziwe kwingqondo yowesifazane.
Umntu "ngokwenene" wayekwazi ukunyamekela abafazi, kodwa emva komtshato, zonke iimpawu zomyeni onomona kunye ongathembekanga zabonakala kuye. Oku kubangelwa ukuba inkqubo yokuqhawula umtshato isicatshulwa kakhulu yicawa kwaye amakhosi amakhulu amakhulu kunye nookumkani bafumana ithuba lokuqhawula umtshato. Kwaye asifanele sikhohlwe malunga nokungalingani kwezentlalo, i-knight ingayinceda ngenyameko le ntombazana iinyanga, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo imihla ngemihla abalimi bathatha amandla, kwaye oku bekucingelwa ukuba kulandelelwe izinto. Ukunyaniseka kwakungabandakanywa kwiluhlu lwezakhono zomntu, iinqwelo zanamhlanje zikholisa ubomi obungenalutho. Into eyenzela yona yayiyimfazwe, ukuzingela kunye neendwangu zengqungquthela.
Ingqondo kunye nemfundo kwinani lezimpawu ezifanele ukuba namadoda okwenene, zawa kwiRaissance. Ngelo xesha, imbono yokuphuhliswa kokubaluleka kobuntu elawulwayo: kokubili ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Ukuba ukufundwa kwangaphambili kunye nokuqwashisa kwakucatshangwanga ngaphandle kwefad, ngoku baye baba ngumqondiso wendoda yangempela.
Ngekhulu le-17, ngokusasazeka kwamaProthestani eYurophu, ukunyamekela kwangena kwinani leempawu eziyimfuneko. Ndimele ndithi, ukunyamekela njengomgangatho wale ndoda eyenziwe kwintlalo yoluntu yinto yakutshanje, kwaye akuyimfuneko ukugxeka abameleli banamhlanje "besondo esinamandla" kuba benza konke abakwaziyo ukukhusela imisebenzi yasekhaya, bakhetha ukulala elaleni lokulala nokubukela iTV. Ukucoceka nokucoceka komzimba kwangena emininzi yemfuno yaloo ndoda kungekudala, ngasekuqaleni kwekhulu le-18. Oku kubangelwe, okokuqala, ukuhlaliswa kwamadolophu: kwiindawo ezisemaphandleni akunakwenzeka ukugcina ubungqina bomzimba ngaso sonke ixesha, kwaye akukho mfuneko. Kwaye kwiidolophu ezinabantu abanzi kunye nokukwazi ukusasazeka ngokukhawuleza kwezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo, ukugcina ubunyulu bomzimba bube yimpumelelo yentlalo.
Ngoku umntu onyanisekileyo akafanele abe nezo kuphela iimpawu ezidweliswe, kufuneka abe nezakhono zobugcisa: akwazi ukuqhuba imoto, ukusingatha izixhobo zombane kwi-computer shaver kwikhompyutha, sebenzisa kwi-intanethi. Yintoni eya kwenzeka emva?
Ngaloo ndlela, njengentuthuko yentlalo yabonakala, zonke izinto ezibonakalayo zibonakala ngomfanekiso wendoda yangempela, kwaye kamva oku okanye loo mgangatho ufike kuloluhlu, amadoda ambalwa ngoku ahambelana nawo. Ewe, safumanisa ukuba ngaba ngaba ngokwenene bangamadoda: zikhona, kodwa ziphela zincinci kwaye omnye kufuneka abe ngumfazi wokwenene ukuba abe nethuba lokuhlangana kunye nokumgcina ecaleni kwakhe. Ekugqibeleni, ungatshata njani umtshato? Khangela i-lieutenant ethembisayo kwaye uncede enze umsebenzi!