Ngubani owenza intsebenziswano kwi-Intanethi, ekuDityananeni noThuseleko loKhuseleko

Ukuqhagamshelana newebhusayithi kuyathandwa kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, ubunzima yingxaki enkulu kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Akulula ukuthola isiqingatha sesibini. Kwaye abaninzi banqwenela ukunxibelelwano oluqinileyo kunxibelelwano loqobo. Phakathi kwala bantu kukho abo abangenwabileyo ngokubonakala kwabo okanye ubomi babo. Bakhululekile ukuzenza njengomnye umntu, kuba isitho somnye umntu anganikwa sona. Kulula ukuthetha kwihlabathi elona nto, akukho ntloni okanye ihlazo. Umntu uzive ekhululekile kwaye eqinisekile. Ngubani owaziyo kwi-intanethi, ukhuseleko lwe-Intanethi yokuthandana sifunda indlela yokuziqhelanisa kunye noko kuvela kuyo. Ngokukodwa nangendlela yokuphila namhlanje, ukwakha ubomi bomntu, kungekhona wonke umntu unelungelo elaneleyo. Ixesha elikhululekile lithatha umsebenzi, akukho xesha lokuhamba ngosuku. Kodwa i-Intanethi ikuvumela ukuba uqhelane ngqo kwindawo yokusebenzela, okanye, ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya.

Iinjongo zokwazisa abasebenzisi ezahlukeneyo: ingxoxo, ukudala intsapho, ukuthandana ngothando, isondo, isimo sengqondo esibi. Ukuthandana, umntu uzalisa i-questionnaire, apho echaza ngaye ngokweenkcukacha, kuba ezi zimpawu ziya kukhethwa ngabo bafuna ukumhlangabeza. Ngaliphi na ixesha, idatha yobhaliso ingafakwa endaweni. Emva kokubhalisa, iyakuthumela kwabanye abasebenzisi be-intanethi kwaye bafumane imilayezo evela kubo.

Abalawuli kunye nabanikazi beendawo zokuthandana, qi ni sekise ukuba umyalelo uyagcinwa. Ukuba iphetshana eligqityiweyo liphula imithetho kwi-site, ngoko iyakususwa kwisiseko sedatha. Iziza ezininzi zokuthandana zibonelela ngeenkonzo ezihlawulwayo kunye neenkonzo ezongezelelweyo Zihlawulwa ngokusebenzisa iinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zokuhlawula kwinethwekhi okanye ngokuthumela i-SMS. Elizweni lethu izigidi zabasebenzisi zibhaliswe kwiindawo zokuthandana. Kukho iinkonzo ezinikezelweyo ezinjengoku: uonxibelelwano lwevidiyo, ii-blogs, iifom yewebhu.

Namhlanje kukho inani elikhulu lamasayithi okuthandana kunye nabantu abasebenzisa iinkonzo, badibana, baqhelane kwaye batshata. Kwilizwe lethu amaninzi amantombazana aphupha ngokutshata nomfokazi kwaye ahlala kwelinye ilizwe. Eli thuba linikezwa nge-intanethi, kulula kakhulu ukufumana iphrofayili yomntu kunaliphi na ilizwe kwaye emva kokubhaliweyo umntu unokunyula intlanganiso. Ngoko ke, iziza zokuthandana zithandwa kakhulu kangangokuthi ungaziqhelanisa, kunye nomgudu omncinci.

Ngubani owaziyo kwi-Intanethi?
Kukho uluvo lokuba, njengommiselo, abantu abalahlekileyo nabacebileyo baqhelana kwi-intanethi. Kodwa oku akunjalo, kuba abantu abahlukeneyo bayayazi kwaye bayakhetha ngeendlela ezithile: isixeko sokuhlala, ubudala, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ishishini, idatha yangaphandle njl. Ewe, unokubhala malunga nantoni na, abasebenzi abazithobeli ulwazi lwabo, ngamanye amaxesha inyaniso iyatshitshisa.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abaselula baqhelana nolwazi oluqhelekileyo, kwaye oku kuyaqondakala, kuba bakha inxalenye enkulu phakathi kwabasebenzisi. Ixesha elidume kakhulu kwiimviwo zineeminyaka eyi-18. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abancinci abavunyelwe ukungena kumasayithi okuthandana, kodwa ungachaza ubudala obuhlukile. Kwimihlaba enjalo, kunye nabahlala phantsi bayafumaneka.

Umyinge weminyaka yobudala beminyaka engama-33, kwaye ubude beminyaka yobudala beminyaka engama-36, ngokuqhelekileyo imibuzo yemibuzo yabayeni inkulu, kodwa i-most active women are. Kwiindawo zokuthandana ngokwemibare engenakho impendulo, i-78.2% yemilayezo ihleli, kaninzi abafazi abaphenduli. Ngenxa yokuba abantu bafuna isondo, kwaye abafazi bafuna isiqingatha sesibini, kwaye izibonelelo ezingenasiphelo zamadoda zihamba zingaphenduli. Kodwa, njengokuba ebomini, bacinga ukuba loo mntu kufuneka aqalane naye.

Ezinye iindwendwe ziqaliswa ekunxibelelaneni oluqinileyo, olubandakanya ukulala ngesondo. Abantu abanjalo abachazi igama lokwenene, baxubusha, kuyamnandi ukuthetha nabo, kodwa abayi kukwazi ukukhutshwa ngaphandle kwintlanganiso yangempela.

Kwiiwebhusayithi kukho abo bafuna ukuzonwabisa. Bafanisa umntu wobudala obuhlukeneyo, isondo lesentlalo, okanye esinye isondo. Akulungele ukubala, kuphela kwintlanganiso inokuyityhila inyaniso. Unokujonga umsebenzisi ngokumcela ukuba abonise iifoto ezimbalwa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Xa bengabikho ngokupheleleyo, oku kufuneka bakuqaphele. Akukho nkosikazi eyazihlonelayo ayiyi kufuna ukwazi ukuba ngubani oza kudibana naye.

Ukhuseleko lwe-intanethi.
Uqhagamshelwano olungileyo kunye nolunye ukhuselekile. Apha, unokufumanisa kumntu ngaphambi kokudibana naziphi iinjongo azisebenzelayo kumntu owaziwayo, into ayenzayo, kwaye ukuba iinjongo zihlukile, akanako kwaye akenzi. Kwiisayithi kaninzi akabonisi ulwazi lwabo loqha ga mshelwano, kwaye ukuba ungenayo umnqweno wokudibana, empilweni yangempela, akayi kukufumana.

Kodwa ke, nangona kunjalo, kukho ukungafihli kokukhuseleko. Amadokhumenti ekubhaleni akudingeki ukuba ahanjiswe, oko kuthetha ukuba nabani na abantu abangabafihla. Kubandakanya abantu abangenabungozi ngengqondo, kufuneka bakwesatshwe. Kwakhona kukho ukukhwabanisa kwemali. Unokuba yixhoba lomkhwabanisi okanye u-maniac.

Ukuze uzikhusele, landela imithetho elula. Nangona ungaqinisekanga ngomntu, unganiki igama lakho, idilesi ye-imeyile, inombolo yocingo.

Kwintetho kunye nomntu, qaphela ukuba ubungqina bebali alitshintshi, ngoko unokubala ukukhohlisa. Ukuba unquma ngomhla, thetha kwifowuni, phulaphula ilizwi lakhe, njengoko ekhuluma, cela isithombe. Ukudibanisa kuphela kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, uze uze uhambe usuka ngomhla wokuqala.
Ngoko, sifumene ngubani kwi-intanethi kwaye luhlobo luni loxhumo oluthile lwe-intanethi

Ukuba uqhubeka ukholelwa ukuba endaweni ethile isiqingatha sesibini silindele kuwe, zama ukukufumana. Unxibelelwano olungileyo kunye neentlanganiso zangempela zilinde wena.