Ubuvila: buhle okanye bubi?

Ubuvila bukhona ebomini bethu kwaye buyingozi! Ithintela ukuba sifinyelele iinjongo zethu. Lubuvila obusibambayo kwaye lusenza sihlale sihleli. Nangona kunjalo, simele sivume ukuba, ngenxa yokubhubhisa kwayo, ubuvila luyingxenye yethu kunye nokuba khona kwayo ngenxa yobungcali bomsebenzi wengqondo yethu. Ukuba usebenzisa ifilosofi, unokufikelela kwisigqibo sokuba ubuvila ngumthetho wendalo. Futhi ubukho bethu abukwenzeka ngaphandle kwezi nkqubo. Ngoko masizame ukuqonda ukuba ubuvila bunjani - buhle okanye bubi.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zikholelwa ukuba ngo-2020, ukudandatheka kuya kuba esinye sezifo eziqhelekileyo. Yonke le yiphumo yento yokuba umntu uzama ukungayisebenzisi imizamo eninzi kwimisebenzi yengqondo (ukuba kukho nantoni na ukucinga ngayo ...) kunye nemibutho embalwa yokwenza umsebenzi ongokwenyama, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ulangazelela ukufumana uvuyo olukhulu, ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iimfuno zakhe kunye neemeko ezifanelekileyo zokuba khona . Akukho mandla okanye umnqweno kwanoma yini enye.

Naluphina ixesha lokuzonwabisa, apho imizamo yangaphakathi ayinakwenziwa, ayilisebenzisi umzimba kunye nokuqonda kwaye ikhokelela ekuphuhlisweni kwemoya ecinezelekileyo. Oku kuvimbela umntu ekuphuhlisweni kwakhe. Ngenxa yoko, umntu uphila ixesha elininzi kwiintlungu, ukungabi naluthando, ukuxhalabisa, ukunyaniseka, njl njl.

Kuvela ukuba isizathu sobunzima, ngaphakathi nangaphandle.

Yintoni ubuvila kwaye kufuneka ulwa nalo?
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukho enye imbono kwesi sihloko. Makhe sibone. Ubuvila bungasebenzi. Ukungasebenzi kukuvimbela ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezibekiweyo. Kodwa sikhohlwa ukuba iimfuyo zinezivalo zokhuseleko zendalo ezivimbela ukunyaniseka kwabantu kunye nokuthanda. Ubuvila kukusindisa abantu. Xa ubalekela inja, luphi ubuvila bakho? Izifundo ... Ubuvila ngumandla osinika ikhefu ukusuka ebomini obunzima. Phendula le mibuzo elandelayo, kwaye kuya kucaca kuwe ukuba akusiyo into embi kakhulu! Ulahlekelwe nini ubuvila bakho? Xa unesiqhwala kunceda, kwaye bekuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba bekungekho kuye? Siyicinga ukuba ubuvila akufanele kulwa. Ulwabalalo luhlala lugonyamelo, lubi. Kubonakala kuthi kuthi kufuneka sixoxe kunye nathi kwaye sihlale siphumla, oko kukuthi, ngokuchanekileyo basasaze amandla abo.

Makhe siqwalasele ukuba yiyiphi intlungu. Yilapho umntu engakwazi ukuwamkela nokujamelana neengcinezelo zemihla ngemihla. Siphendula kwiimeko zobomi, iingxaki, abantu, njl. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde indlela yokucinga ngokuchanekileyo kwaye nje ngokufanelekileyo. Ewe, ukuba udidekile kuyo yonke into (oko kukuthi, i-chaos kwizenzo, entloko yakho), uze ucele uncedo kwisazi sengqondo. Ingcali iza kukunceda uziqonde ngokwakho, uphume kwimeko ephoxisayo. Kwaye ukuba ungenzi nto, unokuzifaka kwiimeko zokudakumba okukhulu kwaye kuya kufuneka uguqulele kwizifo zengqondo, uphuze iipilisi ...

Nasiphi na isifo sengqondo sisiphumo sokukhetha okungalunganga kokuziphatha. Ngoko, maxa wambi kwenzeka ukuba ubuvila buyindlela yokukhusela (ukuziphatha) kumntu. Yaye ukuba siphazamisa eli lizwe, ngoko kwixesha elizayo kukho umsindo, ityala, intukuthelo, intukuthelo, njl njl. Kubalulekile ukuba uzive ungcini apha, kukho izinto ezicacileyo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda i-stasis, ukuxhatshazwa kwemisipha, ukuxhatshazwa, ukufundisa, ukuxhatshazwa komzimba. Kukho ukukhungatheka - isithuba phakathi kwelizwe elifunayo kunye lokwenene. Okoku, kuyimfuneko ukusebenza kwimvakalelo, kukho ubuchwepheshe obuninzi.

Unakekele impilo yakho, ukuziphatha, iingcamango. Hlaziya, cinga, ulungele ngexesha, uchane. Zithembele wena kunye ne-intuition yakho, umzimba wakho. Yinakekele ngokomoya. Kwaye ke awusabi naluphi na uxinzelelo (akuyi kubakho ixesha lokuba ucinge ngako). Ukongezelela, kwaye ubuvila abayi kuba yindawo ebomini bakho.