Umntwana wakho sele sele eneminyaka eli-10 ubudala. Sele sele esenomdla kwiintonga, ufuna ukwenza njengoMama noTata kwaye axelise ngokupheleleyo abantu abadala. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bazama ukuxelisa iidysho zabo xa bebona ithoyizi elele phantsi.
Ukudlala njani neenyanga ezili-10
Akusiyo yonke ixesha kwaye akusoloko umntwana echitha ixesha kunye neetys. Abantwana bathanda ukudlala nabazali babo, bakhweba, bathambelane nobaba okanye umama wabo. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza le midlalo iyamangalisa kakhulu yinkwenkwe kwaye iyakhathazeka. Umntwana ufuna iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuzonwabisa kunye nemidlalo emitsha. Kwaye ubaba nomama kuphela abanokuyithobela umntwana wabo.
Kulula kakhulu ukuza nemidlalo emitsha yomntwana. Kulo mdlalo ungathatha izinto ezahlukeneyo ekhaya, ezi zinto zingabakho izinto zokugqoka, izitsha zekhishini, izimbiza, ibhokisi. Kulo nyaka umntwana uyazi kakuhle iincwadi, amaphephancwadi, amaphephandaba. Uhlala efuna ukuwaphula kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo afune. Akayithandi xa ehlala ehlwayelwa ngenxa yoko, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo into engavunyelwe, kumntwana kwaye uyakhupha.
Hlela umntwana wakho wokuzonwabisa ukuze utshabalalise omagazini abadala, amaphephandaba angadingekile. Ngaphambi komdlalo, bonise i-kid yeempapasho ezinjalo ezingavumelekanga ukuba ziqhekeke kwaye zitsho into enokuyenza kwaye ayikwazi ukwenza. Sasaza phambi kwakhe into ongayinqumlayo, vumela umntwana ukuba atshaye iphephandaba aze aphonse, enze okufanayo naye. Xa elinye ixesha efuna ukuphula into ethile, mnike amaphepha angadingekile oku. Ngeli sifundo uza kufunda indlela yokucela imvume kubantu abadala abakwaziyo kwaye abanako ukwenza. Ingcono vumela umntwana wakho akwenze phambi kwakho kunokuba akwenze kwikona elithulileyo.
Dlala izinto ezifihliweyo kumdlalo.
Mnike umdlalo omnandi umdlalo, umntwana uya kubamba indlela ezandleni zakhe, aze afihle umtsalane wakhe emva kwakhe, emva kwekhabethe, emva kwesitulo, phantsi kweengubo, phantsi komlotha. Umntwana uya kuba nomdla kulo mbandela ngenomdla. Ezi njongo zinokuthi zenziwe ngefowuni ehambelana nefowuni, i-radiyo, i-clock ticking. Le nto kufuneka ifihliwe ukuze umntwana angaboni apho efihliweyo khona, ukuze kuphela izandi ufumane into. Olu luphuhliso oluhle lwentetho yokuncedisa umntwana. Oku kuya kuphucula ikhono lomntwana ukuphulaphula.
Ukuthetha ngefowuni
Gweba ityhubhu ukusuka ekhadibhodi uze uthethe, uzame ukutshintsha ilizwi. Uya kumangaliswa ukuba umntwana uya kukuphulaphula ngenyameko, ngoko uyakhohlisa kwaye uthi izandi ze-ma-ma okanye ba-ba. Ngoku unike umntwana umbhobho. Uya kufuna ukuphinda ezi zandi.
Abantwana abancinci
Yenza ikerubhi yebhodi ebhophu kunye ne-10 ebomvu, faka intsimbi kwi-cube ephuzi. Qaphela ukuba umntwana wakho unokukwazi ukwahlula i-cube ngombala kwaye ufumane i-cube ngensimbi.
Ixesha lomculo
Thatha ibhokisi elingenalutho kwimbewu yokutya uze uyiguqule ibe ngugubhu. Kwaye endaweni yecala, mnike umntwana ukhuni lomthi uze ubonise indlela onokubetha ngayo isigubhu.
Ukukhwela iimoto
Bonisa umntanakho indlela yokutshiza iloli okanye imoto encinane ukuze bahambe phantsi. Emva kwexesha elithile, umntwana uya kufunda ukutshiza umatshini ukuze ujikeleze ngokwalo ixesha elide.
Ukuba umntwana uthanda ukukrazula izinto ngaphandle kwekheritye aze ahlakaze iindlu, udlale umdlalo wokusasazeka, uze uqoke izinto. Okokuqala, lungiselela ibhasiki yokuhlamba impahla, isitya okanye uhlobo oluthile lwebhokisi. Faka izinto kwisitya kwaye uvumele imvana ukuba iphume. Xa zonke izinto zingezantsi, bonisa indlela anokuphonswa ngayo. Umntwana uya kuthoba izinto, aze azibuyise. Ngexesha elizayo, xa izinto zakho ziqhubela emhlabathini, cela umntwana ukuba abuyiselwe kwikhefu. Ukuba udlala lo mdlalo, umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba izinto ezichanekileyo kufuneka zibekwe endaweni.
Ifoto efihliweyo
Xa ubaba esebenza, dlala "ufihle uze ufune" nesithombe sikaPapa. Fihla umfanekiso uze uyibuke imbuzi kunye nawe: "Uphi uTata? Mhlawumbi usebhokisini lokudlala? Mhlawumbi phantsi kwetafile yokutya? "Yaye xa umntwana efumana isithombe sikaTata, bulisa ukufumana" UTata wafunyanwa. "Kungekudala umntwana uya kuvuya kunye nawe.
Ekugqibeleni, songeza ukuba ungadlala nomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-10 kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo elula, into ephambili ecacileyo kwaye inomdla.