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Okokuqala, sigqibo malunga neemfuno zakho. Yaye ugcine engqondweni: eziphakamileyo iimfuno zakho ze-nanny, ephakamileyo intlawulo yeenkonzo zakhe. Kubantwana abancinci kunyanzelekile ukuba baqeshe imali enemfundo yonyango, kubantu abadala - ngemfundo yokufundisa.
■ Ukufumana umntwana kuphela. Uya kunika umntwana kwaye unakekele ukuba akukho nto eyenziwe kuye. Umsebenzi oyintloko - ngexesha lokutya, utshintshe i-diaper, "hamba", ulala. Ixabiso - eli likhetho loqoqosho. Iimfuno: inkunkuma yeencwadi, ubusi. imfundo, amava omsebenzi.
■ I-Nanny-housemaid. Ukongeza kwiimbopheleleko zokunyamekela abantwana, le nanyana iya kuba nakho ukunceda kunye nebini: okanye ukupheka isidlo sakusihlwa, amagumbi ahlambulukileyo kunye nezambatho zensimbi. Iinkonzo ezinjalo zibiza kakhulu. Izidingo: efanayo, kunye nokukwazi ukupheka ngokumnandi. U-nitshala-utitshala (umqhubi). Yonke imisebenzi ayibandakanyi ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kuphela, kodwa iiklasi zokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili, ukulungiselela isikolo> ukufundisa iilwimi zangaphandle. Izidingo: imfundo ephakamileyo yemfundo, ulwazi lweelwimi kunye neendlela zokuphuhlisa. Ezi nkonzo zibiza kakhulu.
Unzima ukhetho
■ Khangela. Qala ukukhangela kunye nezihlobo nabahlobo. Mhlawumbi intombi yomfundi wesifazane ufuna ukufumana imali kumqeshwa? Okanye omnye oomama oqhelekileyo uya kuncomela ugogo kumnyango ongummelwane? Ukuba ezi zikhethi zingasebenzi, sincoma ukuba uqhagamshelane ne-arhente ekhethekileyo. Izinzuzo zicacile: uya kunikwa amanyathelo amanyathelo athile ngexesha elilodwa, kwaye ukuba omnye umntanakho akakusondeleli (ugula, eselekho), uya kuthatyathwa yinto enye (ibe yinto engama-3 endaweni ye-free). Ukongeza, i-arhente ngumgcini-mboleko wobudlelwane bakho kunye nomnxeba kwaye, njengomthetho, akukho bavalelwe ngabasebenzi basebatyhini abagxeka kakhulu. Iyona nto iyingxaki enkulu yintengo ephezulu yeenkonzo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna i-nanny efanelekileyo, ngoko unokukufumana kuphela kwi-arhente. Kodwa asikhuthazi ukukhangela isimemezelo kwikholam okanye kwiphephandaba - kukho ingozi enkulu yokudibana nomntu ongehlazo.
■ Iingcebiso. Cela uncomo lwe-nanny. Hlola ngokubiza abaviwa abadlulileyo.
■ Isivumelwano. I-arhente iya kunikwa ukugqiba isivumelwano esibhaliweyo sokunikezelwa kweenkonzo, kodwa unokwenza izilungiso zakho. Iimfanelo zomongikazi zibuze iinkcukacha - xa usondla, xa uhamba, nalapho uphupha. Yenza isigqibo malunga nendlela yokuhlawula. Qinisekisa ukuba ucacise amaphuzu: "unomsi wesidlo", "shiya", "iintsuku ezingenzi lutho ngephutha lomqeshi", "ixesha elingaphezu kwexesha". Oku kuya kukunceda ukuphepha ukungaqondi kakuhle kwixesha elizayo.
Yithemba, kodwa khangela
■ Ukucinga okokuqala. Xa udliwano ndlebe, umfana kufuneka akuthande wena kunye nendlela yokunxibelelana nomntwana. Buza imibuzo yakhe: "Uza kwenza ntoni xa umntwana echeba?", "Uya kusihlwaya njani umntwana xa engayithobeli?". Ngoko uya kufumanisa ukuba uyakwazi kangakanani kwaye ingaba iindlela zakho zokutshatyalaliswa.
■ Inkqubo yovavanyo. Kucetyiswa ukuba uhlala ekhaya ngosuku lokuqala. Jonga ngokugqithiseleyo indlela umviwa ajamelana ngayo nomntwana, ngokusemandleni akho, angene kwikhosi yecala. Ngenyanga elandelayo, uya kukwazi ukutshintsha ingqondo yakho ukuba into ethile kwimisebenzi yamannies ibonakala ingavumelekanga kuwe.
■ Ukuphendula komntwana. Namela ingqalelo nokuziphatha komntwana wakho, amagama amatsha, izakhono. Ukuba emva kwexesha umntwana udibana nomntwana ngokukhala - oku kungumqondiso ombi.
Qaphela i-frank Bok!
■ Ukurekhoda kwezaziso kunye nevidiyo, ukujonga i-intanethi. Ekukhuseleni komntwana wakho, zonke iindlela zilungile, ngoko uchithe kwiikhamera ezincinci okanye ubuncinane ushiye irekhodi. Kwaye unokungalindelekanga ufike ekhaya kwaye "vuka" emngceleni wegumbi. Omnye unina, ngaloo ndlela, wathola i-nanny enokuthula, kwaye umntwana wakhe uneminyaka eyi-1.5 ubudala - enye ekhitshini - edlala ngokutshintshwa kwisitofu segesi. Kwaye kunjalo, umgangatho wethemba kufuneka ube khona. Ukuba umntwana usempilweni kwaye uyavuya, ufikelela kumongikazi, ngoko uncedisayo unenhlanhla.
Amagqwetha awaziyo athi inkontileka ebhaliweyo kunye ne-nanny (kwaye iqinisekiswe ngumbhalisi) inokuphela kwengxolo yakho yengqondo. Enyanisweni, ukuba kukho naziphi na izinto ezimbi, awukwazi ukubhekisela kulo xwebhu. Inyaniso kukuba ngokwemithetho, wena, njengomqeshi, unyanzelekile ukuhlawula irhafu kunye nezinye iindleko zomqeshwa wakho. Ekubeni ungenzi oku, ezinye iimeko zekhontrakthi ziya kufakwa ngokukhawuleza enkundleni. Umthetho woLuntu unika inkululeko yesivumelwano, ngoko ke isivumelwano somlomo sinakho kwaye sinamandla omthetho. Yaye ukuphunyezwa kwayo nayiphi na imeko kuxhomekeke kuphela ekuhloneni kunye noxanduva lwenkwenkwe yakho.