Ukuba umntu uthe amazwi athile kumfazi, ngoko akukho buhlobo. Oku kufana nokutsho ukuba unomdla kum njengomnxibelelwano kwaye akukho. Uthando lomntu luqala ngokukhangela ngesondo. Okokuqala, ibhinqa litsalisa ukubonakala kwayo, kwaye ukuba ukususela ekuqaleni, akayi kuba. Kwaye kubudenge ukuchitha ixesha kunye namandla kulo mntu. Akukho mqondo ekuzikhohliseni. Kwintombazana ehloniphayo, lo buhlobo buyacaphuka.
Ukuba lo mfana wathi sibahlobo
Musa ukudimazeka xa kukuzwakala kukungaqhelekanga kwaye uyisicwenge kuwe, kuba ekuqalekeni, okubi kukukhokelela phambili. Mhlawumbi, lo akuyiyo indoda yakho kwaye awuyi kuphumla njani kuyo, kodwa ekushiye, wakhulula indawo yowona mntu ufanelekileyo, onothando noyinyani. Waqonda oku phambi kwakho, yingakho wahamba. Akufuneki ukuyibuyisela, ungabambeleli kuyo. Intlungu iya kudlula, kuyadingeka ukuze ungayi kuphinda uphinde wenze iimpazamo kwaye uqaphele ngakumbi. Okwangoku, uya kuzinza, uhlaziye, ucinge kwaye wenze izigqibo zakho. Ungazigxeka ukuba akazange abe ngumntu wobomi bakho. Akudingeki ukuba ube yiNdlovukazi yeSiqhwa enentliziyo enqabileyo, akafanelekanga.
Kink kunye nentloko yakho emsebenzini, le ndlela ifanelekileyo inceda ukulahla iingcamango ezimbi. Nangona abuyele, ngelo xesha uya kuba nemvakalelo yakhe okanye i-hobby entsha iya kubonakala.
Thatha uhambo kwindawo ethile. Kungaba luhambo ukuya epikinikini okanye kwisixeko esikufutshane, okanye uhambo oluthambileyo kwilizwe elingaqhelekanga, okanye uhambo olujikelezayo lwehlabathi oluya kukuphazamisa iingcamango ezingathandekiyo ngalo.
Yiya kwimidlalo. Oku kuthetha imidlalo enamandla, le ndlela yindlela engcono yokukrazula zonke izinto ezingenasiphelo kunye nokukhupha.
Fumana i-hobby entsha ngokwakho, ingaba yiikhosi zokuqeqesha eziphambili, ukuqhuba ngokugqithiseleyo, i-macrame njalonjalo. Musa ukuhlala ungenzi mzuzu ngomzuzu kwaye ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi le ntlonipho entsha iya kuba nendima ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Yaye uyazi ukuba yintoni encinci kuwe? Kuzinyamekela. Thatha ngamandla anamathathu kwaye wenze umquba womzimba, ubhekane nemiski, udanisa ngesigamu seyure phambi kwesibuko esingaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi, vula umculo ophumayo uze uhlambe kunye neetyuwa zorwandle kunye nemifuno. Musa ukuphulaphula ingoma enye eya kukukhumbuza, yiphonsa zonke iintyatyambo ezinobuncwane nezomileyo. Akukho nto enje ifanele ihlale ikukhumbuza ngomntu oyithandayo. Ngoko, ngokukhawuleza "amanxeba akho aya kuphulukisa." Vele uziphose kwi-whirlpool ebomini. Ukufumana encinane, uya kuyidinga malunga neenyanga. Gxotha iingcamango zokufa eziza kuqonda ukuba ngubani olahlekileyo kwaye uya kubuya kuwe. Oku akunakunceda, unomfanekiso wakho kwaye akayi kuyeka.
Ekugqibeleni, unokongeza - jonga ngeenxa zonke, ihlabathi lihle kakhulu, kwaye oko ufumene ngoku nje kukubunzima okwethutyana nje, uza kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala uze ukhumbule oku ngoxolo. Jabulela ukuba waqhawula wena nomntu onjalo. Intliziyo yakho iya kuhanjelwa uthando lokwenene kwaye umntu oya kuba nawe uya kuba ngumntu ongcono kakhulu kuwe.