Ndibhalela eli nqaku kungekhona ngenjongo yokusasaza ngokubeletha ngecesarean section. Ngokulula, ndifuna ukuxhasa oomama abancinane ekulungiseleleni ukuzalwa okunjalo.
Icandelo le-Caesarea yintsebenzo yekhwela esetyenziselwa ukukhipha umntwana ngokusika ngaphakathi kwindonga yesisu nangomlenze. Ukusebenza kwenziwa phantsi kweemeko zonyango eziqinileyo, xa ukuhanjiswa ngezindlela zemvelo kungenakwenzeka, okanye kube yingozi enkulu kumama nomntwana.
Abasetyhini abaninzi bayathuthunyiswa nguloyiko: kuya kwenzeka ntoni, kuya kuba njani? Enyanisweni, uMtyholi akayikrele kakhulu njengoko evezwe. Ndiye ngapha nangapha, ngoko ndifuna nje ukwabelana ngam amava am.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, xa umfana omncinci we-gynecologist kwi-consulting yabasetyhini wenza "isigqibo" sokuba kuya kufuneka abelethe ngecesarean section, uyaxhalabisa. Kwaye kwakunam. Yintoni ebendiyikisayo kakhulu? Luhlobo luni lwe-anesthesia ndiya kuyenza? Yintoni eya kwenzeka kumntwana wam? Ngaba isisu sami siya kuba yintoni, kwaye ngokubanzi, yiziphi iingxaki ezinokuthi zibe khona ngexesha nangemva kokusebenza?
Andizi ukuba kulungile ukuthetha malunga nokuba uluhlu olunjani oluhlukeneyo kwesi sihloko ndifunda ngexesha elifutshane. Izinto ezivela kwimithombo ethile zinyanisekile, ngoxa abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, babesabisayo. Kukho umnqweno, ngeendlela zonke, ukuzala ngendlela engokwemvelo. Nangona kunjalo, intombazana yam intanda, ukususela ngenyanga yesihlanu ukuya ekupheleni, yayihleli emgodini, njengomntwana okhaliphile, ephangwa kwinqanaba lokuzala. Nangona kunjalo, ugqirha wam onamava wandithembele ukuba ndinike "imeko yam," intambo yam encinci kunye nentambo kunye nentambo yam emqaleni entanyeni yentombi yam, andiyi kuzala.
Impilo yomntwana wam ingaphezu kwam konke. Ngoko, andizange ndibeke engozini.
Ndibekwa kwiwadi yokubeletha ukuba ndilungiselele ukusebenza okucwangcisiweyo. Ngaloo nto ke ndiyekile ukukhathazeka malunga nento engalunganga kum. Ukujikeleza iwashi, mna kunye nabanye oomama abaninzi bephantsi kolawulo lwagqirha abanolwazi. Kwaoko ndiya kuthetha ukuba andingamazi omnye ugqirha, kwaye andizange ndixoxe ngantoni na.
Ndaqaphela ukuba icandelo lesigxina liyingozi enkulu kubini nomntwana. Kodwa ukuba ubelethe ngendlela engokwemvelo kwimeko, njengam, umngcipheko omkhulu.
Ngoku ngokwenene malunga nokusebenza. Iqela lonke loogqirha landiyisa ekamelweni lokusebenza. Ngaphambi kwangaphambili banditshilo ukuba baya kwenza i-anesthesia ye-epidural. Ukususela ekuqaliseni ukuba ndiya kubona nokuva yonke into, ndagula. Ewe, kulungile. Akukho ndawo ingahambi ndawo.
Umfana omncinci we-anesthesiologist wandinika umtsalane emgodini. Enyanisweni, ayibuhlungu kangangoko ndicinga ngayo. Emva koko ndafakwa kwitheyibhile yokusebenza.
Udibene nenqwaba yezixhobo ezahlukileyo kunye ne-dropper. Wonke umntu owayenami kumzuzwana wangiphatha njengomntwana omncinci, ulawula yonke imiphefumlo kunye nokunyakaza kwam amehlo. Ndihlala ndibuzwa ngeemvakalelo zam, ngamanye amaxesha nditshitshisa into ethile.
Enyanisweni, xa ndiqala "ukunqumla", iimeko zam sele zivukile. Ukususela ngenkxaso yoogqirha kunye nokuqonda ukuba ndiza kuva ukukhala kwam umntwana. Umzimba wam wahlula isikrini kwisiqingatha, apho kungabonakali nto. Ewe, ndandiva into ethile ngexesha lo msebenzi. Kodwa kwakungekho intlungu. Ngoko, into ayiyithandi kakhulu. Uvakalelwa kukuba "kukhona" wenza into ethile.
Ngamafutshane, nge-9.55 ilanga lam isuswa. Xa wayekhala, iinyembezi zonwabo zaqala ukuhamba. Ngelo xesha, kwakungenakwenzeka ukuchaza imeko yam ngelo xesha kunye namazwi aqhelekileyo abantu.
Nangona ndandisenomdla wokonwaba, ndatshitshiswa kakuhle. Emva koko ba ndibanga kwaye ba ndibuyisela kwinqununu yokunyamekela.
Apho ndahlulwa ngamaphilisi, ngaphantsi kwefuthe lokuba ndibenokusetyenziswa kotywala. Abahlengikazi kunye noogqirha bokuhlaziya bajikeleza ngeenxa zonke kumabutho. Emva kwexesha, ndaziva ukuba iinyawo zam ziqala ukuvula. Kamva, isisu esezantsi sagula. Ndiyabulela uThixo, inyanzelekile. Shivered. Ndagutyungwe ngeengubo ezifudumele, kwaye kungekudala i-chill yadlula.
Ngobusuku bomhla omnye, ndafika kwindlu yangasese ngokwam. Wade wafika kwindawo yokuhlamba, ngokuba wayefuna ukusela ngokungazelelwe.
Ngentsasa ndathunyelwa kwigumbi eliqhelekileyo, apho oomama belele khona, abazalayo. Ndiye esibhedlele ndibambe ibhanki emva kokuzalwa. Uyakuxhasa ngokupheleleyo isisu. Kule meko, ngaphandle kwakhe konke. Ngamafutshane, ngomhla omnye ndandisebenzela ngokupheleleyo kunye nabahlobo bam abatsha, abaziva bebi kakhulu kunoko.
Ngokungafani namantombazana ayenomnqweno we-perineum ngexesha lokubeleka, ndingahlala njengomntu oqhelekileyo. Nangenxa yokudluliselwa kwimizalwane kunye nam, ndahamba ngeekorori ukuya kwisakhiwo esiseduze. Enyanisweni, iintsuku zokuqala, kwafuneka ugobe umncinane. Ndacinga ukuba, xa iqondiswe ngokupheleleyo, umsila wawuza kuphuka. Kodwa oku akunjalo.
Ubisi ndibenakho phambi kwabo bonke kwaye baninzi. Ngoko inkolelo yokuba ubisi lukaKesare ayibonakali yinto engeyonto nje.
Sakhishwa esibhedlele kwiveki emva kokuzalwa. Ukuyika kwam ngesigxobo esikhulu akuzange kuzaliseke. Phantse inyanga kunye nesiqingatha kamva waphilisa ngokupheleleyo. Kuza kube yiminyaka emibili ukususela kuloo mzuzu, kwaye ngoku kwimeko yam isisu esezantsi kunomncinci kuphela, "ongenomso" ongenakubonakala.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, mama othandekayo! Ukuba unesigqeba, musa ukubeka ingozi ekubelethweni ngokwemvelo. Amachiza namhlanje akukona oko bekuyiminyaka engama-25 edlulileyo.
Cinga, okokuqala, malunga nendlela eya kuba ngcono ngayo umntwana wakho. Ukuba unqunyelwe ukuba uvumelekile, ke kukho izizathu ezilungileyo zokuthi. Konke okulungileyo kuwe.