Ukufunda ukubhala i-letter back to man

Ukuthi "Hamba kakuhle" emehlweni kunzima kakhulu, ukwenza ukuba kubhalwe kulula kakhulu. Ileta yokubuyisela kumntu owayekade kufuneka wenze imisebenzi emininzi: ukwazisa, ukuchaza nokuthuthuzela. Indlela yokukhetha amagama afanelekileyo, ushilo sethu sengqondo.

Cwangcisa umyalezo ochaziweyo kumntu othandekayo

Ileta akufanele ibe yinto elula, ubhale ngaphezulu kwephepha elinye le-A4. Kufuneka uqale ngento ephambili oye wanquma ukuyeka ulwalamano, bhala phakathi kweleta ukucacisa iinjongo zakho, uze ugqibe umyalezo nento ofuna ukuyijonga ngayo ubuhlobo bakho kwixesha elizayo. Ngamanye amagama, ubona umntu osondele kuwe njengomhlobo, umhlobo, okanye ukhetha ukususa ebomini bakho ngenxa yezizathu ezithile. Ungazami ukubhalela i-flamboyant, ungasebenzisi ezininzi izalathisi kunye nokuthelekisa, zivele zimnyama nje intsingiselo yomyalezo.

Indlela yokuqala ileta yokubuyisela?

Yonke ileta ifanele iqale ngesibheno, kwaye akufanele inganyanzelwanga, yinto eyenza umyalezo wethu ube ngumntu. Musa ukuqalisa ileta ngegama elithi "Sawubona, Zai" okanye "Sawubona, ndoda!" Khumbula ukuba uthetha, ungakhohliswa ngumntu, kuba sele esele wayedlulile, kakuhle, kwaye ngaphambili ayabizwa. Eyona ndlela ikhethekileyo kukubhekisela kuyo ngegama. Musa ukusemthethweni kwaye ugweme izitampu, ileta yedwa.

Indlela yokuxelela umfana "Goodbye" ngosuku, funda apha .

Indlela yokuthetha ngayo ngokuhlukana?

Yonke into ongayenzayo imnandi i pilisi encinci, ubiza izinto ngamagama abo kuya kufuneka ukuba wenze oko kanye. Akukho kwisivakalisi sokuqala, kunjalo, kodwa kwinxalenye yokuqala yileta kunyanzelekile. Bhala ukuba uyayixabisa ixesha elichithwe kunye kunye nentombi yakho isele umntu osondeleyo, kodwa wagqiba ekubeni uqhubeke. Yaye ukhumbule ukunyaniseka. Mxelele ukuba kutheni banqume ukuhamba, mhlawumbi oku kuya kunceda umfana wakho waqala ukuphosa iimpazamo kwixesha elizayo ukuba isizathu sokuba kubo. Ukuba uthandana nomnye umntu, yitsho ngqo. Ungayisebenzisi inkcazo esuka kwiimvumi, kungenzeka ukuba indoda yakho ibhekisele kubo kwaye iyakubona ngokukhawuleza i-plagiarism. Zama ukuchaza oko kusengqondweni yakho. Ngaba kunzima kwaye kunomsindo kuwe? Vumayo! Ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, uvakalelwa kukuba uye wanda amaphiko, unqwenela ukuba umntu owayengumntu ofanayo.

Kuthetha ukuthini?

Ukugqiba le leta, njengokuba uqale - ngezwi elisezantsi. Ungathethi kumagama athi "Njalo, lakho ngonaphakade ..." okanye "Ndiyakuthanda ngonaphakade", ngoko uya kuzisa nto, yonke into ebhaliwe ngaphambili. Isiphelo esipheleleyo siya kuba yisicelo sokungakhubeki kwaye uzame ukukuqonda.

Kutheni ungabhali phantsi kwincwadi?

Abasetyhini abaninzi benza impazamo efanayo, beshiya amadoda - bashiye umnyango uvule. Akufanele unike umntu ithemba lobuxoki. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthi "I-Goodbye," tshela ngokuqinile. Kwileta yokubuyisela, akukho ndawo yegama elithi "Ngaphandle kwakho ndiya kugula", "Mhlawumbi ndiya kuzisola ngesigqibo sam" okanye "Indlela yokukwazi ukuba iinjongo zethu ziya kuphinda ziphinde zihlangane." Ewe, ukuhlukana kunzima, ngakumbi ukuba wenze isigqibo esithile emva kobudlelwane obude, kodwa incwadi yokubuyisela kumntu, uthando oluye lwadlulayo, kufuneka libhekiselele, kungekhona i-ellipsis.