Ukulala emva kokubeletha: iingxaki

Ngokuvisisanayo, kungekudala okanye kamva, ngamnye umfazi udibana naye ebomini bakhe ngokuzilahla ngokwesondo. Ukuziyeka kubangelwa zimbalwa zezizathu. Ukususela kwezi zizathu, kuxhomekeke kwixesha elingakanani eliza kuchitha ngaphambi kokuba umzimba womfazi ulungele ukulala ngesondo. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zabonisa ukuba emva kokubeleka ngexesha lokusondeza umntwana, i-hormone emzimbeni ikhutshwe, eyanciphisa i-libido kwaye ibangela uxanduva lwe-lactation, kwaye kufuneka yongezwe ukuba emva kokuzalwa umzimba wesibini ubuyiselwe kwiinyanga ezintandathu ngokubhekiselele kwizinto ezinokwenyama kwaye, ngokwenene, ibhinqa eli xesha alikho ngesondo.

Qalisa umsebenzi wesondo osebenzayo emva kokuyeka ukuhlala ixesha elide akulula. Ukuzibamba ixesha elide kubangela ukuba ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo kuqala umfazi uvakalelwa kukuziphatha okubi nangokwengqondo. Emva kokuwela umda kwindlu yokulala, ukukhathazeka kokuziphatha kuyaziva, ukwenzeka koyiko. Ukuzilahla kukukhokelela ekutshintsheni kwengqondo kwengxaki kunye nokuvela komntu othiwa "ubunzima bomhlolokazi". Abasetyhini abaneenkathazo ezinjalo basabela kwintando yomlingane kakhulu, kodwa kunzima kakhulu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka ukufikelela kwi-orgasm. Ngexesha lokuzila, umzimba uphinde wakhiwe kwaye loo mizimba enoxanduva lokukhangela ukuqala ukuqala ukusebenza kumgangatho ophantsi, ngelixa umfazi engafuni ukulala ngokwesondo. Kule meko ukujongana nale ngxaki kuza kunceda kuphela oyingcali.

Ama-sexologists ahlula abafazi kwiimeko ezimbini: kwezinye iisetyhini, isondo sesondo sanda ngexesha lokuziyeka, ngelixa kwezinye, ngokuchaseneyo, lilala. Abasetyhini, abanomdla wabo wesondo owandayo, banqwenela kakhulu ngokwesini, iqabane lawo kufuneka lihlale livelisa into entsha. Oku akunjalo kuthetha ukuba abafazi abanjalo bafana neentlobo zesini esithandana nabo ngokwesini, ngenxa yokwaneliseka kwabo ngokupheleleyo, kufuneka iintlobo ezahlukeneyo.

Abanye balinganisa ngesondo kunye nokukhwela ibhayisekile, ukuba uyayazi njani, khumbula, kodwa ukusukela kule ntembelo ayiqhotyoshelwanga. Ekhanda kwangoko kukho imibuzo eninzi malunga nokukhanga kwabo kunye nezakhono zesondo. Kwaye ngoku khawucinge, ngoko i-penalty yakho ye-baton iphelile kwaye ungangena kwihlabathi lonwabo. Ukukrazula izibambano ngaphambi kokulala ngokwesondo emva kwexesha elide, kufuneka uqonde izinto ezimbalwa:

Lungisa umzimba wakho, khangela ukuba uza kuthini xa usabela ngokulula.

Ukuba lo ngumlingani wakho omtsha kwaye ngaphambi kokuba angalalanga ngesondo, musa ukukhawuleza kuye ngokusondelana. Yichitha ixesha kunye naye uze ulinde ukuba umnqweno wakho uvuke. Ukuba awufuni, awuyi kuzinyanzela.

Hlaziya, iya kuba yinto emele ukuba yintoni. Ukuba intloko yakho igxinwe ngcamango, ngokuqinisekileyo awuyi kulufumana nayiphi na izibalo. Yeka ukucinga nzima.

Wena ungumfazi, kunye nabasetyhini badalwa ukuzonwabisa. Musa ukuthobeka kwaye ubuze iqabane lakho ukuba wenze zonke izicwangciso zakho zesini.

Qiniseka, ungabi neentloni.

Nika ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwi-caresses yokuqala, musa ukukhawuleza ukuzama konke okuzonwabisa ngexesha elilodwa.

Ukuba i-caress yokuqala ngesizathu esithile ayinakuvusa ngokupheleleyo isifiso sakho sesondo okanye ungakhululwa ngokupheleleyo, thatha i-shower joint kunye nomfana wakho.

Unethemba kwaye ubuhle kuwe, umfazi, awubhali phantsi ebunzini lakho xa kukho isondo sokugqibela, ungakhathazeki.

Ukuba lo ngumlingani wakho oqhelekileyo wesondo, yenza, njengesiqhelo, ungadlala, kodwa yenza oko ukuthetha kwakho kukuxelele.

Ukuba awukwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ixesha elide, ngoko kukufanele ukubonisana nengcali.