Ukubeletha kuye kuye kwabangela ezininzi iinkolelo ezithandwayo, iimpawu kunye namahemuhemu. Oku kubangelwa kukuba phambi kokubonakala kweenzuzo zenkqubela phambili yesayensi kunye nezobuchwepheshe kuluntu lwethu, indoda yajikeleza ebumnyameni boyika kunye neenkolelo. Asiyi kuzixhalabisa ngemigaqo yeVedic endala kakhulu, kuba umntu wamanje uye wasuka kakhulu kwimvelo, ixesha elide ngaphambi kwe-NTP. Kwaye kufana neyinyama engafundile kunokuba yindodana yeminye impucuko enkulu. Namhlanje siza kukhanyisa ezinye zeengcamango eziqhelekileyo ngokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Ngoko, ukuthanda kwabafazi: ukukhulelwa nokubeletha.
1. Ukulandela ukutya, ukuzilolonga okhethekileyo kunye nokukhetha ngokufanelekileyo umhla wokukhulelwa, unokuceba isondo sekusasa lomntwana. Akunjalo. Ukwabelana ngesondo lomntwana kufana neloti ye-genetic engalindelekanga. Impembelelo ekukhulelweni komntwana wesini esithile kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zokupasa kunye nokuloba ngumsebenzi ongenangqondo.
2. Ukukhulelwa kusoloko kunesifo esiyingozi, i-whims, i-hysterics. Oku kuya kubangela ukuba kungabikho ukuxabana kwaye kungakhokelela ekuhambeni ubudlelwane. Hayi, hayi, kwaye akukho kwakhona! Le ngqungquthela exhaphakileyo, iphefumlelwe nje ngamadoda, ingabesifazana, ukwesaba. I-Toxicosis yabesifazane abakhulelweyo ayikho imeko enzima kangaka. Kwenzeka kwifom elula kuphela kwipesenti ezilishumi zabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, kwaye nangona kunjalo ubude be-toxicosis obuyinto engaphezulu kweveki ezimbini ngenyanga yokuqala yokukhulelwa. Mfuneko nje ukuba uziphulaphule, ususe ukutya kunye nezinto. Zizenzele ngevumba elimnandi. Yaye qiniseka ukuba udle okanye uphuze into emuncu ukusasa, kungcono ukuba ungaphumi embhedeni. Ngokomzekelo, isiraphu ye-apple okanye i-cranberry. Umoya kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo banokungena ngenxa yezinga eliphezulu leprogesterone. Kodwa ezi zinto zithandekayo ezingabonakaliyo, kodwa zihombise. Emva kwakho konke, ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umfazi uhlala ecotha. Kukho umphumo wesayensi ongenakuchazileyo wokunyaniseka okungaqhelekanga kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, njengokungathi umntwana uyancwina unina.
3. Ufuna uxolo, umsebenzi wokuzilolonga awukhutshwanga, nakuphi na ungeke ukwazi ukudlala imidlalo. Ewe, imidlalo akufanele iphathwe ngayo, kuba imidlalo isebenza kumda wezithuba zemvelo, ngaphandle koko ayiyona imidlalo, kodwa imfundo yenyama. Le yiphutha eliqhelekileyo esilenzayo xa sithetha ngemfundo yenyama, kungekhona imidlalo. Ukuzivocavoca kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo akugcini nje ukuphikisana, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo - kuboniswa. Ukuhamba ngokulula ekuseni, imidlalo engeyona yingozi (badminton, volleybal beach, polo polo), ukubhukuda, ukuhamba.
4. Ukukhulelwa akunakubukela kwesoyikekayo, umntwana uza kuzalwa engalunganga. Unokuqinisekisa oomama abalindayo: idatha yangaphandle yomntwana, njengezo zesini, ayixhomekeke kwimbonakalo efunyenwe kwisibeleko somama. Ziyakwimeko, kunye nesondo kunye neenkcukacha zedata lokuzalwa, ukusuka kwintlangano engezantsi yezityalo. Kodwa ke, iimvakalelo ezintle ziza kunceda, kwaye ziphazamise ingozi kwimpilo yengqondo yomama. Ezi zizathu ezilula kwaye eziqondakalayo ukuba kutheni umfazi okhulelweyo kufuneka akwazi ukubukela iifriji ezibuhlungu, kodwa kunokuba uye kwigalari yezobugcisa okanye i-opera.
5. Awukwazi ukusika iinwele zakho - unciphisa ubomi bakho nomntwana wakho. Ngokutsho kweengcamango zamandulo, zisezinwele ezinamandla amakhulu. Cinga, oomama abathandekayo bokomso: kutheni ke abantu banqunywe iinwele, nangona indoda ingowokuqala kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu kwiqhawe? Ngesizathu esithile, amadoda ayesabi ukunciphisa ubomi bawo aze aphephe kwaye azincitshise. Musa ukwesaba ukunqumla iinwele ezingadingekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa, oku kuya kwenza ukuba izinwele zakho zibe ngcono, ezingenakuhamba ngexesha elihle. Kwaye uhlala ufuna ukubukeka kakuhle, ngakumbi ukususela emva kokubeleka, awuyi kuba nexesha. Yiba mnandi. Ukuhlaselwa kweenwele eziqaqambileyo ngaphantsi kwamadolo - ukulungiswa okulungileyo komfazi. Akukho mntu uya kukhanyela! Kodwa kuthekani ukuba iinwele zibuhlungu kwaye zincinci, kwaye ngaphandle koko, kukhwela ukunyuka? Musa ukuzingcaza ngokungathandabuzeki - phantsi kwesikrini zabo! Yaye yonke ishishini. Futhi sebenzisa ukubuyisela iindlela zeenwele. Ekubeni umntwana ufuna ukufumana amavithamini, kwaye ufumanaphi, kungekudala kungekhona emzimbeni wakho? Oku akufuneki ukulibala.
6. Ukukhulelwa kukubi, isisu sithatha isibalo. Akayithandi. Ewe, kunye nesondo awukwazi ukwenza. Ixesha lokuba umyeni wakhe amshiye nomntwana ongakazalwa. Le nto yinkcazo yasendle! Wonke umntu amaphupha ngokufihlakeleyo ukuba alalane nomfazi okhulelwe. Oku akusiyo kuphela into efunwa yindoda yokuzama ukuhlola ngesondo. Esi sinomnqweno onqwenelekayo wokuba ngumama wexesha elizayo lomntwana wakhe. Yena, njengokuba kunjalo, ubeka amandla akhe kwintsapho, ngaloo ndlela uyayiqonda into. Indoda enjalo iya kuba nekratshi ngabantwana bayo nomfazi wakhe, owazala abantwana bakhe. Uya kuba ngubaba onobubele bentsapho, kungabi namdla kwimpumelelo nangentlungu yabantwana, kuba bangabantwana bakhe, "inyama kunye negazi" lakhe. Ngokuphathelele iintlozo zamabhinqa, ukulala ngesondo okanye i-orgasm yowesifazane kuya kuzisa ingozi kumntwana.