Kuza kube yimini, ingxaki yobunxila obunzima bomntwana inzima kakhulu. Umzimba womntwana unempawu zakhe kwaye ngoko unokukhawuleza utywala utywala. Ngokwezibalo, ukusetyenziswa kotywala phakathi kwabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka kukhula ngonyaka.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ixesha loomntwana kunye nolutsha luye lwafumana ukufunyanwa kolwazi olutsha, izakhono, apho ukubunjwa kokugqibela komntu ngamnye, kubonisa ukuqhelaniswa kobugcisa. Ngeli xesha, umntwana okanye umntwana okhulayo ufunda ngokunyanisekileyo imimiselo yokuziphatha, uwamkela kwiindawo ezentlalo ezungezile. Kulungile xa imigangatho yobomi kunye neempawu ezizungeze umntwana ziphosakeleyo, kuba uyazivuma, kwaye ukuzitshabalalisa akulula. Umzimba womntwana ngokukhawuleza uguqulela utshintsho kwiimeko zokuphila kwakhe. Konke oku kusebenza kutywala. Ukuthelekisa, ukwenzela ukuba umntu omdala angakwazi ukumelana nezidakamizwa ezinkulu kunye nohlobo lokuxhomekeka kotywala, kufuneka kudlule iminyaka. Kwimeko yomzimba womntwana, kuphela iinyanga ezimbalwa ezaneleyo.
Izizathu zokusela utywala kubantwana
Ukuxhomekeka kotshwala kotywala kubantwana kunye nentsha kudala ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo oyintloko ngumzekelo wabantu abadala. Kwintsapho apho umntwana ekhula kwaye abazali bephuza, ekuhambeni kwexesha abantwana baqala ukuqonda ukunxila njengesiqhelo, kwaye ke bona bazama baze basebenzise kakubi utywala. Ngesiqingatha seemeko, izidakwa ezizayo zaza zaza zaza zakhula kwintsapho yezidakwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo isizathu sokusetyenziswa kotywala ngabantwana ngabantu abadala, abaqala ukusela utywala ukuze bajonge umntwana wabo.
Esinye isizathu sokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana abaselula kunye nabantwana beziphuzo ezinxilisayo zihlala kwimfundo engafanelekanga kwintsapho. Iingcali zikwahlula izizathu ezibini ze-polar: ukunganakwa kunye ne-hyperope. I-hyperopeka ibonisa ukuziphatha kwabazali abanomfelwana phantsi apho kukho ukungcola ngokupheleleyo kumntwana. Abantu abadala bayazama ukugcina isilwanyana sabo kwimiba ebomini. Kule meko, umntwana okhulayo uyakhula ongakwazi ukujongana noxinzelelo kunye nobunzima ngokwakhe, usetyenziselwa utywala ngokulula, njengoko oku kwenza ukubonakala kwentlalo-ntle.
Kwimeko echaseneyo, xa ingqalelo yabantwana abavela kubazali engekhoyo, xa ikhuliswe yitrato kwaye ibona ubuqhetseba obunzima bokuziphatha, ukusetyenziswa kotywala kuqala ukuhlala kwindawo ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe.
Amanqanaba okuxhomekeka kotywala kwiintsha kunye nabantwana
Isigaba 1 (sithatha iinyanga eziliqela). Umntwana usetyenziselwa utywala. Kulo nqanaba lokubaluleka ngokukhethekileyo yinkampani engabonakaliyo yesitalato apho umntwana ohlala eselula.
Isigaba sesi-2 (sihlala malunga ne-1 g). Ubume ngokusetyenziswa kotywala ngokufanelekileyo kwinkampani yokusela.
Isigaba 3 (ukuya kwiminyaka emininzi). Ukuxhomekeka kokuxhomekeke kwengqondo kotywala. Ngeli xesha, umntwana osemva akakwazi ukulawula isixa esinxilisayo, ukuchasana nokunyuka kwamanzi kotywala kunyuke ngokukhawuleza, okubhekiswa njengesicatshulwa ekuphuhlisweni kwesigaba sakhe sokuqala sokusela utywala.
Isigaba 4. Sichazwe ngokubonakala kwe-withdrawal (hangover) syndrome. Kubantwana, ngokungafani nabantu abadala, le syndrome ayiqinisekanga, kungekude ngexesha, ibonakala kuphela ngamanzi amaninzi okusela iziyobisi.
Inyathelo 5. Ichaneke ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yokuxhomekeka komzimba kotywala. Ngokokuqala ngqa, iimpawu zengqondo kunye nokuphelelwa komzimba ziyabonwa. Umntwana uyalawuleka, ahlasele, akasenasithakazelo ekufundeni, uyaphuka, aphumelele inkqubela phambili, nangona ezama ukulungiselela iiklasi. Ngeli xesha le ntombazana isoloko ihlangabezana neemfuneko zokwanda kotywala ngaphandle kokufumana imali ngexesha elifanayo. Emva koko ufumanisa indlela yokuphuma kwabambela indawo njenge-acetone, ezinye i-solvents, izama iziyobisi, njl njl.
Unyango lwaba bantwana kufuneka lwenziwe kwizibhedlele ezizodwa, ngokwahlukileyo kubantu abadakwa. Ukufezekisa oku, imvume yemvume yabazali (abagcini), kunye nokubandakanywa kwabasebenzi kwikamana labantwana yamapolisa, kuyadingeka. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba umphumo wonyango lubi kakhulu kunabantu abadala ngenxa yezizathu ezichazwe ngasentla.