Iingxaki zamantombazana
Amantombazana amaninzi angenacala ayamkela ukwesaba, okokuqala, ukuba okokuqala kunokuba buhlungu. Kodwa intlungu, njengommiselo, incinci kunye negazi eliphantsi. Kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwabantu. Ivalela ukungena kwiisisu zomzimba kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo unesimo sesandi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba kufana nesihlunu. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokokuqala ngangoko kunokubangela intlungu kwaye kubangele ukuphuma kwegazi xa le ntombazana inomntu obunzima. Ukuba emva kokuququzelelwa kwegazi elininzi kwaye liphela ixesha elingaphezu kweeyure ezimbini - kungcono ukubona ugqirha. Amantombazana ayesaba ukuba baya kukhulelwa emva kwesenzo sokuqala. Olu loyiko, ngokubanzi, lufanelekile. Qaphela ukuba nokuba intombi ingakhulelwa ukuba inemihla evelayo. Kwaye enye into. Amanye amantombazana akhathazeke kakhulu, ukuba emva kwesenzo sokuqala abazange babe negazi. Iqabane libagxeka ngokungathembeki, ngokubhekiselele kumasiko aseMuslim. Ulwazi ngoluntu: ukungabikho kwegazi ngexesha lokuqala ngesondo akuthethi ngaso sonke ixesha ukuba intombazana ayiyintombi. Yonke into incike kwisakhiwo kunye nobukhulu be-hymen.
Ukoyika Abafana
I-Panic ibangela ukuba bafumane ingcamango yokuhlaselwa kwangaphambili. Ekubeni le meko isoloko iyenzeka nabathandi abancinci, kungcono xa intombazana iqala ukunyamezela iqabane ngaphambi kwe-orgasm. Oku kunciphisa ukuxhatshazwa kwaye le ncinane iya kugxininisa ngakumbi kwiimvakalelo zangaphambi nangesikhathi sokuqhutshwa ngqo. Abafana banomdla kakhulu kwinqanaba le-penis. Bahlala bexhalabele ngobukhulu bayo, imilo, okanye ukuba incinci okanye ijika. Kwakhona balindele amazwi amnandi, egcwele inkxaso kunye nokwamkelwa.
Uloyiko oluqhelekileyo
Wena, ngokuqinisekileyo, ufunda malunga nolwalamano lokuqala, uvile ukuqwalaselwa kwabahlobo abasele "bangasemva" okokuqala. Uvile ezininzi iinganekwane malunga nokuba zibuhlungu kangakanani, ngokukrakra, ngokungahambi kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, kwakukho iingcamango malunga neengqungquthela ezingapheliyo, ukulahlekelwa yintliziyo kunye nezinto ezingenangqondo. Emva kokuba ufunde isisu somzimba wesilisa nowesifazana, uya kufumanisa ukuba akukho mfuneko kakhulu. Akufuneki kube neentlungu ezininzi, kodwa i-orgasm ayilindeleke kwi-sex yokuqala. Ukuba i-hymen iyincinci - ungeke uve nantlungu. Ukuba kunzima kakhulu, akunakwenzeka "ukuwaphula" ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha i-hymen kufuneka isuswe kwisebe lotyando lwe-gynecological.
Yintoni eya kuba "okokuqala" - kuxhomekeke kuwe. Ukulahla ukwesaba intlungu kunye nokuphuma kwamanzi. Ukwesaba ukukhulelwa, naye, akufanele kukukhathaze - qaphela ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili. Ngokwesondo ngokubanzi akufanele kubekho ukungathandabuzeki nokwesaba, akukho nto ifanele ikhutshwe okanye iyothuswa. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki, njengokuba le yinkwenkwe, ngaba oko ndiyifunayo, ngaba ndifuna ukuhlala naye ngonaphakade? ", Ke mhlawumbi kusenokwenzeka ukuba ungene ebudlelwaneni obunzulu. Umlingani wakho xa uthetha ngesondo unesibindi kwaye uyathemba, kodwa ngokwenene unamahloni kwaye ulahlekile? Uloyiko lwe-ejaculation engaphambi kwesikhathi kwaye akayi kusebenza njengomntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo (kunye nabaselula abaninzi) ihamba kunye neentloni zobunqunu, ngamanye amaxesha ezinye iindidi ezinxulumene nomzimba womzimba. Uyakucinga ukuba: "Umzimba wam ulungile, kodwa ndinayo ipenisi encinane." Ngako oko kuza ukwesaba. Uqinisekile ukuba uya kuphumelela? Ngoko kuya kuba, ukuba nonke nifuna ngokwenene. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo inkwenkwe igxininisa ekuqaleni kwezenzo zesondo, kwaye intombazana idinga ixesha elide lokukhula ngokomoya kwesi sigqibo. Ukukhawuleza kungaba ngumcebisi mbi apha, kwaye ukusebenza phantsi kwengcinezelo kuyisisombululo esona sibi.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba nonke nifuna le nxu lumano. Ukuba uyayithanda ngokwenene, ukuba uyayifuna loo mntu-onomntu onomusa - qalisa naye impilo yakho yesondo. Kwaye nangona okokuqala ngento yonke ingaphelelanga - ungacingi ukuba kuya kuhlala ifana nale. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nexesha kunokufumana imibala emitsha, uyazi kakuhle, funda ukuqaphela iimfuno neemfuno zeqabane. Isondo sokuqala sisithuba esinqabileyo nesingalibalekiyo. Ukuba ngaba kunjalo, ukuqhutyelwa komsebenzi wesondo kunokubandakanya ukwaneliseka okukhulu. Ukuba "ixesha lokuqala" liza kuba neqabane eliqhelekileyo, kwisimo esingalindelekanga, mhlawumbi ngaphantsi kwefuthe lotywala, ngoko ungalindeli ukuba isondo siya kukuvuyisa ngokuzayo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, yonke into iya kuhamba kunye nokudumala, kungekhona imvakalelo kunye nokuthandana. Kwixesha elizayo, usenokucinga ukuba awufuni ukulala ngesondo. Ixesha lokuqala liyakuchukumisa ubomi bakho bobulili obuzayo.
Kuphi ukuya ocansini okokuqala?
Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kungcono ukuchitha ubusuku bakho bokuqala kwindawo eyaziwayo. Umzekelo, ekamelweni lakho apho uya kuziva ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile. Induduzo iya kunika ibhedi ecocekileyo ngeelinen elitsha, esekelwe kwindlu yokuhlambela. Kufuneka ube nexesha elininzi lokuzonwabisa kunye nomlingane wakho. Ukuba ukwesaba ukuhlaselwa kwabazali, kungcono ukusebenzisa ixesha lokuhamba kwabo okanye ukuhamba, nokuba ubusuku bokuqala buya kwenzeka ententeni. Ukuqala komsebenzi wesondo kuyona mzuzu. Kubi ukuba ufanele uphulaphule rhoqo ukuba umnyango ongaphambili awuvuli! Umoya ubaluleke kakhulu. Inkalipho iya kukunika ukukhanya okukhazimulayo, ukuthula, nomculo wothando kuya kukukhulula. Amantombazana amancinci angekaqhelanga kwiimpawu zawo zidla ihlazo ngenxa yobunqunu bawo. Baye bexatyiswa luhlobo lwelilungu elibonakalayo - lubonakala likhulu kakhulu. Kungcono ukuba uqale wenze uthando ngekhandlela okanye ekukhanyeni kwesibane sokulala.
Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ukhetha indawo apho uya kuziva ukhuselekile, apho kuya kuba nemoya enhle. Ngokufanelekileyo, qiniseka ukuba akukho mntu kunye nento ayiyi kuphazamisa. Mane ufake konke kwisicwangciso ukuze kungabikho nto inokumangalela. Uya kuba nako ukucinga kuphela wena. Ekhaya, apho wonke umntu eziva ekhuselekile, yindawo efanelekileyo kwimini yokuqala. Kuphela umoya ozolileyo uzakufumana uhambo oluthandana nolwazi, ujabulele iimvakalelo ezintsha - oku, akunakulibaleka.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuqikelela ukuba uza kuba yintoni isini sokuqala kunye nokuba zeziphi iimeko ziya kuba khona - gcina ubuncinane iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo. Khumbula, kuya kubaluleka kuwe: igumbi livaliwe, apho amazwi angafikeleli kumelwane, i-bed bed ekhululekile, imilinganiselo yokukhusela ithathwa. Izimo ezongezelelweyo - isibane sokudlula, iingubo zangaphantsi ezicocekileyo kunye ezicocekileyo, iphunga elithandayo leqhumiso, umculo onokuthula - ukhethwa, kodwa ayimfuneko. Okokuqala, ubulili ngokokuqala ngqa - lulwalamano lwamaqabane. Ungazami ukucwangcisa inkqubo yonke kwinkcukacha encinci. Kuza kubakho iingxaki ezingalindelekanga, kwaye iingxaki ziza kuqokelela kuphela. Kunoko, kufuneka ucinge ukuba kuya kuba kuhle kangakanani, njengoko uya kuvuya. Iziganeko zokucwangcisa kunye nezicwangciso, njengomthetho, azilungiswanga. Musa ukulibala ukuba wenza okokuqala ngqa, kwaye ujamelene neemeko apho ungayazi oko kunokukulinda.
Ukukhulelwa
Amanye amantombazana acinga ukuba ngesondo sokuqala awukwazi ukukhulelwa. Oku akunjalo! Ukongezelela, yileyokuqala ukuba umngcipheko wokufumana izifo ezithathelwanayo ziphezulu, kuba kukho ukulimala kwangaphakathi apho ukusuleleka khona kulula ukungena. Ngoko kuyimfuneko ukukhuselwa okokuqala ngqa. Kukulungele ukusebenzisa ikhondom. Ewe, ukuba uqale uzame "ukuyisebenzisa", ukufunda indlela yokubeka, umzekelo, iminwe. Ukusetyenziswa kakuhle kwekhondom kubaluleke kakhulu. Amakhwenkwe acinga ukuba ikhondom isenokutsalwa ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwindawo yokuyeka ukwenzela ukuba ingabi slip. Kodwa kwi-tip, kufuneka usishiye umtya wesidoda, ngaphandle koko ikhondom iya kuqothuka. Kungcono ukuthenga iikhondom kwi-pharmacy-enokwethenjelwa. Akufanele kube yinto engapheliyo, njengaleyo, ebenxibe kwi-jeans yakhe ethandekayo ephakamileyo ngonyaka. Kwakhona kufuneka abe nesiqinisekiso somgangatho. Iikhondom eziphezulu zixhotyiswe nge-lubricant eququzelela ukungena. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu xa kuziwa ngesondo ngokokuqala ngqa - kuyisidenge ukuba ungayisebenzisi icebiso leengcali. Ikhondom ayiyi buthathaka. Ukuba ukhethwe ngokuchanekileyo - ngokuqhelekileyo awuyi kuva.
Ininzi yamantombazana ikholelwa ukuba ukudibana kokuqala kuphephile. Oku akunjalo! Ukuba ukhule ngokwaneleyo ukuqala ubomi bocwaso, kufuneka uhambe kwi-gynecologist uxoxe naye ngezicwangciso zakho. Ugqirha wakho unokukunceda ukhethe ulungelo olungcono lokukhulelwa kwakho. Elula kakhulu ingaba ikhondom, kodwa khumbula ukuba oku akukhuseli ikhulu leepesenti. Thetha nomlingane wakho malunga noko acinga ngeendlela zokukhusela. Ngokuqhelekileyo lo mbuzo uza kubonakalisa isimo sakhe sengqondo. Inkathalo ibonakaliswe uxanduva lwempilo yeqabane. Ukuba uyakuthanda ngokwenene, uya kuvuma ukuzikhusela ngokuchanekileyo.
Eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yesondo lokuqala
Ukuqala, kungcono ukusebenzisa izikhundla zeklasi. Okuthiwa "umthunywa wezithunywa zevangeli" kuyona ndlela efanelekileyo. Ngoko unako ukulawula ngokupheleleyo izenzo zeqabane, jonga ukuphendulana komnye nomnye, uvelise isisa kunye nothando. Musa ukukhawuleza, qaphela kwaye ungesabi. Cinga ngezinto ezilungileyo. Khumbula ukuba nguwe kuphela owaziyo wena nomzimba wakho, uyazi indlela oziphendulela ngayo izinto ezithile kunye neemfuno zakho. Musa ukuxhalaba ukuba awunaso i-orgasm okokuqala. Nangona kunjalo, konke kusemandleni akho!
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ufanele uzive uthandwa kwaye ufunwa, kwaye kungekhona nje ukuva amazwi omusa. Umlingani wakho akakwazi nokuba uyazi ukuba ufuna ukuvuma kwakhe, ukuqinisekiswa kweemvakalelo kunye nokugubungela kwindlebe yakho. Amadoda afuni ukuthetha egumbini lokulala, kuba banesifo esiphezulu kakhulu, kwaye unesiva. Nangona kunjalo, emva kwexesha, umhlobo wakho uya kufunda ukuhleketa amazwi amnandi kuwe, ulungele umzimba wakho kwaye ufumanisa ngokukhawuleza indawo ezibuhlungu kakhulu. Yiba nomonde! Akuyiyo yonke into oyifunayo, unokuyenza ngoku ngoku. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ubonise iqabane lakho elikukholisa. Ukubaluleka kubalulekile! Funda iincwadi, funda iintlobo ngeengcebiso kunye neengcebiso, kodwa yenza izigqibo zakho. Khetha okulungileyo kuwe. Uyazi kakuhle into oyifunayo nento oyifunayo ngokwenene. Kwaye xa kuziwa kukusondelana, okokuqala, ungethuki. Ewe, unelungelo lokuziva unqabile, kodwa zama ukuzinza nokukhululeka, ngoko yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle.
Xa konke kusele kusemva
Oku kusebenza, ngakumbi, kubantu. Ungalibali ukuba iqabane lakho lifuna uncedo lwakho ngoku. Mxelele amagama ambalwa omnene kunye no-hug - ngoko unethuba lokubonisa ubungqina bakho. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuhlala usondele elele embhedeni, unokuhlamba kunye kunye, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuziva ukhululekile. Okanye mhlawumbi ufuna ukuvalela kwaye unqwenela ukwandisa le ngcaciso emfutshane. Hlonipha iimfuno zomnye nomnye. Musa ukucwangcisa ukunakekelwa kwangangoko emva kwesenzo. Umoya ngalolu suku kuya kukwanela - unakekele ubusuku obuhle, kwaye awunabo amava angaphezulu. Zama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye ngokusemandleni. Kwaye kwaye ukhumbule into oye wahlangabezana nayo, shiya kuphela. Musa ukuzikhupha kubantu, kwintendelezo enobungane, kuba ngokukhawuleza ukuyeka ukuba ngowakho.
Iingcebiso ezongezelelweyo
Musa ukugqiba ekubeni uthathe isigqibo malunga nobudlelwane bezesondo kuphela ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukumelana nezicelo zomthandi wakho. Isihlandlo sokuqala akuyona ithuba elihle lokuzizamela kwezinye izikhundla eziyinkimbinkimbi zesondo. Ngokukhawuleza xa uvakalelwa intlungu encinci, ebonisa ukugqithwa kwe-hymen, ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, ulala emhlane wakho, welula imilenze uze uyibophe emgodini wakho. Beka umcamelo phantsi kwamagxobhozo - ngoko ukungena kuya kuba mncinane kwaye kungenabuhlungu. Musa ukukhathazeka ukuba awunayo i-orgasm. Ukuxinezeleka kukunciphisa injabulo kwaye kwenza umzimba wakho ungabi ncitshiswa kakhulu kwiinqwelo. Okuqhelekileyo. Akumelwe ufanise ukuba uyafa ngenxa yokunyuka. Emva kwexesha uzakufunda ukufumana ulonwabo lwangempela kwisini. Unelungelo lokutshintsha isigqibo sakho ngasiphi na ixesha, uchazela iqabane lakho isizathu sokuba uthi "cha."