Abantu bethu banombono ongaphambili wokuqala: umfazi okhululekile-oko kukuthi, umfazi ongenamntu. Kwaye akukho namnye owaziyo ukuba ibhinqa livakalelwa kwaye linandipha inkululeko xa isatshatile.
Xa iqhawulo lomtshato, umfazi kwiimeko ezininzi ubalekela kumyeni wakhe, uvele esinda kwiziko lemtshato elisungulwe kwilizwe lethu.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha umtshato womtshato awunakwenzeka. Njengoko umfazi eqala ukutshatyalaliswa ngokuqhawula umtshato, ezama ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezinzima kwaye ngezinye iinkalo zobomi bentsapho, kwaye akayi kumshiya umyeni wakhe ngenxa yokuba akakwazi ukuzinyameka emva komtshato. Ibhinqa liya kuqhathaniswa kuphela xa iphosa umyeni wayo phantsi kwesithende - kwaye ngekamva akuyi kuba nomdla wokuphila, ayiyi kuba nohlukahluka ebomini. Kwaye ke umfazi uya kufaka umtshato, ngandlela-thile adibanise ubomi bakhe obuzimeleyo.
Umfazi onesimo sengqondo esibi kakhulu kuye uya kutsalwa kunye nomtshato kwaye, kuya kuqhubeka, kude kube yinto eqokelelekileyo, yonke into ibe yinto ebalulekileyo.
Ukuze kungenzeki, ibhinqa elivela kuloo ndoda ayiyi kushiya, kodwa libaleke. Kwaye kwixesha elizayo akayi kuziva ecinezelekile, kodwa uhlaziyekile kunye noluntu olukhululekile, ngamanye amaxesha lungekho nto.
Umfazi oqhawula umtshato, akayi kukwazi ukudala intsapho entsha ixesha elide. Kodwa ekubeni efuna umkhuseli, abanye bazala abathandekayo ababonelela ngokupheleleyo. Kanye nokukhusela, kwakhona. Futhi musa ukubiza inkululeko yabo.
Kodwa abanye, abahlala emtshatweni womtshato emva komtshato, bawela kwisicupho. Ngokuhlala kunye, umntu olungele umtshato ubonisa ukuba umfazi ubhalise ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane babo, kodwa ufumana impendulo engalunganga. Le ndoda iyancipha kwaye iphile ngokuzisebenzisa ngokuzenzekelayo yonke into. Kodwa xa umfazi ephelelwa yendima enjalo kwaye unquma ukuba ixesha lokutshata sele sele, kodwa isivakalisi sesibini asilindi. Ukususela okokuqala kwangoko, indoda iya kukhangela enye ibhinqa. Kodwa kwakudingeka ukubeka yonke indawo kwindawo yayo, ngakumbi ngokukhululekile.
Ngokomgaqo, umfazi oqhawula umtshato uya kulungelelanisa yonke into entsha ngokukhawuleza kunomntu.
Xa ekhangela umsebenzi, ukuba engenayo, unokuhlala ekhutshwa njengomthumeli, umthengisi kunye nococeko. Kwaye kwimeko yobulumko kunye nolwazi lweelwimi zasemzini ukufumana kunye nomsebenzi ohlawulelwayo kakhulu eofisini.
U-Elena Romanova , ngakumbi kwisiza