Ewe, onke amabhinqa amaphupha okuthandwa, ahlonishwa kwaye ahlonishwa. Kwaye luthando lomntu olwenza umfazi omhle. Emva koko, unokuqhathanisa umfazi ongeyedwa kunye nomfazi othandayo. Intandokazi ibhinqa ibhinqa kwaye iphunga. Uvuyela yonke into encinane, njengomntwana ongenacala. Uyancwina, umnika uvuyo kuwo wonke umntu, uzama ukwabelana naye ngolonwabo kwaye akukho namnye onokumisa le nqaku elimnandi. Amehlo akhe akhanya, intliziyo yakhe iyabetha ngokukhawuleza, kwaye imbonakalo yakhe iyamtsala. Nangona ukhangele loo ntokazi, umphefumlo uqala ukuqhakaza. Uthando lomntu olwenza ukuba abafazi bahle, uthando lwabo oluvuyisa.
Abasetyhini batshintsha ngaphandle xa bewa thandweni. Bakhula bebancinci, baqhuba ngakumbi, baphupha kakhulu. Abafazi bazama ukugqoka ngemibala ebomvu, epholileyo. Baye banxibe iingubo kunye neengubo eziqhelekileyo, ukwenzela ukuba babonise intshukumo yabo. Kwakhona, umlinganiso, ngokuqinisekileyo, utshintsho ngeli xesha. Umfazi uba nomusa, uthanda kakhulu, uqala ukubona izinto ezintle, awazizange azibone ngaphambili. Ihlabathi lonke liyahlukahluka emehlweni omfazi onothando. Akwazanga kuqondwa ngeli xesha. Uba njengomntwana ongenalwazi, ovuyela kuyo nayiphi na into encinci kwaye uyavuya xa ebona unina. Ngoko umfazi uyavuya kuphela emehlweni omntu othandekayo. Imvakalelo iphakamileyo kakhulu, akayi kuphulaphula nayiphi na ingxaki. Kwanele nje ukumamatheka kuzo zonke iingxaki, kwaye ziya kutshabalala ngexesha elithile.
Ngaba uqaphele, yintoni isibhakabhaka esihle, xa sithandana? Kubonakala kukutshintsha umbala kuwe, njengokungathi kungabi nafu xa uthanda. Kwaye ilanga likhanya ngandlela-thile, ngandlela-thile lihle ngakumbi. Yilokho uthando lithetha kumntu.
Indoda nomfazi bafana, kodwa bahlula kwisiqingatha. Yaye xa le mizuzu emibini ihlanganisiwe, umhlaba omnyama nomhlophe ugqoke imibala enemibala, kwaye ulonwabo ulindele kuyo yonke indawo. Kuba ibhinqa, yodwa ibaluleke kakhulu, yedwa, kwaye kuphela umbono wakhe, uthando lwakhe, kubalulekile.
Olu tshintsho lwenziwa njani lo mva wothando. Ngubani owakuthandayo, uya kuqonda ukuba eli lixesha elihle ebomini. Kwaye ukuba ugugile awuqaleki kunye neminyaka, kodwa xa ukhohlwa ukuthanda. Ukuthandana akuvumelekanga, kwaye le mvakalelo iyaphalazela ubomi ngokukhazimula, ukuchasana, ukunyamezela.
Kwaye ekubeni abafazi banesidalwa esinokubaluleka kakhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo bajika baba yintlanzi engenamntu ongenatyala. Kubonakala ngathi abantu abonakala bengenzi nto nento, kodwa kuphela ukubuka okuthandwayo okwaneleyo, njengowesifazane oncibilikile ezinyaweni zakho. Konke kunzima ukuyiqonda, kodwa kunjalo. Wonke lo mandla ongaqondakali akakwazi ukuchazwa ngamagama. Iyakwazi ukuqondwa, ukuziva, ukufumana.
Uthande kwaye uthande. Le yinto engummangaliso kunokuba yintoni ebomini. Eli gunya liya kukuguqula, utshintshe.
Uthando lomntu lufana nesiselo esinxilisayo, ofuna ukuyonwabela ubomi bakho bonke. Kufana nelanga laseMeyi, elibuyisa ngokukhawuleza imimandla yalo. Uthando lomntu lufana nolwandle olufudumele, apho ufuna ukucima khona. Le mvakalelo eyenza isithwathwa semvakalelo neminqweno.
Ukuwa emthandweni, abafazi baqala ukuzamekela ngokuzenzekelayo - ngokucokisekileyo ukuhlenga iingubo zabo, bathathe ukukhanya, ukulungiswa okutsha, uhlobo lweenwele zabo, kwaye abahluphekanga ukuba ikhonkwane iphule. Abafazi abanjalo bachongwa ngokulula phakathi kwesihlwele. Ukumamatheka kwabo kuya kuboni na. Ezi zidalwa ziguqula imvila imihla ngemihla ngemibala ekhanyayo. Kwaye kunzima ukuxhathisa imilingo yezi zidalwa ezithandekayo.
Ngoko, madoda, konke kusezandleni zakho. Uyakhuthazwa, kwaye unokukwazi ukunceda eli hlabathi. Khumbula, uthando lwakho bubuncwane kubafazi. Esi sixhobo esiphezulu esinokumenza buhlungu buhlungu umfazi entliziyweni. Bathande. Abasetyhini zizona zidalwa ezintle emhlabeni. Banjengobhobho oqaqambileyo lonwabo, okumele kuguqulwe ngelo xesha.
Akukho nto yokutya ayiyi kunceda, akukho philisi kunye nobuhle boonononi buyakwenza ube mnandi kakhulu, njengoko uthando lomntu luya kwenza. Yehla othandweni kwaye unqobe iintliziyo zabantu!
Uthando oluzalisa zonke iintlobo ze-zauchek ezinentliziyo ebuthakathaka kwi-swans enhle. Yiyo le mvakalelo emihle ehamba nathi ebomini. Ukuba awuzange uthande, ulahlekelwe kakhulu. Ukuba awuzange uthandwe - ngoko awuzange ube mnandi kwaye ujabule. Kufuneka kuphela ukwabelana nomntu intliziyo yakho, njengamafu esibhakabhakeni aqhakazile, kwaye imvula iya kugqiba ukuhamba ngonaphakade. Uthando lubuqhetseba, umculo womculo ongekho wonke umntu onokukuva. Kodwa ukuba uzama uqale le ngoma entliziyweni yakho, ihlabathi liya kutshintshwa wonke umntu abe ngumxholo wefestile.