Siyacacisa iingxaki
Enyanisweni, njengakunoma yintoni enye imeko, ungakhathazeki ngokukhawuleza. Mhlawumbi umyeni wakho unesimo sengqondo okanye iingxaki emsebenzini. Ewe, ziphi ezimbi ngaphezu kwethu? Kule meko, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha, fumana isizathu. Mhlawumbi abantu abathandekayo bakho kufuneka bakhulume, bahlanganyele nawe, kwaye uya kuba yinkxaso yakhe engcono kunye nomvuzo. Okanye umyeni wakho, ngokuchaseneyo, akafuni ukwabelana nawe unobulumko kakhulu. Ewe, ewe. Yaye ungamangalisi. Kuyimfihlo. Amadoda amaninzi asetyenziselwa ukuxazulula iingxaki ngokwazo kwaye, ngokuchaseneyo, kuthiwa ngabasetyhini, ngamanye amaxesha ukuzityhila, ukwabelana ngesifo sabo, kubonakala bengavumelekanga.
Ubumnandi ngaphakathi = ubuhle baphandle?
Enye into ukuba umntu wakho wenza kakuhle kwaye esebenza, kunye nempilo, kodwa awufumani ngqalelo. Iintyatyambo ziphindwe kabini ngonyaka, ngenxa yomhla wokuzalwa kunye neyesibhozo kuMatshi, kwaye ezinye azikwazi ukuba nazo. Akukho nxalenye enye, ayikho igama elifudumeleyo, ukhangelelwano oluhle. Kwaye kubonakala sengathi u-Isx waba yintsipho, njengoko besithi, ngaphandle komkhwa. Kutheni kule nto ibhinqa lenzayo? Ndifuna ukuthetha, kuthetha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abasetyhini baphuma kwibala elihlaza okomhlaza kwaye bathi kumyeni wabo: "Ndoda, ndithini na ukuba uyeke ukundinceda? Ngaba uyandithanda? Kwaye ndiyintle? ", Kwaye unjalo. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba oku akuyi kubakho nawuphi na umphumo omuhle. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu uyakuphendula, ukuba akayithandi okanye ukuba uyingozi. Kule ngongoma, kubalulekile ukuba "uquke" oko kuthiwa ubulumko bentombi okanye kwanelungelo lokungathi, ubuqili. Okokuqala, hlala phambi kwesibuko uze ukhangele ingcamango, utsho ngokucacileyo ngokwakho, ubona kwi-girlja, enhle, nentombazana enomdla oye wayethanda kakhulu umyeni wakho. Naluphi na umfazi onentlonelo nothando, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale ubonakala ulungile. Kwasekhaya. Kwaye emva kweminyaka elishumi yokuhlala kunye. Ingubo enhle engaphantsi kweengubo kunye nengubo entsha enhle ayizange ibuhlungu nawuphi na umfazi. Ndikholelwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bekuphi na, nokuba nantoni na, nangona ehlabathini lanamhlanje ibhinqa alikho ngaphantsi komntu, isiqalo esiqilileyo asiyi kulala emantombazaneni. Ngamanye amagama, kumadoda, akukho mntu wabulala abo bazingeli esasiva ngabo bonke. Zizenzele uze wenze indoda ingathandeki! Ndikholelwe, bobabili nithanda!
Abaninzi abaninzi abafazi abanakukwazi ukuzihlola, ukukhuthaza ukuba abantwana, ubomi, akukho xesha. Kwaye ke, ukuba uyayithanda, ngoko kufuneka aqonde kwaye athande uhlobo lwakhe. Ngoko ke sonke masibhukude ngamanqatha, siya kuhamba ngamakhethini kunye nesigqoko sokugqoka ejikeleze indlu size sizibuze, kwaye kutheni le ndoda iyancoma ukutshiswa okutshiswayo kwi-bikini eboniswa kwiTV?
Ukuncitshiswa okufutshane
Ukongezelela ubuhle bangaphandle nokuzilungisa, ungalibali kwaye ufunde ukuziphatha. Ngeemeko zobomi basekhaya, sisoloko sikhohlwa malunga nokubonakaliswa kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwe-caresses kunye nobubele, kodwa sifuna amadoda afanayo. Bangabantwana abadala, indlela abafana ngayo nabanamandla abazange babonakale. Yaye ngamnye umntwana ufuna ukufudumala nokunyamekela. Akumangalisi ukuba umfazi uyayeka ukuwunika umyeni wakhe, ngakumbi, uhlala ecutha rhoqo, ukuba umyeni wakhe akayi kufuna ukunikela nantoni na.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, sele sele esatshatile iminyaka emininzi, isi sibini sinokuvakalelwa. Ubomi obuqhelekileyo bulala kunye nabatshatileyo. Uya kuzisa ulwahlulo oluncinane kubomi obusondeleyo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba indoda ayithandi ukuvavanya ngesondo. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka usebenze kwivenkile yesondo kwaye uthenge khona izinto ezingaqondakaliyo nezindleko. Enyanisweni, yonke into ilula kakhulu. Shiya abantwana kubazali nootatomkhulu, thabatha ikhefu uze uchithe kuphela. Ukutshintsha imosi kungakuvumela ukuba uphumule kwaye uphumule, kodwa kwakhona kukukhangele ulwalamano lwakho kunye nomboniso olutsha, olutsha. Khumbula njengaphambili, dozamuzhestva? Wahamba ngeentsuku, wagijima kunye nomyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo, wamanga ngobusuku bonke phantsi kwezulu leenkwenkwezi. Ngoko, yintoni eyatshintshile? Ndixelele, iminyaka ayifanayo, abantwana, sebenze. Enyanisweni, ngeendlela ezininzi thina ngokwethu senza iingxaki kwaye senza ubomi bethu nobomi bomnye nomnye umthunzi. Akukufanelekanga ukuba udale umthetho ngokwakho, umzekelo, rhoqo ngoMgqibelo kusihlwa okanye nayiphi na imini, hambahamba nomyeni wakho othandekayo kwisixeko sakusihlwa, uhambe kwi-cafe epholileyo okanye uthathe ibhotile yewayini ekhaya kwaye ujabule. Yibani lula, intliziyo encinane yokukhanya, ijabule. Zithande. Amadoda aziva. Ukuba indoda yonke imihla iya kuyibona emva kwayo, ingabi ngumfazi onqabileyo, umfazi oqhayisayo, kodwa umfazi olungeleyo, onothando, onothando, uya kukuhlawula ngokufanayo.
Amantombazana othandekayo! Nangona zonke iingxaki ezisijikelezile, ukukhathala, ubomi bemihla ngemihla ... Masakhe sikhumbule ukuba singabesifazane.