Nanini na xa uhambela umntakwenu, unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kubona oku kulandelayo. Umnyango uhlala njalo (!) Uvula umfazi wakhe. Inyaniso yokuba umzalwana wendlu uboniswa kuphela yi-"ff Hello "yakhe ebusweni beli gumbi. Yonke into icacile, uhleli ekhompyutheni kwakhona. Ngaphezulu, ngaphezulu. Hlala phantsi etafileni, wambiza. "Ngoku - umzalwana wakho uthembisa kwaye ... ngokuphangaleleyo udlala. "Silindele wena." "Ndiya kuhamba." Ukutshintshana okunjalo kunokuqhubeka ngokungenammiselo, ukuba awungena ekamelweni kwaye ungaphumi kwi-Intanethi. "Khawucinge, emva komsebenzi, ngokukhawuleza uthabatha into ethile, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uhlala ejikeleza iindawo kunye nokudlala nabahlobo kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo kwiNet. Namaxesha onke kude kube sebusuku. Ukunyaniseka, iqala ukucaphukisa kakhulu. Ukutsala umntu othandekayo othunjiweyo kwi-Intanethi, ndiya kuthatha amanyathelo angqongqo, "- ukhononda umkakhe. Ukulinda ade avume le "milinganiselo" engaqondakaliyo, awuzange wenze, wanquma ukumnceda kunye nabanye abafazi abayeni babo ababoshiweyo kwi-Intanethi. Yiloo nto iintsapho zeengqondo ezicebisa ngolu hlobo.
Iphi imilenze ikhula? Ukuxazulula le ngxaki, kuqala kufuneka ufunde malunga nayo ngokunokwenzeka. Ngoko, yintoni esiyithandayo xa siphila phambi komhlobo wabo wekhompyutha? Abaninzi babo badlala abahluli beekhomputha ezahlukeneyo, izicwangciso kunye neentlanga. Abaninzi banxibelelana kwiiforam ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye nakwiinkonzo zentlalo. Kwaye ukhupha iifilimu, iincwadi kunye nomculo, kunye nabanye abantu baya kumasayithi, masithi, yendalo. Kutheni bekwenza oku? Kuyabonakala ngathi impendulo iyabonakala: ukuphumla, ukufumana ukuzonwabisa kwintetho yonxibelelwano, ukuvela kwinto entsha, ukufunda into enomdla. Kodwa xa kuziwa kwiiyure ezininzi zokuhlala kwikhompyutheni ukuya kwingozi yonk 'iminye iminqweno, ubudlelwane beentsapho, ezempilo, izazi zengqondo zithi isizathu sitshintshile: luhlobo lokubalekela kwinyani, apho umthandayo akuthandi into ethile. Yintoni kanye? Ewe, nantoni na: iingxaki ezincinci emsebenzini, ezinye iintlungu zentsapho, ubomi, ukungakwazi ukwenza oko ufunayo, ukungabikho kokubonakala okucacileyo, nje ngepeni. Kwaye kubonakala kuye ukuba ukushiya yonke le miyalelo ethi "overboard" ilula kakhulu: ufuna nje ukuqala imoto, faka i-intanethi, kwaye nakwimeko yeso sihlandlo esithakazelisayo somhlaba apho bonke abemi banobuchule kwaye bekhangeleka, apho yonke into iphuma, kwaye intando yakho iyinkosi Umlawuli welizwe elithengileyo, umlawuli wee-destinies. Ewe, ndinokumelana njani na?
Musa ukusebenzisa amandla! Kula majazana abasebenzisana nabo abaziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo: bazenza ngathi ukuziphatha komyeni wabo akukuvuyo, ukucaphukisa, ukuphika ukuthandana. Abafazi abambalwa ba landela indlela yokuncincika kwaye basebenzise indlela ekuthiwa yindlela yamandla: bacima imidlalo kunye nezicwangciso, beka amaphasiwedi kwikhomputha, bafumane iibhetri kwi mouse, ngenjongo yokuncoma umthandayo "kwikosikazi yekhompyutha", banokuphelisa indlu. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo zonke ezi zinto zihamba kunye neenyembezi, izinsongelo, zifuna "nokuba mna, okanye ikhompyutha." Ngokweengqondo zeengqondo, le ndlela ayiyiyo nto kodwa ukufumana ukungquzulana nothando, ayiyi kuzisa. Ngenxa yokuba intanda yakho ayiyintsana - kwaye uxinzelelo oluchanekileyo, njengalowo nawuphi na umntu, alukwazi ukuma. Yaye ukuba wenza njengomzali oqinileyo nomntwana ongenamdla, awuyi kuzuza nantoni ngaphandle koqhankqalazo (efihliweyo okanye ecacileyo). Ngona (kwaye ngakumbi!) Ukuba uziphatha kakuhle, nje ngomntwana ongenangqiqo.
U sindiso lomthandayo . Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezifihlakeleyo kunye nezisebenzayo zokusombulula le ngxaki ngaphandle kokuxabana nomlingane. Nika intanda yakho into entsha, ecacileyo. Emva koko, ngabo, nokuba nesabelo esithile sogqirha, akunakwenzeka ukuba ngumdlali. Zama ukunciphisa ubomi bakho bentsapho. Thenga amathikithi ekhatywayo, i-cinema, ibhola lebhola, ekugqibeleni. Mema iindwendwe ukuba udle isidlo sakusihlwa, esiya kuthandwa nguwe oyithandayo. Unokudibanisa ishishini kunye nenjabulo kwaye, kunye nomyeni wakho, ubhalise kwiklabhu yempilo okanye ubaleke ngokusa. Ukuba ufuna ukugqithisa, kwakhona, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ukusuka kwi-skydiving ukuya kuma-kayak alloys. Ngendlela, malunga nemifanekiso. Abaninzi beengqondo bajwayele ukucinga ukuba imidlalo yeekhompyuthali kunye neendawo zokutyelela abantu abadala ziphela nje kuphela kwisini esilungileyo. Mhlawumbi kufanelekile ukunikela umhlobo wakho ukuba azame into entsha ebhedeni? Yaye ungaba neentloni zeengxoxo ezintle kunye nokulinga!
Zikhathalele . Intanda yakho ithathwa yi-intanethi, kodwa ingcinga yakho malunga noko akwenzayo ngelo xesha? Uncedo malunga nendlu. Ukutya kunye nomntwana, ukuthetha nawe, ukuhamba nenja (uluhlu lunokuqhubeka). Yeka ukucinga ngaye - ungumdala. Yeka ukuchitha amandla akho kumava! Nika ixesha kwaye uziqwalasele. Unayo intombi, izinto zokuzilibazisa, iincwadi, emva koko. Khumbula ukuhlalisana kwamaziko okuzonwabisa kunye namaziko okufaneleka. Abasetyhini abaninzi baphikisana: xa "beyeke" ukulawula ngokugqithiseleyo baze batshintshe ingqwalasela yabo, intandokazi yaqalisa ukuchitha ixesha elincinane kwi-Intanethi. Yiba ngumfazi wokwenene, uyeke ukutshutshisa ngengqondo, kwaye indoda ephakathi kwakho, nayo, iyatshintshwa. Dlala naye. Khetha umdlalo ngokwakho, ubhalisele iiforam kwiminqweno. Kuthekani ukuba uyayithanda? Ngoko uya kubulala iintaka ezimbini ngelitye elinye: okokuqala, uya kuqonda kakuhle intanda yakho, kwaye okwesibini, uya kuvuya. Kwaye, uyabona, uya kuba yinkampu ye-intanethi. Ngendlela, eli li-third "hare". Ukuba umthandayo akaphuculanga, ukukwazi ukusebenzisa i-Intanethi kuya kuba yinto enamandla yokulwa. Umzekelo, intanda ivela emsebenzini, kodwa indlu ayihlambulukanga, akukho nto yokutya. Kuyo yonke imibuzo yakhe impendulo enye: "Uthandiwe, umdlalo onomdla, andinakuziqhawula! Lungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa ngokwakho, ulungile? "
Umoya wokuphikisana . Akayena mnye kunoma yimuphi ummeli wesini esomeleleyo. Ewe, abafuni ukuthobela imiyalelo ecacileyo, kwaye kunjalo. Ngoko uyidlale. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ngaphambili wawuphikisana nezinto ezithandwayo, oko kwenza isithelo esinqatshelwe sibe mnandi, zama ukutshintsha amaqhinga. Qala ukumkhuthaza!