Vala ubudlelwane kumgama omde

Vala ubudlelwane kumgama omde - nguwe apho, kwaye ndilapha. Umtshato omude kunye nokuphela okuvuyisayo, ngokusemthethweni, akunakwenzeka. Ulwalamano olunjalo, nangona njongo enzulu kunabo bonke, ngokukhawuleza alupheli nto. Olu hlobo luchaza ... Yintoni ekhanya ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kumgama omde? Kwaye kulungile. Ukulindela - kunye nayiphi na ingqinamba yangaphandle - kuphela ukufudumala isithandwa. Ngelixa umntu othandekayo ebonakala ekugqibeleni kanye ngenyanga, akayi kutyhafisa - asinalo ixesha. Iimvakalelo zintsha, yonke intlanganiso iqhakazile kwaye ayikhunjulwa ixesha elide. Isidingo esiphuthumayo somnye nomnye sivakalelwa kwiplatifomu okanye kwinqanaba le-plane ... umfanekiso omhle usoloko uhlala kwindawo ethile. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kunye, ngokuqhelekileyo uzama ukubonisana izinto ezibonakalayo, kwaye abanye abanalo ixesha lokuzibonakalisa kwabo bonke ubuqaqawuli babo. Kunzima ukuvavanya ngenyameko isixa esona sokwenzakala okanye izinga lokunyuka komhlobo osuka entliziyweni. Kwiimimandla emide, kungekhona nje imizwa yakho, kodwa wena ngokwakho kufuneka uhlale uhamba. Uhlala uqhuba-kwaye ufunde indawo ezintsha, abantu abatsha. Ubhala ezininzi - kwaye ufunda ukuthetha kunye nokubonisa ngokucacileyo iingcamango zakho neemvakalelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukunyuka kokuziphatha akukusongeli!

Kwaye oko akukuhle. Ukuvalelana ubudlelwane kumgama akusilo ukuzonwabisa okuncinci. Kwi-sms enye-ki kwinyanga iya kuba baninzi bafumana loo nyanga. Ekuqaleni, abathandi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ababukeli iiwashi kwaye abajongi iiplanga. Kodwa ukuba "ifomu lokugulisa" leliveli lilibazisekile, ukuchitha imali kwintetho kunye netikiti ziqala ukulinganisela. Kwaye ukuba kukho umyalezo phakathi kwamanqaku amabini - kungeyona nto elula kakhulu ... Ufuna ukubona ukuba uhlala apha kwaye ngoku. Ngenxa yokuba udidekile, okanye utyhafile kakhulu. Ewe, akunakwenzeka ukuba amthinte. Kwaye xa umntu ophulaphule esondele kwimeko enzima ... Ingozi enkulu yobudlelwane obudala kunye nethuba elitsha. Imvakalelo kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kumgama omde kude buthathaka. Amava ahlukeneyo, uvuyo oluhlukeneyo kunye nosizi ... Unxibelelana nabantu abahlukeneyo, uye kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo - kwaye xa uqonda ukuba awukwazi ukuqonda omnye ... Ewe, asitsho ukuba ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kumgama omde akwenzekanga, ukuba ukudibana kunye nokwakha Intsapho ingaba kunye nalabo, ngokungahambi kakuhle, bahlala ngaphaya kwendlela. Sithetha ukuba oku kuyinyani ixesha elide, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba ukholelwe kunye nenkxaso ngokukhethekileyo!

Yilungele! Ukuthwalwa ngokugqithiseleyo ngamehlo avela kumaphethelo aphezulu, ngandlela-thile udla ukucinga ngeengxaki ezingenakupheka xa uhlukaniswe ngamakhilomitha. Kubonakala ngathi: "Ewe, uthando lwam luba ngathi akukho mida, akukho zihlandlo, akukho zimo zisoyikayo! Yonke iya kunqotshwa kwaye siya kulawulo ... "Kodwa ukuguqula umcimbi kunye nenkosi ukusuka kude ukuba ube nomsondo omkhulu, umntu kufuneka aqonde kwangaphambili ukuba kukho izinto eziza kubalwa ngazo nasiphi na amandla okuvakalelwa. Yilungiselele izithintelo zobuchwepheshe ezinokuthi zikhusele i-idyll yakho. Isitimela sagqiba, i-flight yaxoshwa, i-Intanethi yacinywa ngexesha elibaluleke kakhulu le nkcazo ... Isele ukuba uhlale ukhaliphe - kwaye ungavumeli ukucaphukisa kwakho ukuphazamisa uvuyo lweentlanganiso okanye unxibelelwano olubonakalayo.

Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba nangona xa uthetha nomntu ekude kwiminyaka emininzi, awukwazi ukuthetha ukuba uyamazi njengeminwe yakho emihlanu. Iinkcukacha ezininzi kunye neenkcukacha zobomi bakhe zihlala zingabonakali. Ukuvela kwimeko ukuya kwimeko, kulula ukufihla into ethile komnye, kodwa kunzima ukuchaza into ethile. Emva kokulinganisa i-pros and cons cons, kuya kuwe ukugqiba ukuba ngaba ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kumgama omde.