Bonke abasetyhini bafuna ukuthandwa ngabantu, abaziwa ngokuba bathanda amehlo. Iiyure ezininzi, iintsuku, inyanga zobomi bakhe, abafazi bajikelelwe ekufezekeni kwembonakalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku akusiyo nje ingqondo yobugcisa, kodwa kwakhona kwindlela eyenzayo - amadoda agcina ixesha labo elithandanayo ekuthandweni kokuqala, oko kuthetha ukuba akuyi kuba nexesha lokubonakaliswa kobukrakra bokulwa kwi-flush. Kodwa kukuphi na ukulungele ukuzama?
Namhlanje, inkcubeko yesininzi ithonya kakhulu izinto ezikhethwa ngabantu kunye nemilo yazo into ethanda ngayo ubuhle babesifazane. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba kwimibukiso yeTV, ukusuka kumaphephancwadi amacwecwe kunye neentengiso, imfashini yomzimba wesifazane omncinci uphakanyiswa. Ngaba abantu bayavuma ukuba abafazi abancinci abancinci bahle kunamafutha? Yintoni abayicinga ngabafazi abapheleleyo?
U-Andrey Tishchenko, oneminyaka engama-35 ubudala, iimpahla zokuyila
"Ndihlala ndigxotha ukufumana iimodeli zokubonisa iimpahla endizenzayo. Umgangatho we-90-60-90, bulela uThixo, yinto eyadlulayo, kwaye namhlanje iifom eziluhlaza ziba yinto. Kubalulekile kum ukuba iimodeli zam zizintombi, zihle kwaye zi ... Ewe, njengomyili, ndimkhetha amantombazana enomfanekiso wesigxina, kodwa njengendoda, andinakuqaphela ukuba ibhinqa linomlenze, ukuba amehlo akhe akwazi ukuzithemba ngokunyanisekileyo nokungafezeki. Amantombazana amnandi! Ungabi neentloni ngokungahambi phantsi kwezinto ezibizwa ngokuthi "imigangatho yobuhle". Abasetyhini beSlavic baye bahlala behluke kwiifom zabo ezivelele. Musa ukuzibandezela ngokutya okudakisayo. Namhlanje kuya kuba nemfashini ukuba ibe mnandi kwaye ixhaphaze! "
UAlexandro Komarov, 40, isifo sobuchwephesha
"Andiyi khumbula ukuba ngubani othe:" Amadoda azenza ngathi bathanda abafazi abancinci, iwayini elomileyo kunye nokugembula. Enyanisweni, bathanda abafazi abancinci, iwayini elimnandi kunye nobomi obuthulileyo. " Ndiya kubhalisela kuwo onke amagama. Ndiqinisekile ukuba amadoda, abo bafazi abathandwayo ngamathambo, bafuna ngasese abafazi basemthethweni baseRashiya (ngokufanelekileyo kwegama) - obushushu kunye neshushu, njengamaqebelengwane. Abafana! Ungakhathazeki! Yondla! Ndikuxelela kuwe ngamava am: abafazi abahle kakhulu bayakwazi ukuthanda. Ziyimvelo, zincinci, zithandekayo, kwaye zihlala zifumana into yokutya. Bondle kwaye banemihlali, kwaye ngoko-ke!
U-Alexey Kudasov, oneminyaka engama-28 ubudala, umprogram
"Kakade, akukho mpikiswano malunga nokuthanda. Omnye uthanda i-skinny elincinci, kwaye umntu unikela "ngegazi ngobisi." Kodwa kukho amantombazana amangalisayo, azalisekile, kukho "emzimbeni", kwaye kukho ioli ephilileyo. Andifuni ukucaphukisa nabani na - mna ndandisanda kudla, ngoko ndiyazi ukuba ubunzima obuninzi buchaphazela impilo yempilo kunye nesimo sengqondo. Andifuni isithandwa sam, kwiphakheji enobukhulu, ukuhamba ubunzima, iingxaki zomzimba nezengqondo. Ndifuna intombazana enempilo, esebenzayo engakwazi ukuzala nokuzala abantwana abanempilo. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba umfazi ongenako (ukufunda "akafuni") ukulahla iipounds ezongezelelweyo, nje uvila kwaye akanandaba nempilo yakhe. "
UMakar Udovichenko, oneminyaka engama-52 ubudala, umchazi wezemidlalo
"Ndiqinisekile ukuba nayiphi na into enhle, ukuba ngaba ngowowesifazane okholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo. Akuyinyani ukuba amadoda azinqabile ngokugqithiseleyo kunye neentombi ezakhayo. Kukho nawuphi na, akukho madoda anjalo phakathi kwamhlobo nabahlobo bam. Kodwa, ke, enye eyingozi - inqatha-egxininini, umfazi ongenalwazi - akafunanga ukuba nabone umntu osondele kuye. Ukunyaniseka akukona nje kumnandi, kodwa kuyingozi nakwimpilo. Izizathu zizahluka, kodwa ukuba intombi ihlonipha yona kunye nendoda yayo, iya kuzisa umyalelo wesondlo kunye nobomi. Le ngongoma ephambili. Ndiyakholwa ukuba ukwenza umzimba omkhulu uphumelele kwaye uhle, xa ushiya ubukhazikhazi obumnandi kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo, ufumaneke kuwo wonke umntu. Kuza kuba nomnqweno ... okanye inkuthalo ngendlela yomntu ongeyena onobuqili ukuba azigcine ebomini. "
U-Ilya Karpov, oneminyaka eyi-25 ubudala, usomashishini
"Ukunyaniseka, kunzima ukubona umfazi emva kobuninzi beoli. Yintoni evuyisayo yokuhlala kunye neendluvu, ezenzeke ngokwaloo ndlela? Ukuba akafuni ukusebenzela yena ngokwakhe, yintoni na isiqinisekiso sokuba uya kufuna ukusebenza kubudlelwane? Indoda enoxanduva lweemeko ezintle apho kuhlala khona intsapho yakhe, kwaye ukuba uyayifeza imisebenzi yakhe, unelungelo lokubona umfazi osondeleyo kuye, oya kuvuya kunye nobuhle bakhe nokuvisisana. Nam, akayi kuba neentloni ukubonakalisa abantu-ndikhokelela kwimpilo enempilweni kwaye ndiza kuba nemidlalo. Mna kunye naye? Ibhinqa elityebileyo kunye nendoda ehlakaniphile ibonakala njengengqumbo neqhinga. Siyabonga, musa! "
UOleg Kovalev, oneminyaka engama-46 ubudala, i-trucker
"Kuba mna, njengokuba, ndicinga, kuba amadoda amaninzi, ukugqitywa kwabasetyhini akunqabile ukuba ngumlinganiselo wokukhetha. Okokuqala, ndiyayithanda into ebhinqa ubulumko, ubulumko, ubuntombi, ubuhle kunye nokuphela. Kwaye kungabonakaliswa kwiifom ezininzi, ezizisela umlomo, apho i-muzhik eqhelekileyo idonsa khona. Kwaye inkululeko yabafazi abanjalo inkulu. Unomnqweno wokuphila nobunzima obunempilo, kuba bahlala befuna ukulwa neengcamango zoluntu kwaye baqinisekise ukuba abafazi abancinci abangekho ngaphantsi kobuhle obuhle. Ndiya kuthi, ngokuchasene noko. Ngamanye amaxesha uyamangalisa, njengoko zichazwa ngamagama angamaqhinga, ungakwazi ukuhlala ungowesifazana kunye nentlonelo, ukwakha umsebenzi kwaye uphumelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, ngokugqithiseleyo ngokufakela imodeli ngemilinganiselo yanamhlanje ngokuhle ngokubonakala komzekelo. Eyona nto ingaba bhetele kunomzimba omncinci, ococekileyo oza kukufudumala ebusweni aze awufihle elangeni? Ndithandana nje, kunjalo. Kodwa abathandekayo bbws baya kuqonda, kuba nabo banomdla kakhulu. "
Ukucaphula, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba uluvo lwamadoda aluhambelani nenkohlakalo yesithethe senkcubeko. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuzaliswa komfazi akubalulekanga kubantu. Bayakwazi ukuqonda ukuba baqonda ukuba ibhinqa yindalo yendalo, kwaye kwiifom zayo ezintle kunokwenzeka. Unelungelo lokufundisa amadoda kunye nokubeka umboniso wendlela ubuhle bowesifazane obufanele bukhangele ngayo, obukwazi ukuvusa kuzo izinto zasendulo kunye nothando. Kule nto baya kuqonda ngokucacileyo!