Kwilungiselelo le nqaku, kwaqhutyelwa isifundo esincinci, uphando olwenziwe ngamadoda aneminyaka engama-27 ukuya ku-37. Oko kukuthi, iminyaka yayikhethwe ngokukhethekileyo ngenyameko, "iwashi". Phakathi kwabathandululwazi "amehlo": 1 isiBulgaria, 3 amaRashiya, ama-2 aseMelika, 1 i-Chuvash, 1 isiNgesi, 1 isi-Ukrainian kunye nesi-1 saseGeorgia. Ngaphezulu, sinika iimpendulo, ezo "zonke ezilishumi" ezihambelanayo kwaye zazintle. Ngoko ke, bafazi, xhaphaza kwaye niyikhumbule. Ukususela kukuphi na amadoda aphakanyisiwe, kungakhathaliseki ubuzwe kunye nomoya.
1. Kwintsimi yombono wakhe, ibhinqa eempahla ezinxibeleleyo ingabonakali. Ngokukodwa iliso lendoda lihlala kwi-esile efihliweyo, amabele, iinqumle. Iingubo ezininzi ezithandanayo zithi amadoda athi igama elide elimnyama elinomsila ophezulu ukusuka kwinqaba (okanye ezimbini!), Ngoko ukuba ngaphandle kwayo "ngengozi" imilenze eneentlobo zearubha ezisuka kwisitokisi.
Le nkcukacha encinci izityalo ngokukodwa. Impendulo efanayo kumadoda kwi-neckline ye-blouse eneqhosha elingenakunqanyulwa, eliza kuphuma liphuma kwixinzelelo xa liphazamiseka, kwaye iqhosha liza kudibanisa. Wonke umntu, ekhangele kule ndawo engumnandi, ethemba ukubona yonke into efihliweyo ngaphantsi kwaye uthinte. Iqala kwakhona ukuxhalabisa.
2. "Yonke imfihlelo yowesifazane eengubo, ayigcinanga imfihlo yobunqunu" - isetyenziselwa ukuthetha indoda yamandulo yamadoda. Namhlanje kunye nabo bazinzile. Wonke umntu wavuma ukuba umfazi ogqoke ngokugqithiseleyo ukhangeleka kakhulu, kwaye akaze ahamba ngokuzeleyo. Indoda iyaqala ngakumbi ukuba ingcinga yakhe "ipeyinti" iindawo ezingabonakaliyo zomzimba wesetyhini.
Le nkqubo inomdla. Amadoda afana nokucinga ngeentombi zentliziyo kwiingubo zangaphantsi ezithandayo, kwaye kungekhona kwisigxina sokulala ebusuku. Ngokukhethekileyo iingubo zangaphantsi, okuyiyo nje into ebonakalayo: ebonakalayo kwaye eqoshwe kakhulu. Ngokubhekiselele kumbala wohlamba, siya kuhlala kwiinkcukacha.
3. Umbala wezambatho zangaphantsi zabesetyhini ekuqwalaselweni kwezenzululwazi (abafana besayensi) bavelisa umphumo othile kwizinga elingaphantsi kwengqalelo. Ukuba ungumthandi omhle, ngokuqhelekileyo uchitha imali eninzi ebomvu (i-crimson) kunye neengubo zangaphantsi ezimnyama. Umbala obomvu usebenza kumthandi, njengoko onke amadoda angama-10 ephawulwe, axhaphaza, akhanyisa amandla akhethekileyo. Babona umfazi kwizinto ezinjalo ezifana nenkosikazi, onokuhlala ekhululekile, kungekho mqobo kunye nemingcele. Bona uphawu oluloluhlobo lwengubo: unokwenza isibindi, udibanise umsebenzi kunye nokungabi namsebenzi (ukunika loo nto ibhinqa inxaxheba ephambili kwimidlalo yesondo). Ukuba le ntokazi ivele yelinen ngokukhawuleza (nangona lo mbala awunamdla), amadoda ayaqonda oku ukuze umnini-mhlaba ulinde umgangatho wentsapho yexesha elide, kungekhona imidlalo yemiddla ngomzuzu.
Umnikazi weengubo zangaphantsi ezomfusa nebompu, amadoda azibona njengowesifazane, onobubele, kodwa enqatshelwe ngemilinganiselo yokuziphatha kunye nokubandlulula.
Ibhinqa elingaphantsi kwengubo yangaphantsi yelinen libhekwa (uxolisa) "ungene kwibhedlele," apho kufuneka usebenze khona, sebenze. Kwaye konke kungekho mphumo. Umfazi onobuqili ubala kuphela kumsebenzi weqabane. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umbala obomvu welinen ilona ayifanelekanga, "abalishumi" bethu bacinga.
Ilineni eziluhlaza, bacinga ukuba, kwintombazana efuna lo mlingane kanye kuphela, kunye nabasetyhini abancinci bathanda ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.
Umbala omhlophe. Wabonwa ngabathandekayo bethu kubasetyhini abaninzi. Bayiqonda into engathathi nxaxheba, bengenalo uphawu lomntu okhethekileyo.
Lo ngumbala wendawo. Thatha ingqalelo, ukuthenga izinto ezilandelayo zabasetyhini. Yaye khumbula, bafazi abathandekayo, oko kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuziphatha kwakho ebhedeni. Ngona ilayini echanekileyo kunye neyelinen yelinen ayinakukunceda ukuba unesiqhwala, esingaziwa kakuhle kwizesondo.
4. Kakade, bonke abantu (kunye nabaphenduliweyo kwindawo yokuqala) bayayithanda kakhulu xa ibhinqa lilivanya (ngokuvakalayo nangokuphindaphindiweyo) "njengomthandi omkhulu." Umjonga ngokumthanda. Akaboni nje, kodwa ubude bubude bakhe, "ukuphakamisa" amehlo akhe "aphelelwe ngumnqweno wesifazane." Kuthetha ukuthini oku? Nawuphi na umfazi othanda isondo uyazi. Kwaye nabani na othanda umfazi onjalo uyazi.
5. Amadoda avuma ukuba kuyonwaba kakhulu ukuba bafumana ngokukhawuleza ukuba ibhinqa labo lingenazo zangaphantsi. Eli lixesha "ibhomu"! Ukuba uthetha ezi ndaba kumntu othandekayo ngexesha lomdaniso otyeshelekileyo kwiqela elixhamle kwi-nightclub. Ungamangaliswa ukuba ke ngokukhawuleza akudonsa kwikhonkco elisezantsi kwaye wenza into enhle. Ukuchasa akunakuncedo, bona ngokwabo bavusa "i-African passion".
6. Ewe, umhlobo wakho uyakulibala ngokukhathala kunye neengxaki zomhla wokusebenza, ukuba udibana naye emnyango wabuze uhamba (ngebhondi enye okanye ibhanti ukusuka kwisitokisi). Thatha ityayi uze ukhokele ngqo kwigumbi lokulala, apho angayi kubona ibhedi evulekileyo, ikhethini eliyimfama, kodwa isidlo esilungileyo seesibini kwitafile.
7. Akukho namnye kwalishumi akayithandabuli olo lonwabo: xa intanda yakhe ithintela ngokungalindelekanga kwaye igxininise "isixhobo" sakhe kwiipokethi zakhe. Yaye wenza amanqaku anjalo phantse (kodwa engaqapheliswanga!): Kwiqela, kwibala lezemidlalo, kwibala lemidlalo (!) Kwaye kwenye indawo.
8. Kwaye, amadoda avumile ukuba "njengendlela eyingozi." Xa umfazi engaboni nje ukuxabisa ubutyebi bakhe xa ekhwela imoto, kwaye wenza into engakumbi ngokukhawuleza naye. Into ephambili kwiimidlalo ezinobungozi kukujonga kwindlela kwaye ingathathwa ngokukhawuleza.
9. Kwaye, ke, wonke umntu ufuna ukuba izithandani zinikela ngeendawo ezingalindelekanga zesini: ukusuka kwintsimbi elahliwe kunye ne-hayloft kwi-metro escalator!