Ifowuni engalindelekanga kwiofisi yomlawuli - kwaye ngoku uqeshwa njengenhloko yesebe. Kakade, ukuqeshwa akunqabile. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiqela abahlala beqaphela abaviwa abathile beli sikhundla. Njengomthetho, bakhetha umqeshwa ojongene kakuhle nemisebenzi yabo esemthethweni. Kule meko, umntu akasoloko enokwenziwa kweenkokheli. Ukuba ungumenzi omangalisayo, kodwa unganqongqo obunzima bomlingiswa, unako ukufumana uqeqesho olukhethekileyo olujoliswe ngokukodwa kule nto. Ngoku kukho iinkampani ezininzi ezibonelela ngeenkonzo ezinjalo. Ngaphandle koko, awuyi kuba nako ukulawula abaphantsi kwakho, kwaye ekugqibeleni unokukuphelisa ngokususa. Kuba ngamanye amaxesha ukunyamezela uxinzelelo lwe "intombi" kumsebenzi kaninzi kulula.
Ukuba waba ngumphathi weqabane lakho, ngoko ukuqeshwa kwakho kunokwenzeka, njengoko ubasondeza, kwaye usuke kude. Konke kuxhomekeke kubalinganiswa bakho. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuba neentloni kwizinto abazikhethele zona, kungekhona. Akukho mzekelo ungangenise engqondweni kwaye ungabelane naye kunye nabangaphansi kwakhe. Ukuba ngaphambili ungumdlali odibeneyo, ngoko xa utyunjwe, ubuhlobo obuhle buya kulala. Kodwa oku, kunjalo, kufike kuwe. Emva kwakho konke, uyazi ukuba ngubani ojongene naye.
Umhlobo wokwenene kufanele ujabule kuwe kwaye uqhubeke uncedisa emsebenzini, kwaye ungalimazi. Ukuthetha ngoncedo kumngane akuthethi ukuba kuhlwaywe. Nangona amaqumrhu amaninzi analo mkhuba. Umntu oqeshwe ngokukodwa osebenzayo, engabonakaliyo kwindawo edibeneyo, ubona imizwa kunye nokuphulaphula iingxoxo. Kwaye emva koko, uxelela abaphathi bakhe. Ukususela kwimbono yokuziphatha, oku ngenye indlela ihlazo, kodwa ngokulawula, kuyimfuneko.
Bathi abahlobo bokwenene bavela kumntu ebuntwaneni baze bahambe naye ebomini bakhe bonke. Xa uneminyaka yobudala kunzima ukufumana umntu ukuba akuthande, kunzima ukuthetha ngeengxaki zakho, ukuvula. Kutheni sifuna intombi? Oko kwakungobani, ukuba ngubani omele akhale "kwisibambiso", ukuxelela ngezinto ezonwabileyo namava. Yamukelwe, mhlawumbi kuphela eRashiya, ngaphandle, iingxaki zabo ziya kwi-psychoanalyst. Ukuba unayo intombi, ngoko ke unenhlanhla.
Emva kwakho konke, kwenzeka ukuba ucinga ngalo kuphela kuphela, kodwa njengenkathazo kuza, ngoko akukho nto impawu zayo ziqala ukuzibonakalisa. Akumangalisi ukuba ubulumko obudumileyo uthi umngane uyaziwa enkingeni. Kule meko, kukho iindlela ezimbini: okanye ukuyeka ubudlelwane bakhe bobuhlobo kunye noqhagamshelwano nomsebenzi kuphela, okanye ushiye konke. Konke kuxhomekeke kuwe.
Abanye, ukuthatha isikhundla senkokheli, baqala ukuziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga. Ukuthwala umsebenzi, kufuna ukuthobela ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukunyaniseka. Kukho zonke iimpawu zokuvumela. Ewe, ukuba uqala ukuziphatha ngale ndlela ukuya kumhlobo kunye nabangaphantsi, akukho mntu uya kuvuya ngayo. Kwaye ke umhlobo omhle uza kungena kwi "yangaphambili".
Ukuthintela oku kwaye ukuba uyaluxabisa ubungani bakho, kufuneka ulandele imithetho ethile. Okokuqala, kwisimo esingasebenzi emsebenzini, thetha ngobudlelwane bakho kwindawo yokusebenzela. Njengabantu abahlakaniphile, kufuneka uqonde ukuba akukho mbuzo woba nolwazi. Yonke imisebenzi esemthethweni kufuneka yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo nangexesha. Intombi yakho ayifanele iqhayise ngobudlelwane bakhe kunye nabo. Kwaye, nawe ke, akufanele unikezele. Ngokwemvelo, ukuba umhlobo wenze uhlobo oluthile lokulinganisa okanye ukujamelana ngempumelelo nomsebenzi - enye into.
Abasebenzi kufuneka badunyiswe. Ukuze ube ne-incentive eyongezelelweyo yokusebenza kakuhle, kukho inkqubo yokukhuthaza. Thatha le nqubo kwinkonzo kwaye iziphumo aziyi kuba lizayo.
Ngenkokheli ehlakaniphileyo, bonke abaphantsi basebenza ngendlela edibeneyo, kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, banokutshintshana omnye nomnye ukwenzela ukuba umsebenzi ungaphazanyiswa. Kwakhona akunakwenzeka ukugxeka bonke abasebenzi. Ngenxa yoko, unayo iofisi.
Kwaye into yokugqibela - kuyo yonke i-boss kunye nomqeshwa wonke kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngaba ngabahlobo okanye hayi, ndifuna ukuba ubudlelwane obunyanzelisayo bube yimpumelelo. Ukuze kwenzeke oku, kufuneka wenze imizamo ethile, kwaye kumacala omabini. Ukunyamezela kuwe kunye nenhlanhla!