Isigaba sokuqala sokukhulelwa. Ngeli thuba, umama ozayo uza kuvelisa imiqondiso yemveli yokukhulelwa, njengokwenza isifo esiyingozi, ukukhathazeka okubuhlungu kwesifuba, ukuvuthwa rhoqo, ukukhathala nabanye.
Umama wesikhathi esizayo akafanele akhathazeke ngale nto, kuba eli thuba lixeshana kwaye kwikamva uza kukwazi ukujamelana nale ngxaki. Yonke le miqondiso ibonisa ukuba emzimbeni womfazi okhulelweyo yonke into iyavuselelwa kwaye ilungiselela ukuphuhliswa kwendoda encinane.
Kwinqanaba lokuqala lokukhulelwa iinyawo ziqala ukwenza kwifomfus, iimpawu zokutshatyalaliswa kwezibonakaliso zibonakaliso kwaye izibonakaliso ezininzi zokuqala ze-reflex zibonakala. Ngeli xesha lexesha elizayo lomama kuyimfuneko ukugcina ukutya okunempilo kunye nokubandakanya kwi-gymnastics ekhethekileyo kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo-konke oku kunceda ekuzalweni komntwana onempilo kwaye onamandla. Ukuze uqale ukulandela ukutya kunye nokwenza i-gymnastics kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, kufuneka, okokuqala, ukubonisana neengcali ezifanelekileyo eziza kuthatha ikhosi nganye. Kwakhona ngeli xesha, owesifazane okhulelweyo unconywa ukuba aphuze i-folic acid kunye ne-vitamin C.
Kwinqanaba lesibini lokukhulelwa, owesifazane okhulelweyo uqala ukukhula esiswini sakhe kwaye kuya kuba nzima ukufihla abantu abajongene nesimo sakhe. Kwakhona ngeli xesha lokukhulelwa, oomama abalindayo banesifo sokulala, kwaye kuthiwa umsebenzi obuxoki ubonakala. Kwinqanaba lesibini lokukhulelwa kwisibeleko somntwana, umntwana uqala ukuvelisa isikhumba solawulo esilawula ukushisa komzimba xa umntwana ezalwa. Kule nqanaba, iingqondo zomntwana ziqala ukuphuhlisa: umntwana uqala ukuva izandi ezahlukeneyo zehlabathi langaphandle, kwaye unokukwazi ukukhanya nokukhanya. Ekupheleni kwesigaba sesibini sokukhulelwa, umama olindelekileyo uyaqala ukuvakalelwa ngumntwana.
Isigaba sesithathu seengcali zokukhulelwa sabizwa ngokuba "isigaba sezingane". Ngeli xesha, lo mfazi uqala ukuguquka okukhulu emzimbeni. Umfazi okhulelweyo ekugqibeleni uthatha ibhaluni kwaye ixesha lokuzalwa lomntwana lisondela ngakumbi. Ngoko ke, umama ozayo unokuqala ukulungiselela ukubeletha kunye nokunyamekela umntwana. Kwinqanaba lesithathu, umzimba womntwana usungulwe ngokusesikweni, ngaphandle kwemiphunga, efikelele ekuphuhliseni ngokupheleleyo kuphela ekupheleni kwesigaba sesithathu sokukhulelwa.
Kwixesha eliqhelekileyo lwenkqubo yokukhulelwa nokubeletha, umama okhulileyo kufuneka aqonde zonke izigaba zokukhulelwa kunye noko kwenzeka ntoni ngeli xesha kwisibeleko somama. Ngako ke, xa kunjalo umfazi okhulelweyo uyazi malunga nokuhamba kwenkqubo yokukhulelwa, izigaba zayo, kulula kwaye zihlaziywe ukuhanjiswa.
Iingcali ezifanelekileyo zicebisa oomama bokamva:
- iinyanga ezili-9 ngumhla wokubaluleka komhla wokukhulelwa, ngoko ke, ama-moms esizayo akufanele acinge kakhulu malunga nalezi zibalo, kuba ukuzalwa kunokuqala kunye nangoko kungekudala. Kwaye ngoku, musa ukukhathazeka, kuba uxinzelelo luchaphazela umntwana kakubi, kwaye kungcono usebenzise amandla akho ukunamathela kwisondlo esifanelekileyo kunye nokuzivocavoca.
- Jonga impilo yakho kunye nempilo yengane yakho ezayo. Ukwenza oku, zama ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi malunga nezigaba zokukhula komntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwintombi.
Khumbula ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyona nto ibhetele ebomini bonke abafazi!