Umntwana ukususela kwimini yokuqala yobomi uzama ukunxibelelana nawe. Ekuqaleni, lo kuphela ulwimi lwezandla, umzimba, ukukhala. Ngeenyanga ezintandathu umntwana uqala ukuxubha. Ukuzalwa kwakhe kokuqala, ubeka amagama alula, kwaye emva konyaka usebenzisa amagama angama-200 kunye neefom zesigwebo esilula entetho. Le yona khetho eqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, akubona bonke abantwana abakhula ngokukhawuleza. Ngawaphi amanyathelo okuphuhliswa kwentetho yabantwana kunye neengxaki ezibazali abangabhekana nazo, kwaye ziya kuxutyushwa ngezantsi.
Uvavanyo lokuva abantwana
Oku kuyinto emele yenziwe ekuqaleni kobomi bomntwana. Ukuba kukho iingxaki zokuva, intetho yomntwana ingahlakulela ngokungalunganga okanye ayiyi kuphuhliswa nhlobo. Umntwana ongavumiyo akakwazi ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho akanakho ixesha lokuthetha iilllabha kwiinyanga ezili-10 - bonisa umntwana ukuba abe ngugqirha we-ENT. Ewe, umntwana uhlolwe xa ezalwa, kodwa oku akunakwenziwa ngokugcwele kweli xesha. Ngoko ke, nangona uxelelwe ukuba yonke into ihlelwe ngexesha lokuzalwa, oku akusiyo isiqinisekiso sokugqibela sokuba iingxaki zengxoxo aziyi kuvela kwixesha elizayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, umzekelo, ukuva kungadluka okanye kupheleke ngenxa yesifo (ngokuqhelekileyo kuba yimiphumo ye-meningitis). Tshekisisa ukuva komntwana wakho ngokukhawuleza ukuba uqiniseke ukuba oku akuyi kubangela iingxaki ngokuphuhlisa intetho.
Amaxesha anzima
Kukho amaxesha obomi bomntu omncinci, xa ukukhula kwentetho kunzima. Oku kwenzeka ekuqaleni konyaka wesibini - umntwana unqwenela ukuhamba kwaye "ubalekele" nje ngencoko. Ukukhula ngokukhawuleza kwezilwanyana kubantwana banamanye ahlukeneyo, njengentetho. Eli xesha ufanele ulinde. Emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, yonke into iya kubuya kwizinto eziqhelekileyo. Into ephambili - lonke eli xesha, khuthaza umntwana ukuba akhulume, ngoko ukuba akaqhelekanga ukuthetha.
Ukuba umntwana unenkani uyathula
Abanye abantwana kwiminyaka yesibini okanye yesithathu yobomi basasebenzisa kuphela izandi ezimbalwa kwaye bathetha ngokubanzi ngempawu kunye nesimo sombuso. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abazali bazama ukumkhuthaza ukuba athethe njani, akukho nto eyenzekayo. Izizathu zalo mcimbi ziyakwazi ukuhluka. Umzekelo:
- Ukuba iimfuno zomntwana zanelisekile, ngaphambi kokuba zichazwe ngamagama, akufuneki ukuba athethe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali benza impazamo yokufeza iimfuno zomntwana kwisenzo sokuqala. Kumele umxelele ukuba kufuneka achaze ngamagama oko akufunayo. Nika umntwana ithuba lokuphuhlisa intetho.
- Akukho mntu ozayo kumntwana onokuthanda ukuthetha naye. Umzekelo, usemsebenzini, kwaye umntwana ushiywe ekunyamekelweni kukagogo ofunda okanye odibanisa yonke imini kwaye engabonisane nomntwana nhlobo.
- Ukuba ngabazali banzima kakhulu kumntwana kwaye baninzi bamnqabela, inkunzi inokuhlala ithule ukuze igxininise ingcamango yakhe. Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kubafana. Jonga umntwana wakho kwaye uvavanye unyango lwakho kunye naye.
- Ukuba "ulayishe" umntwana ngemisebenzi emitsha emininzi - uyadinwa kwaye uvale ngokwakhe. Ingane kufuneka ibe nexesha lokuphumla, imidlalo kunye nokulala, ngamava, ukuthetha ngokukhululekile kunye nalowo ufuna. Ukuba kukho ezininzi izikhuthazo zokuthetha, umntwana ulahlekile, kunzima kuye ukuqonda ihlabathi elikufutshane naye.
- Ukuthula kungasabela njani kwimpikiswano yabazali, ukuyithumela kwi-nursery yosuku, i-kindergarten, ukuhamba, ukuhlala ixesha elide esibhedlele.
Izigaba eziqhelekileyo ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho yabantwana
Ezintathu iinyanga
Umntwana uqala ukuhamba. Unayo izandi zokuqala, ngelixa kuphela izikhalazo (aaa, uh, uuu). Uqonda indawo engqongileyo ngokubanzi, uzama ukubonisa iimvakalelo. Umzekelo, unokumomotheka kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukutsala isandi. Le yintsholongwane yentetho ezayo.
Yintoni ongayenza: Thetha ngokusemandleni akho kunye nomntwana wakho, ncokola naye, udale ingxoxo yesenzo kunye nesimo sombuso. Phinda izandi ezikhutshwe ngumntwana omncinci ukukhuthaza "ukunxibelelana" naye.
Ziziphi izizathu ezixhalabisayo: Umntwana akenzi nasiphi na isandi kuye kwaye akawunaki abantu abathetha naye. Akaphendulanga kwizandi, nokuba likhulu kakhulu kwaye libukhali.
8-11 iinyanga
Umntwana uqala ukubiza izilwanyana-kuqala kuqala, kwaye emva kwemigca, umzekelo, u-ra-ra, ma-ma. Amazwi okuqala adalwa, njengomthetho, ngengozi. Inkomo ayifaki ukudibanisa nezinto ezizithethayo.
Oko unokukwenza: gxi ninisa ukubaluleka kokuthetha kumntwana. Mkhuthaze ukuba athethe, amdumise, athethe naye, achaze ngokucacileyo onke amagama. Musa ukuphulaphula umntwana! Uyakwazi ukudibanisa amagama anentsingiselo aze akhuphe indlela yokuthetha ngayo. Kulo nyaka ubeka isiseko senkulumo yengomso yengane. Thetha kuye, funda kuye izibongo ezilula, ukucula iingoma zabantwana.
Ziziphi ezibangela ukukhathazeka: Umntwana uyaqhubeka nokuhamba. Akazange aqale ukubethekisa, ukubiza izilwanyana.
1 unyaka wobomi
Umntwana uthetha ngamagama alula, uchaza iimfuno kunye neengcamango zakhe. Ulungelelanisa amagama kunye neengcinga abazithethayo. Ukufunda ngokukhawuleza, ufunde amagama amatsha kwaye uwasebenzise ngentetho. Ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala umntwana sele sele akwazi ukuvakalisa izivakalisi ezilula, ukuzibopha ngentetho. Nangona kunjalo, intsana ivuyiswa kakhulu ukuthetha ngokuthandana, ukuzama ukufumana into ekhuthazayo.
Yintoni ongayenza: Funda iincwadi, bonisa imifanekiso yomntwana, iifoto kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba athethe oko akubonayo. Vumani iingoma ndawonye - abantwana bazimisele kakhulu ukufunda ngale ndlela. Kuzo iingoma ezithethayo zixhobo zokuthetha, izakhono zokuvakalisa izandi zifakwe.
Ziziphi izinto ezibangela ukuba zixhalabele: Umntwana akayi kuthi nje nawaphi na amabinzana, kodwa nangamazwi ngabanye. Akazalisi izicelo ezilula, akayiqondi intsingiselo yazo. Akaqhagamshelani izandi, intetho yakhe ayihambi ngokungahambiyo kunye nokubamba.
Iminyaka 2-3
Umntwana unako ukuthetha ngokubanzi okanye ngaphantsi ngokupheleleyo. Uyayiqonda yonke into, ulandele amagama kwizinto, aqoke amagama kunye nezivakalisi. Isigama sakhe siphuthuma ngokukhawuleza, uzama ukuthetha kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ngeli xesha ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke izandi zibizwa ngokuchanekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isandi "p" kunzima ukuza kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana baqala ukugxeka kamva.
Yintoni ongayenza: Qhubekelana nokuthetha nomntwana ngesantya esifanayo - uya kuwuxabisa. Mcele enze imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi, njengomzekelo, "ngenisa incwadi ehleli etafile". Unokuyicinca loo msebenzi ngokubuza: "Yaye yiphi incwadi enayithandayo?" Makukufumene umntwana.
Ziziphi izizathu ezixhalabisayo: Ingane ayifaki ukuhlanganisa amagama kwizivakalisi. Iyaqhubeka ukusebenzisa izandi ezilula nje, ayinakucacisa isigama.
Ukuba unesiqinisekiso sokuthi umntwana uyakuva kwaye akuqonde, kwaye ugqirha weentetho uqinisekisa ukuba akukho ziphoso zokuzalwa - unike umntwana ixesha. Hamba kuzo zonke izigaba zentuthuko ngokuzinzileyo - ngezinye izihlandlo zentetho ngabantwana. Umntwana unokuhlala ethule kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqale ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ngamazwi kunye nezivakalisi ezinzima. Into ephambili - ungakhathazeki phambi kwexesha kwaye rhoqo udumise umntwana ngenxa yento enza ngayo kakuhle. Makhe azive engundoqo kwaye athande.