Iingcali ezifanelekileyo kakhulu kubantwana

Ephezulu, phezulu, umntwana onqabileyo - kwaye, ngoko, uqala into emangalisayo ebomini bakhe obumangalisayo. Yintoni oyifunayo ngoku ngokukhawuleza? Unonophelo lomama, ulwandle lwenduduzo, kunye neendlela ezifanelekileyo zokunceda abantwana, ukuba banelisekile kwaye banolwazi lokufunda eli hlabathi elimangalisayo. Yimangalisa ukuba ixesha likhawuleza kangakanani: kwanezolo, iincinci zintsana ziyazi kuphela ukwenza i-grimac ezihlekisayo kwaye zihlaziye ngokukhawuleza imilenze yokubamba, kwaye namhlanje i-fidget encinci ayikwazi ukuqhubeka. Akufuneki ukuthetha, xa umntwana uneminyaka eyi-8-9 ubudala, ubomi bomama bujika ngokukhawuleza kuba ngumdlalo "Ndibambelele Ukuba Unako." Emva kwakho konke, kubalulekile kumntwana omncinci ukuba afunde indlela yokuzikhandla, ukukrazula, kunye nokunye ukuthabatha amanyathelo okuqala-kunye nawow! - kuye kukho ilizwe elitsha elitsha, elingalindelekanga nelinomdla kakhulu.

Ingxongo enomdla wendawo yonke ekhangela iindawo zokungcebelekanga ezingabonakaliyo, kunye nemilenze enegunya lokumthwala ngokufikelela kwizixhobo ezintsha. I-charlatan ehambelayo ayinakwenzeka. Ufuna ixesha elaneleyo lokubona, ukuva, ukuthintela izibamba, uzame kumazinyo, kwaye uzenze usebenze ekusasazeni i-buckwheat yonke iikhikhi okanye udale izithintelo phantsi kwezinto ezibhalwe kuzo zonke iibhokisi ezikhoyo - kukukhulu, kuba yindlela eyeyona nto ifumana ngayo ulwazi lokuqala malunga nemeko yezinto. Utsho uWoudly? Akunjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umama uyazi ukuba kwiminyaka yokuqala ye-3 umntwana ufunda ulwazi oluninzi kunabo bonke ubomi bakhe. Oku kukuthi, ngendlela, izazi zeengqondo ezihloniphekileyo zazingqina. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba xa efunda ngakumbi kwaye evakalelwa isincinci esincinci ngoku, unesibindi, uqinisekile kwaye uyafuna ukwazi ukuba uya kuba yintoni kwixesha elizayo.
Wonke umama uphupha ngale nto, akunjalo? Kwaye ukuba eli phupha elixabisekileyo libe yinyani, kufuneka uncinane kakhulu - ufunde ukubheka ihlabathi ngamehlo wakho umntwana: ngokulula kwaye unganasiphako, uyonwabile kwaye uyasebenza. Enyanisweni, ngelixa iphupha lizaliseka, ngelixa i-crumb idlala kwaye ihlekisa, kungekhona nje ukuphendula komama, iziqhumiso ezintsha, izitsha zekhitshi, amathoyizi avivinywa amandla, kodwa "abahlobo bokwenene" bantsana yizona zidibanisi ezilungileyo kakhulu kubantwana.

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Le nxalenye ye "ikhowudi yokugqoka" yomntwana imele ibe yinto elula kwaye inokwethenjelwa ngokupheleleyo, kuba i-crumb kufuneka iqhube uphando rhoqo kwisibini, kwaye ayifuni ukuphazamiseka kwimidlalo yokugqoka rhoqo. Yaye ngokwenene ingakhathazeki ngexesha lokutshintsha kwe-diaper ukulala ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba umzuzu ... Kuphi kungcono ukutshintsha iimbumbulu ngokuchanekileyo ekuhambeni-okungaqondakaliyo kwinqanaba elincinane. Ngoku oku kuyinyani. Ngoku kutshanje, i-panapers-panties entsha ebonakalayo kwii-shelves zentengiso zethu, ezidalwe ngqalelo ekhethekileyo, zombini abancinci kunye nabasetyhini abaselula. Kuphela ngalawa maqabunga e-panty, umgca wokuxuba ubeka ngokukodwa phambi kwamakhwenkwe kunye naphakathi kwamantombazana, oko kuthetha ukuba iintsana zihlala zome apho zifuna khona. Kodwa oku akusiyo yonke imilinganiselo yabathathi abasha. Ngenxa yokufakwa kwe-elastic eyenziwe ngezinto eziphathekayo kumacala, ama-panty diapers adlula njengama-panties okwenene, kwaye anokukwazi ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza ukufakwa kwimiqolo. Ukongezelela, i-backrest eselulayo ikhuthaza induduzo xa ifuna ukunyuka, ukugqithisa, ukufikelela, ukuguqa okanye ukuhlala phantsi ngokukhawuleza ukuqwalasela enye into enomdla.

Olunye udibaniso lwezona zinto zintsha ezilungileyo kakhulu kubantwana luyilo eliqhakazileyo lamakhwenkwe namantombazana kwisikimu sombala esifana nesondo lomntwana. Ukuqwalasela abalinganiswa bekratshi ngumsebenzi othakazelisayo, ingakumbi ukuba unina uxelela ibali malunga nezilwanyana ezincinci kunye namadoda amancinci atywe kwiintlanzi ezithandayo. Yaye kutheni nokuba i-banal idibanise i-diapers iya kuba ngumdlalo owonwabileyo owenza amaqhekeza amaxesha enkanuko kunye nokuthintana nabazali abathandekayo.