Uthando nomona zivame ukufaka ishedyuli enye, kwaye oku kuyinyani: umona ngomhlaba wothando - uhlobo olulodwa lomona oluvumela ukuba ubonise ngokucacileyo onke amabango abo kunye nentukuthelo yomntu othandekayo. Kule nqaku, siza kuhlola ukuba yeyiphi inxaxheba yabasetyhini malunga nomona kunye nendlela abasabela ngayo kuyo.
Ikhwele li ngcikivo. Ndi ya tyeshelwe
Uloyiko lokulahlekelwa ingqalelo kwabanye kwaye umona wakho awunzima, kodwa ugcwele. Umyeni wam usebenza kanzima lonke ixesha, "awuyi kubala", ikati inqwenela kumhlobo, kwaye "ikunyelisa". Kukho krokra kuwe ukuba ikhomputer kunye nencwadi yomntu obathandayo kubaluleke ngaphezu kwakho, kuba engabikho. Ukutshutshisa ngokocansi uxolela ngokulula, ngakumbi ngokukhawuleza - ukuba emva kokuguquka, fungela ukuba "awuyi kuphinda, ngokuba wena-ungcono!" Kwaye unike ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela.
Njengoko kubonisiwe . Ukugxeka umntu onomona: "Kakon ndiyakwazi, ndiyayixabisa, andiyikuzicingela izinto zam?" Ukusuka ngaphandle, ungeke ujonge umona. Kodwa eshahleni udla ngokukhawuleza ukukrakra komsindo.
Kunokuba kuyingozi . Ukuphikisana rhoqo kunye neenxa zonke. Ukuba unika umona onjalo ngentando, ubudlelwane buye buthatyathwa ngokukhawuleza nje kuphela, kodwa kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo.
Indlela yokucima . Cacisa ngokwakho iinjongo zomntu womnye umntu, wenqabe ngamabomu ukuba "uzimisele ukukugatya." Yaye uya kufumana inyaniso.
Ikhwele njengendlela yokuqinisekisa. Wonke umntu makangithanda kuphela
Abanye banesidingo sokuhlaziya rhoqo kwexabiso labo. Kwaye kubabuhlungu ukuba baqonde ukuba abanye abantu babeka umntu kwisinyathelo esiphezulu. Ibhinqa lalo hlobo likhwele xa indoda yakhe ihlonipha namanye amaqabane. Ukhwele ngomntu owayengumthandi kubahlobo bakhe abatsha, nangona uvuyayo emtshatweni. Ingathanda ukuba umthandi amlangazelela ngonaphakade. Ukhwele ngabaphathi kumsebenzi osebenza nabo, umthengisi-kubathengi.
Njengoko kubonisiwe . Intlungu: "Kuvela ukuba ndiyingozi!", Ukuhlupheka kunye nokuzigweba. Ngokuqhelekileyo loo mfazi ufuna ukulungela.
Kunokuba kuyingozi . Yenza ube ngumgomo ongenakwenzeka: ukufezeka. Ngamanye amaxesha uphathisa ubuhlobo nabanye ngenxa yemizamo yokubahlupha bonke.
Indlela yokucima . Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kubafazi abasemagqabini, amadoda, ashiya, ukuphelela kukuphazamiseka. Ukugcina umntu uvumela kuphela ukuphela kwethu. Ukuba umyeni wakho uhlala nawe, ngoko uyakuthanda.
Ikhwele lomnini. Wam! Andiyi kunika!
Unomona kuphela wabantu abasondeleyo - indoda, abantwana, abazali - kwabo bahamba ngaphaya kwesi sihloko. Umzekelo, umyeni - kumkhwekazi okanye abantwana-kubahlobo. Ubukhwele bakho bunzulu kwaye bubuhlungu. Ukuba nomona ukusebenza, ukufunda okanye ikhompyutha ongaqhelekanga. Uyaqonda ukuba umsebenzi womyeni wakho awusayi kuthathwa, kwaye iphini lakhe elitsha lisenjenjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, unomona ngexesha elidlulileyo, kunzima ukuba uxolele ukuphikisana ngokomzimba kwaye isithunzi "sesithathu esingenasiphelo" sihlala ixesha elide kumbhede wakho.
Njengoko kubonisiwe . Intukuthelo kunye nezichaso ezivulekileyo. UTysama uyazi oku kunye nawe, kwaye ibonakala ngokucacileyo kwabanye.
Kunokuba kuyingozi . Okokuqala: ngomsindo ogqithiseleyo ungatsho, kwaye kufuneka uxolise, uguquke. Okwesibini: izigxeko ezingekho sikweni kunye neemfuno zokuba kunye nawe ngezinye amaxesha zikhuthazwa ngumlingani we-kizmen.
Indlela yokucima . Ukunyaniseka ukuvuma wena kunye nabanye: "Ewe, ndikhwele!" Xa sivuma ngandlela-thile, kulula kakhulu ukulawula oku. Kunceda ukwahlula abo unelungelo lomthetho lokuba nomona-indoda kumntwana omtsha nezinye izihlobo.
Ukhwele olusesikweni. Ndibonise uthando lwakho
Ngokuqhelekileyo unomona ngomntu obaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngokuqhelekileyo uyintanda ethandekayo, kaninzi - umntwana okanye umama, ngamanye amaxesha umcebisi, umkhandi. Awunakholelwa ukuba ubalulekile kuye, kwaye yonke ixesha uyamsola ukuba udlala uthando, kwaye usebenzisa wena kwiminqweno yakhe, ubuxoki kunye nokuzenza. Yaye yonke inkcenkceshela yakhe idilesi iqinisa izikhalazo zakho.
Njengoko kubonisiwe . Ukunyaniseka kunye nexesha elide, ukubonisa ukucasula, ukusola: "Kutheni enomusa kangaka? Utshintshile? ", Kwaye imfuno:" Qinisekisa ukuba uyamthanda! "Ngokuqhelekileyo iphelela ngogonyamelo olunobundlobongela obubonakala lukholwanga ngokupheleleyo.
Kunokuba kuyingozi . Iimfuno eziqhubekayo zobungqina obuninzi bothando olusuka kumyeni wakhe ("Musa ukuthetha kunye nabahlobo bakho", "zilahla ityhubhu"), kwindodana yakho ("Musa ukuya kwikoyunivesithi yangaphandle") iyaphunyezwa kwindoda yokuqala kuqala neyesibini.
Indlela yokuyeka . Umsebenzi awulula. Inceda ukulawula ngokupheleleyo malunga nokuba njani nokuthi ungathini. Kwaye ukuhlala ukhumbuza ngokwakho malunga nokuba kulula kangakanani ukucaphuka omnye ngokungathembeki kwaye ulahlekelwe ngonaphakade.