Ingcaciso yesayensi yeengxaki
Kwihlabathi lezenzululwazi, umkhwa wokubamba izipikili wawubizwa ngokuthi "u-onychophagy." Ngokwezibalo, le ngxaki ibonakala kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 ubudala. Ngelo xesha, isiqingatha sabantwana banalo mkhuba kwixesha elivisayo, kwaye nangona bakhula. Ingozi enkulu kwimpilo yabantu, ayibangeli, kodwa kukho umngcipheko wokuvuvukala kwesikhumba se-peri-ogive kunye nezifo ezithintekayo.
Ngokwoluvo lwabaninzi boogqirha, i-onophagia kubantwana ibonakaliswe ngenxa yeengxaki zengqondo, ezinokubangela ukuba kukho naziphi iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, umzekelo, ukuxabana rhoqo kwintsapho, ukwahlukana kwabazali okanye ukungquzulana neontanga. Ngenxa yoko, ngokukhawuleza xa umntu enomdla okanye amava, uqala ukugaya izipikili zakhe. Kule meko, umntwana uncancinci ukuzithemba, ukunyamezeka komzwelo, kunye nezenzo ezinjalo zokungakhethi, yena unqabileyo ukukhupha ukwesaba kwakhe.
Ngokutsho kweemfundiso ze-psychoanalyst uSigmund Freud, ngenxa yokuqhawulwa kwengcinezelo kwengane evela kumbele kamama, okanye ukunyanzelela ukuthatha i-pacifier evela kuye, kunokukhokelela kwimvakalelo yokungakhuselekanga. Ziyiengalo zomama kunye nesinamathiselo kwisifuba esibangela ukuba umbutho wabantwana uxolo kunye novuyo. Ngaloo ndlela, "ngomlomo" uzama ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwengqondo, ukubethelela izipikili zakhe, ukutshiza iminwe yakhe, yonke into elandelelanayo ekubambeni "intlungu" yakhe. Xa bekhulile, ukulwa nokuxhalaba, umntu unokukhetha utywala okanye ezinye iindlela.
Izindlela zokulwa nokuxhatshazwa
Ngaphambi kokuba ulahlekise lo mlutha, kufuneka ufumane izizathu zokubonakala kwazo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ubambe umzuzu xa umntwana eqala ukubeka izandla zakhe emlonyeni wakhe. Lo mzuzwana unokubukela i-movie eyoyikisayo, ukuya kwiiklasi zesikolo, okanye ukusebenza okuzayo kwi-kindergarten kwi-matinee. Iimeko ezinjalo zigqityiweyo kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela nganye imeko nganye.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqale umsebenzi wokukrazula umntwana ngeemvakalelo zobuthixo kunye nobuthixo. Ukwenza oku, udinga ukunciphisa ixesha eliphambi kweTV, yenza umdlalo ngeemidlalo, funda incwadi kunye nomntwana. Oku kuya kunceda ukunciphisa ubuncwane bomntwana obonisa ubundlobongela kunye neemvakalelo ezinobundlobongela. Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba atshintshe ingqalelo kwaye aphumle. Oku kuya kunceda usebenze ngokuqhelekileyo, kunye nokuphefumula, ukukunceda ukuphelisa ukuxhatshazwa. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana angatyhalwa aze ahlwaywe, umntwana angakwazi ngakumbi ukuba angene ngaphakathi. Ukuba imeko ilukhuni ngakumbi, kungcono ukudibana nomntwana wengqondo.
Indlela ephumelelayo yokulwa nokuxhatshazwa yindlela yokwenza abantu, xa iminwe neenwebe zigcotyiweyo ngesardadi okanye ipilisi ebomvu eshushu. Ayiyona ndlela enomdla kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka ukwazi umlinganiselo, kuba izithako ezinjalo zingabangela ukucaphuka komlomo we-mucosa. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukutyelela kwi-lacquer ngokukodwa eyenziwa ngabademesi, eyenzelwe ukulwa neengxaki zokubetha kwepiki, kokubili kubantwana nakubantu abadala. Le varnish isetyenziswe kwiikhonkwane kwaye inomdla obalaseleyo, ngelixa izalisa izipikili kunye namavithamini, ziqinisa. Kwakhona, xa umntwana eqala ukugaya izipikili, unokumnika umdlalo ezandleni zakhe, ngaloo ndlela umphazamise kumkhwa omubi.
Abazali bentsana kufuneka babonise ngomzekelo wabo ukuba banyamekele izipikili kunye nezandla. Ungadlala nomntwana emdlalweni "Yenza umququzelelo": abazali ba bonise baze batshele umntwana ukuba baqoke njani izipikili zabo, ngoko bahle. Le ndlela iza kusebenza, zombini namantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe. Amazwi okukhuthaza, abathandekayo kunye nokukhukhuza kuya kunceda ukunika umntwana umxholo wokukhuseleka nokuzola, kwaye ngenxa yoko, akusayi kuba nesizathu sokungabikho nto kunye nokutya, okukhokelela kwimikhwa emibi.