Bakha iKlinklin
Ukuze ufunde indlela yokunxibelelana nabantu, kubalulekile ukuba uzibeke phantsi kwezi meko, apho kungenakwenzeka ukuba unamahloni kunye nokuhlambalaza. Ukuze ufezekise lo msebenzi, kulula ukukhetha umsebenzi obonisa ukuthetha rhoqo kunye nabathengi. Ngethamsanqa, ngoku kukho imisebenzi eminingi eya kukunceda ufunde indlela yokuthetha nge-mica. Umzekelo, umkhuthazi, umcebisi-ntengiso okanye umsebenzisi. Kwaye kufuneka ulahlekelwe ngamanye amathuba okufumana imali, ukwazi: ukuba andithethi nabantu, ngoko ndiza kulala nendlala. Ezi meko zinzima kakhulu, kodwa ngenye indlela, unokuhlala ufumana iinqununu kwaye ungabhubhisi iingxaki zakho zengqondo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bacetyiswa ukuba bahambe esitratweni baze bazi abantu. Nangona kunjalo, le ndlela yokwenza umntu onamahloni kunzima kakhulu, kuba akuyena wonke umntu onokuyiphatha ngokufanelekileyo ngokwaneleyo kwaye ngokwaneleyo. Ngoko kungcono ukhethe indlela encinci, esebenzayo. Kule meko, uyaqonda kwaye unako ukuchazela abantu ukuba kutheni uya kudibana nabo. Ukongezelela, kwindlela othetha ngayo, uhlawulelwa imali, oko kuthetha ukuba ukhuthazo lwakho luyanda.
Khawuleza uzilungiselele ukuba okokuqala kuya kunzima kuwe. Kuphela kwiifilimu ezithatha umntu kwaye ziqala ukuthetha nomxhasi wesithathu. Kwimeko yakho, uya kufuneka uxoxe kunye nowesithathu, kwaye ube neshumi elinamashumi amabini anesithathu namashumi amahlanu anesithathu, ude uziva ukuba unokwenene ukuthetha nomntu ngokukhululekileyo, intetho yakho iyahlulwa, awuyi kuphoswa ekutshiseni kwaye kubanda, kwaye awufuni ukugijima ukusuka emsebenzini ungena kwi-uncool ukuya apho , apho kungabi namnye umntu. Ngako oko, qiniseka ukuba umsebenzi ozayo phambi kwakho unzima kakhulu. Kodwa vypolnimaya.Poetomu musa ukucaphukisa uze uzihlambele ngokwakho, xa okokuqala uya kuba kubi. Khumbula ukuba awunetyala nantoni na kwaye akufanele uhlekise. Uyenzela umsebenzi wakho, ngoko abantu abanalo ilungelo lokuthetha nawe-ubuhlungu. Kodwa nangona oko kwenzeka, musa ukuzigxeka. Uye wanyanzelwa ngokungathandekiyo okanye uthetha into engathandekiyo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ungumntu ongekho, ungathandeki ekunxibelelaneni. Kuphela nje ukuba umnxibelelwano wakho wayenobuhlungu, wayenxinekile ngeengxaki ezithile okanye yena ngokwakhe ugosa eliqhelekileyo elingabonakaliyo. Ukuba uhlala ulungelelanisa nale nto, ngoko kwixesha lexesha uqaphele ukuba awunakwenzi ngokuthe ngqo kwiimpawu ezingathandekiyo. Ukongeza, akudingeki ukubala ukuba bonke abantu bafuna ukukucaphukisa, abafuni ukuthetha, njalo njalo. Phakathi kwabathengi bakho kukho abantu abaninzi abanomdla kunye nabalungileyo, emva kokuxoxa kunye noluya kuba nefuthe elifudumele kwingqondo yakho. Ndikholelwe, kubonga kubantu abanjalo ukuba uya kufunda indlela yokuthetha ngayo. Ngendlela, ungalokothi uzikhohlwe ukudumisa impumelelo encinane. Vumela abanye bangaboni. Kodwa uyazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani kuwe. Ngoko ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuzikhuthaza kwaye uvuyiswe ngokuqinisekileyo kwizinto oye wakwazi ukuzifeza. Khumbula ukuba akukho bonke abantu abanentlalontle nabathethayo abahlala benjalo. Abaninzi babo babesoloko bekwesaba ukuza baze babuze ngokucacileyo ukuba ikhefu liphi na okanye lixesha lini. Kodwa basebenze ngokwabo kwaye ekugqibeleni bafezekisiweyo, oku niyabalazela ngoku.
I-Erudition kunye nomlomo
Ukungabi nxibelelwano kuvame ukuchazwa nje ngeentloni, kodwa nangenxa yokungahambi kakuhle. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu banomuvo wokuba bengazi ukuba bathethe ntoni ngomntu okanye abaziqondi iingxoxo eziqhubekayo kuluntu. Kungenxa yoko, ukuze kuxoxwe, omnye ufuna kwakhona ukuba aphendule. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ufunde zonke i-sayensi kwaye ufunde zonke iincwadi kwihlabathi. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba ufunde, kwaye ungazifunda ngakumbi. Ngaphezu koko, kufuneka kube uncwadi, kunye neendaba zobuchwepheshe, kunye neendaba eziqhelekileyo. Xa ufuna ukuthetha, baxubusha iingxaki zabo, okanye iingxaki zoluntu, okanye baqala ukufihliza ezinye izihloko, bengalibali ukuqinisa iingcinga zabo kunye neencwadi ezifundwayo. Ukuba unako ukuthetha ngeengxaki zomntu ezisekelwe kumava akho, ezinye izihloko azikwazi ukuxubusha ukuba awunalo ulwazi oluthile lolwazi.
Ewe, apha abanye bathi bangakuthandi ukufunda. Kule meko, kukho iqela lezinye iziphumo: jonga iTV, mamela i-rediyo kunye neencwadi zomsindo. Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, ulwazi luza kumntu ngokukhawuleza, lufuna "ukudibanisa ulwandle olulungileyo," kwaye ungangenisi ingqondo yakho kwiinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo ezingenakukunceda ekunxibelelaneni nabantu abaneleyo nabanomdla. Ngendlela, emva kokuba uvakalelwa kukuba unolwazi olwaneleyo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu akusayi kubonakala kunzima. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba uya kuqonda oko bakuthethayo ngawe. Akumangalisi bathi: bayazi - kuthetha ukuxhoba. Abantu abanamahloni nabangenasicatshulwayo banomngcipheko ebantwini abangaqondi. Kubonakala kubo ukuba xa besithi, bayakuhleka. Kodwa xa umntu ethembekileyo ngamazwi akhe, loloyiko luya kumka kwaye uqala ukuqhuba intetho eqhelekileyo, xelela inyaniso enomdla kunye njalo njalo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, wonke umntu ngokuqhelekileyo uyalibala ukuba xa engazange akwazi ukuthetha kwaye ahlale ekhoneni yonke imini ngaphandle kokuthetha igama.
Ewe, into yokugqibela okufuneka uyikhumbule yinto yobugcisa. Abantu abaninzi banamahloni ukuthetha ngenxa yokuba banentshiseko. Ngoko ke, ilizwi labo liqala ukuthuthumela, ulwimi luya kuphazamiseka, amagama adidekile kwaye abanye abaqondi kakuhle into afuna ukuyithetha. Kule meko, kufuneka uxoxe ngokucacileyo nawe. Okokuthi, xa uhlala wedwa endlwini, yima phambi kwesibuko uze utshele into ofuna ukuxelela abanye. Qaphela ukuba uthini na indlela othetha ngayo. Ukuba uqala ukukhathazeka, zilawule uze uqale. Kumele uthande ukucinga kwakho nendlela ekuxelela ngayo. Ukuba ubona ngaphakathi kwakho, njengesikhulumi seziphene - sebenzisa i-nadpoloy. Ngokomzekelo, ziqhelise ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza okanye uqinisekise ukuba uchaza zonke izandi ngokucacileyo. Ukuba ukwenza oku rhoqo, ngokukhawuleza uza kuyika ukuthetha into ebantwini.