Ingxabano ivela rhoqo kwiintsapho nganye. Indlela yokuziphepha okanye ukulungisa ngokufanelekileyo, eli nqaku liza kuxela.
Kwiyiphi na intsapho, ngezikhathi ezithile, kukho iingxabano, ukungavumelani, ukungqubuzana nokungaqondani. Ngelishwa, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abanokuziphepha, kuba abantu ababini abanako ukuhlala benengcamango eyodwa, benze yonke into ngokuchanekileyo baze bazalise zonke iimfuno zomnye nomnye. Kodwa naluphi na umquzulwano kulula ukuhlala kwisiqalo sokuqala, kunokusibuyisela kwindawo yokubilisa. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukukhusela ingxabano okanye ukuyilungisa ngokuchanekileyo. Iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezilula zokulungisa ingxabano nomyeni wakhe.
Iimbulelo ezimnandi
Ekuseni ... ilanga livusela ngomusa imisebe yalo yokuqala, ungavuki ngokukhawuleza, wolule ngokukhawuleza, uphendule ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwicala ... uze ufumane ezandleni zomyeni wakho othandekayo. Kuhle, akunjalo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye umfazi unemibono yakhe entle, enxulumene nobomi bomtshato, ukuphumla okuhlanganyelweyo, iiholide ezithile, iziganeko okanye ubomi obulula imihla ngemihla. Nayi indlela yokuqala yokukhusela ingxabano okanye ukuxabana. Nanini na xa uziva unomsindo, kwaye ufuna ukubonisa konke ukunganeliseki nomyeni wakho, yeka, khumbula izihlandlo ezimnandi ezichitha kunye kunye nomsindo wakho uya kunqumla. Kwaye ke, ngetoni yokuzola, ngengqondo nangelungiselelo, unokuxoxa ngazo zonke iingxaki eziqokelelweyo. Kwaye amaninzi amaninzi ezi ngxaki ziphela. Ingxabano ihlelwe.
Shintsha indawo
Ukuba ukucinga kwakho kukusilela, kwaye awukwazi ukukhumbula izihlandlo ezimnandi ebomini, ke kuwe kukho indlela yesibini - zama ukubeka kwindawo yeqabane lakho. Ewe, ewe-le yona ndlela ihamba phambili kwaye ixakeke ngexesha elide esiye saxelelwa ukususela ebuntwaneni. Kodwa cinga, sininzi kangakanani esiyisebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo, kungekhona nje ukudala imbonakalo ukuzolalisa isazela sethu? Emva koko, nawuphi na umntu ufuna ukuva, ndifuna "ukuhlala endaweni yakhe", "kwesikhumba sakhe". Isinyathelo esilandelayo, kunye nokutshatyalaliswa okulandelayo kunye nomyeni wakhe, cinga ngeemeko ezenza ukuba iqabane lenze amagama kunye nezenzo. Ingaba indlela yakhe yokujonga ingalunganga? Okanye ngaba unendawo yokuhlala? Mhlawumbi le "ntshintshana yeengqungquthela zemizimba" iya kukuxelela indlela yokufikelela kwisivumelwano esivumelwaneni ngexesha eliphikisanayo.
Thatha isikhashana
Enye indlela ebaluleke ngakumbi yokugcina imeko yoxolo kwintsapho. Xa incoko yakho inamazwi amaninzi kunye neentlonelo malunga neqabane lakho, xa iinkolelo eziqinisekisiweyo zitshintshwa ngokucatshulwa kwakho, xa kukho isinyathelo esinye kuphela sokuqhekeka izitya kunye nokubetha iingcango, kuyafaneleka ukuthatha ikhefu kwaye ucinge ngeemeko zonke. Omnye ulahlekileyo imizuzu eyi-10, umntu unqamle kwiiyure eziliqela, kwaye ezinye zilungele ukuqhubela ingxoxo kuphela ekuseni. Kukho nawuphi na, inkqubo yokuxazulula umcimbi "entloko ebandayo" iya kuba yintsha kwaye iyasebenza.
Sakha ubudlelwane bethu. Kwaye kufuneka uhlale ukhumbule ukuba umonde kunye nokuqonda ngokufanayo ziyinxalenye eyintloko yokwalamano oluthembekileyo, oluhlala njalo nolunaphakade.
Uthande kwaye uthandeke!