Ngokuqhelekileyo, kule meko, intsapho ifuna imbuyekezo efanelekileyo. Ephakamileyo isikhundla sokuba umtshakazi ahlale kuyo, umlinganiselo omkhulu kufuneka ubekwe. Iholide enjalo yayiqhutyelwa ngcamango, inzondelelo kunye nobuhle.
Uyamenywa kwinani elikhulu labantu abemi bomthonyama, abahlobo kunye nakumelwane. Ngamanye amaxesha yonke idolophana yayihamba.
Iinqununu ezininzi zala maxesha ziye zasinda nanamhla, zidlulile kwisithethe esiyimbopheleleko sokubonakaliswa kweentsuku zethu. Kodwa namhlanje, izihlandlo zihlala zixhalabile, zixhaphaza ezipokothweni zazo kwaye zibukeka zibuhlungu emva kwamangqina kunye nabahlobo, zixhalabile ngokungabikho kwemali.
Nangona iindleko zomtshato wanamhlanje akuyona imali eyaziwayo. Okubaluleke ngakumbi kunxilisayo kunye neesekese. Qiniseka ukuba uthele i-vodka encinane kwi-testy test, kunye nomama-mkhwenkwe-umthombo omuhle. Abahlobo bomtshakazi abayi kuze banqwenela ukunambitha iwayini ecocekileyo kunye neeholethi. Utatomkhulu nogogo kufuneka bavelise iziqhamo.
Umyeni uya kufuneka abhekane nomqobo wokuqala kwisiteji. Ukunyathela kwinqanaba ngalinye uya kuthi, umzekelo, lithetha elinye ilizwi elimthanda kumtshakazi. Ukuba isithandwa siphezulu okanye imbali yeqabane elizayo liyakucima, imali ihlala isindiswa. Isinyathelo esitsha ngaphandle kwegama eliqingqiweyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza kufuneka uhlawule intlawulo.
Kwaye ke umyeni wesikhathi esizayo wafika kwigumbi elithandekayo lomtshakazi, kodwa nantsi imfihlelo entsha. Imilomo emincikazi embalwa ishicilelwe kwiphepha lephepha. Kufuneka ukhethe ukuba yeyiphi imilomo yowomthandi wakhe. Kakade, wonke umntu angenza iphutha. Iiponji zifunyenwe-zidlule.
Kodwa yintoni inkohlakalo! Iholo lokungena likwahlula ngeetafile enkulu. Kuyo kuyakufuneka ubeke igama elipheleleyo lothandekayo wakho ngeebhili. Kukho iimeko, ukuba neneniso kunye negama.
Kwaye kwakhona, ukuhluleka. Omnye wacinga ukubeka isitya kwisantya. Apha a bafazi bazinikezela ukubeka into ebaluleke kakhulu kumtshakazi apho. Umyeni akayiqondi ukukhupha iipokethi zakhe. Kodwa ngokwenene bekufuneka ndibeke!
Ngoku sele esecaleni kwigumbi lomtshakazi. Kodwa kutheni kukho iibhande ezimbalwa zikhangele ngaphandle kwe-door ajar? Kwaye le ngongoma kukuba yonke irayibhadi ibophelelwe emlonyeni wesithandwa somfazi. Ukuba ungeyifake engalunganga, hlawula okanye umtshatile.
Enye yemikhosi emnandi kunye nemihlali yabantu abasandul 'ukutshata kwakuhlala kwaye ihlala yintengiso yekhekhe lomtshato. Kwakhona kubonakala ngathi luhlobo lwentlawulelo, iindwendwe kuphela ezihlawulwa ngokuzonwabisa, kungekhona umyeni womtshakazi.
Yaye yintoni isithethe sokuthenga umakokazi kwamanye amazwe?
ESpain kukho isiko elivuya. Umyeni wexesha elizayo unika imali yeshumi elinesithathu kwisithandwa, ebonisa ukuba uya kumnyamekela aze akhusele ubomi bakhe bonke. Yonke imikhosi yomtshakazi igcina iimali ezibekwe kwikhredithi elungiselelwe ngoku. Akucaci ukuba abaseSpeyin abanalo ukholo kumqondiso ombi we "damn dozen", okanye zenziwa ngegolide?
Kwamanye amazwe, kusengokwesiko ukuhlawula i-kalym. Oku kubonakala kakuhle eTurkey. Ukutshintshwa kwe-kalym kunokuthelekiswa nomsebenzi oqhelekileyo. Intsapho enye ithengisa umtshakazi, enye ithengayo. Ubuhle, ubulumko, umsa, umsebenzi onzima womtshakazi uguqulwa ukuba ube yimali efanelekileyo kwimali yomyeni.