Ukuba ukhathazekile ngokufunda, vumela umntwana wakho ahlonishwe ngokuhlonela. Kuya kumnceda. Uya kukhulisa intetho yomlomo, kwaye uya kuzikhumbula ngokukhawuleza ukufunda, kuba yena ngokwakhe uyava. Umntwana uyazi apho unokubeka khona isigama esilungile kwaye afunde ukuchithwa kwamagama okuchanekileyo. Xa inkwenkwe ifunda ngokuvakalayo, unokumcela ukuba abuyisele ukufunda nokuyilungisa xa into ethile ithetha ngokungalunganga. Ngoko kuya kuhlakulela ukucinga, imemori kunye nokukwazi ukucinga ngokucokisekileyo - oku kuncedo kuye esikolweni.
I-seminari nganye inokufunda kangcono, kwaye isigama singaba lukhulu xa abazali bemfundise ukuba afunde ukusuka emncinane. Musa ukulinda ade umntwana aneminyaka engama-6 ubudala. Qala ukuyifunda ngokuvakalayo xa isisa. Musa ukuma kwi syusyukanya kunye ne-agukanyi. Kukho amagama amaninzi umntwana akumele avele ukususela kubuntwaneni bakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akayi kuqonda nto, kodwa ubona unina okanye uyise, ubuso bakhe, iimvakalelo zakhe, ukuthetha kwakhe, ubuso bakhe, uva kunye noqhagamshelwano nomoya. Sekuneminyaka yobudala umntwana usenokugcina iincwadi kunye nokujonga kwimifanekiso. Kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu kungcono ukufunda ezinye zeembali ezincinane nezivakalisi ezilula. Yilungelelanise le ngxelo: KurochkaRyba, Repka okanye Kolobok.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda nokukhumbula oko ufundayo - oku kulukhono olungileyo nje kuphela esikolweni, kodwa kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi. Iingcali ziye zafakazela ukuba ulwazi olufunde ngokuvakalayo lukhunjulwa kangcono. Kumaziko, xa abafundi bengayiqondi into ethile, ootitshala bancomela ukufunda ngokuvakalayo. Ukufunda incwadi nomntu kunomdla kakhulu, kwaye kungekhona kuphela kubantwana, kodwa kunye nabazali kunye namaqabane. Amaqabane angakwazi ukufunda ngaphambi kokulala, kwaye uqagele oko kuza kwenzeka encwadini ngakumbi. Unako ukubala emotweni ukuba kukho indlela ende okanye kwi-cottage kwimvula yezulu. Ngoko ke uya kuba nenjongo yokuxoxa, wonke umntu unokubonisa uluvo lwakhe.
Khumbula ukuba xa ufunda ngokuvakalayo, uvuselela ingcamango, ukwandise inhlonipho ngokwakho, uhlakulele intshukumo yezenzo, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, uphumla ekufundeni. Oku kubhekisela ekuphuhliseni ngokomzwelo, ngoko ukufunda ngokuvakalayo kukukhuthaza nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Isigama linyuka nje kuphela kuwe, kodwa kumntu ofundayo. Ukongezelela, ixesha apho ubambelela ingqalelo yengane. Ukuguqula amaphepha, uhlakulela ukulungiswa kwemoto, ukuphonononga imifanekiso, ukuphucula izakhono ezibonakalayo. Oku kusebenza kubantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Kodwa ukuva kunyanisa izakhono zokuphicothwa. Ngokufanayo, ukuba ufunda kumntwana, uya kukwazi iimfuno zakhe, oko uya kukuphulaphula, noko akwenziyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngezikhathi ezithile kunomnqweno wokufunda ngokuthula. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngokubanzi, ndifuna ukwenza enye into ... Musa nje ukuyifunda ngokuvakalayo - inokusihlahlela, ngokukodwa xa ufunda izinto ezithandekayo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka kwenziwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda abantwana xa balala. Kuya kubakhohlisa baze bazive bekhuselekile. Ewe imivumba iyakusuka kwiingxaki zomhla kunye nexhala, kwaye ukuba uhlala phantsi kwindawo yomlilo okanye nje esihlalweni, unako ukuphumla, kwaye yonke into iya kuvela kwimvelaphi. Ngokukodwa xa usebenza, kwaye unomzuzu wokukhulula ukuthetha nomntwana - ukuwufunda ngokuzwakalayo kuwe uya kuwuthatha indawo ngokuqala.