Ingozi yobudlelwane nge-Intanethi.
Njengoko sithethe ngasentla, ngokuqhelekileyo inombolo kwi-intanethi yehlabathi ithatha intsingiselo yesondo. Yaye yintoni eyona nto inomdla kakhulu, inani labantu abaxhasayo "kwezobudlelwane kumgama" ngamnye unyaka luba ngakumbi. Ngelinye igama, inani leenveveli ezibonakalayo likhula ngokuqhubela phambili kwejometri, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, abantu abahlukeneyo kwiintlobo zeminyaka yobudala, isimo, njalonjalo banokuthatha inxaxheba kule nxulumano. Bonke bathemba ngokuqinisekileyo ekusebenziseni ukuxhamla okunjalo, bathi, kutheni uye kwenye indawo, jonga okanye ulinde? Kwaye iireveli zidibene ngokupheleleyo kwaye azidingi ama-echoes angcolileyo. Kukho ababini kuphela abaxhunyiwe ngumboniso wekhompyuter kunye neWebhu Yehlabathi. Ngendlela, kwaye akukho mntu uya kukwazi malunga nokungathembeki okwenene, nokuba unobomi boqobo. Yintoni ongenayo isalathisi esinzima esinentloko ukuba ungene "kwintengiso" engavumelekanga? Ewe, kodwa malunga nokuba iireveli ezibonakalayo zisengozini, abantu bambalwa kakhulu bacinga ngako. Kwaye oko kungathethi, kodwa kungenabulungisa, ekuqalekeni, ukuthandana ngothando okanye ukuthandana kunokuthwala ngokwabo kunye nemiphumo emibi.
Naphezu kobunzima bobudlelwane obuqinileyo, iingqondo zengqondo zithi yincwadi entsha (kuquka ulwabelana ngesondo) olungenasiphelo njengabantu abaninzi. Kwaye ngakumbi, kuyingozi kubantu. Ingakumbi injalo ingozi inokukhathaza kakhulu abantu abanengqondo engaqinisekiyo, abangenako ukulungiselela ubomi bobuqu kunye nabanyanisekile kwiqabane labo. Kule meko, isiphumo singakwazi ukuqhuba iintlobo zeengxaki zengqondo, ukuya kuphuhliso lwezinto ezivuthayo kunye ne-schizophrenia.
Ngokuya kuzo zonke iingcali zengqondo, ukuxhomekeka kwintetho yencoko ngokuqhelekileyo akuyona ingozi kunokuba, umzekelo, ukugembula, ukuguqulwa, ukuguqula, ukutshaya nokunye. Ngendlela, le ntengiso ye-intanethi kunzima kakhulu ukuyilahla.
Ukulahlekelwa kwezakhono zonxibelelwano .
Ukuba umntu ongenalo iqabane elingunaphakade kwimpilo yangempela, ukhetha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo, oku akuthethi ukuba ukudlala ngothando akuyingozi kuye. Ngamanye amaxesha inomxholo onjalo unokuba isikhubekiso ekudaleni ubudlelwane bokwenene. Okokuqala, oku kubangelwa kukuba iqabane elibonakalayo libonakala libonakala kumntu osebenza naye njengento efanelekileyo. Yingakho umntu eqala ukukholelwa ekugqibeleni ukuba ngubani "ngaphesheya kweso saziso" kwaye akafuni ukutshintsha nantoni na. Ukongeza, ukuba intombazana okanye inkwenkwana ihlala "ixhomekeke" kwintanethi, amathuba abo okufumana iqabane elichanekileyo liyancitshiswa kakhulu. Kwaye ubuchule bokuthetha nabantu "abaphilayo" bulahlekile kakhulu.
Abangqambileyo .
Inveli kumnatha inobungozi ngenxa yokuba umntu okhangela umngane weqabane elijongene nomngcipheko oqhagamshelana nomntu ozenza ngathi ungumnye umntu. Ngokomzekelo, indoda engathandeki kuwe kwaye ngubani owaziyo unokudala kalula i-akhawunti entsha kwaye avele phambi kwakho umntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo nothembisayo. Ngako oko, ukhokelwa ekukhohliseni okunjalo, kodwa kungekudala okanye emva koko ufumanisa yonke inyaniso. Ewe, ke, ukuba unokuyeka ukunxibelelana nalo mntu, kodwa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo akuhambi ngokukhawuleza.
Nantsi kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhekise nakwabakho ababizwa ngokuba ngabaxhaphazi bomtshato. Kodwa oku kunjalo, kwimeko apho ubala ukuba i-romance yakho ebonakalayo iya kuqhubeka nokuphila kwangempela. Iskimu somsebenzi wezobuqhetseba kulula kakhulu kwaye sinamathempyutheni awo: indoda enomdla ekunxibelelweni idonsa abafazi abaninzi, iwabethe ngemilayezo yomuntu siqu, umzekelo, kwi-ICQ, ukufumana ukuzithemba kwabo ngokupheleleyo. Emva kwesikhashana, intando ye-intanethi, ngokuzibandakanya ngobuchule kubo, iba yiphakamiso sokuqhubeka nokuthetha ebomini bokwenene. Kule meko, akukho nto inokuyikrakra, ngenxa yokuba ulwalamano lwakho luye lwahlala ixesha elithile, ngoko kutheni ungayazi ngakumbi? Indoda ethandekayo, okwangoku, ihamba ngeedolophu, ivakatye iintombi zakhe kwaye zingathathi nje iintliziyo zabo, kodwa nemali.
Isicwangciso esilungileyo nesilumko .
Inoveli yenene iyingozi kwiimeko ezichasene namadoda. Ngokomzekelo, indoda iyaqhelana nomfazi, ngenxa yoqhagamshelwano olunengqiqo, iyanamathela kuye, ekugqibeleni ubudlelwane babo buba yintando ye-intanethi kunye nesondo kunye nesithandwa. Kodwa xa kuziwa kwintlanganiso yangempela, umfazi uyavuma yonke into, kuphela ngemali. Ngaloo ndlela, indoda iya kuba ngumxhasi wayo ngenxa yokuba inqanaba elingaphantsi kwengqalelo lixhomekeke kwintombi.
Ngendlela, apha unakho ukuquka ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nabathandi beentlobo ezahlukeneyo zesondo kunye neengqondo. Amalingani ezinjalo ezinqwenelekayo azikhethele ngokukhethekileyo kwi-intanethi "ixhoba" kwaye amenze ahlaselwe yintlungu, eyona yingozi ngaphezu kwe-Internet. Ngoko khumbula, ngaphambi kokuba uqale inombolo enjalo, cingisisa uze ukhangele iqabane lakho elitsha elisebenza ngqo kuzo zonke iindlela.
Kodwa, ke, akuzona zonke iireveli ze-Intanethi zithatha isiphumo esibuhlungu, kuba umntu ngamnye uneminqweno yakhe eyimfihlelo kunye neengcamango, awazikwazi ukuzibona kuphela kwihlabathi elibonakalayo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, fumana ukuphumla okufunayo. Into ephambili kukunyamekela kwaye ukwazi kakuhle umntu othetha naye!