Ngaba uqhubeka ngokukhawuleza kunye nabafazi abakhulelweyo nabantwana?

Ngoku iLente Elikhulu, kwaye imibuzo emininzi malunga nalokhu kuvela, umzekelo, kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, kunye noomama abondla iintsana kwiibele. Unomdla kumbuzo wokuzila ukutya kubantu abadala, abantwana kunye nabagulayo. Abantu abaninzi bayabuza ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukulala ngesantya?

Ukuzila ukudla ngokukhulelwa kunye nomama onesihlengikazi

Apha ungenza ukwabiwa kwiindidi ezimbini: ngokukodwa abafazi abakholwayo, abanolwazi lwabo lo mbandela luhlanganiswe nezithethe zentsapho kunye namaKristu aqhelekileyo, abangazange babe namava kwimiba yokholo, kodwa kusekhona kwizinga elingaphantsi kolwazi ukuba ukuzila kukubalulekileyo ebomini bethu bokomoya. Abazi ukuba bazibandakanye njani kwisithuba kunye nendlela yokuthobela ngayo; ngenxa yonaphakade, umntu ufuna into kwaye ufuna ukuzibamba ekudleni, kudla kulula ukuhlaziya.

I-Timofey yase-Aleksandriya ngolawulo lwayo lwe-8 ithi umfazi ozalele umntwana akadingeki ukuba azilawule, kodwa ukuziqinisa ngokutya okuqhelekileyo ngenxa yempilo yengane. Ukuzalwa kuka-Asamo sele kusenomdla phambi kukaThixo kwaye ke ukuba ufuna ukuzila ukudla, ukuze angalimazi impilo yakhe kunye nempilo yengane. Yaye imeko yakhe ngeli xesha kufuneka ibe mnandi, ijabule, kuba idluliselwa kumntwana. UThixo akayena umgcini-mali osibhala ukuba uyidla ngokukhawuleza, kubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukuba ukhula njani lwakho umntwana kwaye ziziphi izithethe oza kuzikhupha.

Zibalele ukuzila ukutya kuqala kunye nokugqithiseleyo ekuziphatheni, ukuzizonwabisa, ukugwetywa, nokwandisa abanye, nokuqinisa uncedo lwabanye. Oku kuya kuba kukuzila okugqibeleleyo.

Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukuhlala uzila ukudla ubuhlobo bomtshato ?

Kule nkalo, ngokukhethekileyo abefundisi abanenzondelelo basoloko benamathele e-peregibayut, bethatha inkululeko yokuqinisekisa ukuba ngexesha lokuzila ukudla, akufuneki ukuba umlingane abe nesondo. Akuyinyaniso okanye siya kuthi njalo, isiqingatha-inyaniso. Kwakhona, masibuyele kwimithombo efanelekileyo. Nokuba uMpostile Paulald kwiintsapho ezitshatileyo ezinokwakha: musa ukuhlambalazana okanye kuphela ngesivumelwano kwithuba elincinane, oza kubelana ngazo ngokuthandaza nokuzila ukutya. I-Azatem iphinda ibe kunye, ukuze uSathana angakuvivinyanga. Yaye ngubani omnye umntu omele simethembele kule micimbi, kungeyiphi enye yabafundi bakaKristu?

Ngoko ke konke okucacileyo kucacile: indoda kunye nomfazi kufuneka banqume umlinganiselo wokuzila ukutya kunye nokuba bafanele bahambe kangakanani. INkosi ayifuni intsapho ukuba iphule ngenxa yokuzilahla ebomini. Isithuba esinjalo simfuneko kakhulu, emva koko, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukugcina ubudlelwane obufudumele kwintsapho.

USt. Timothy uchaza ukuba imihla yokuphumla iyimfuneko yokuziyeka, kwaye ngenxa yesizathu sokuba le ntsuku kwiCawa yaseLiturgy i-Divine Passes. Ngokubhekiselele kwiLente Elikhulu, kuphela iiveki zokuqala kunye neyokugqibela kuya kuba yimfuneko. Ngezinye iintsuku - kuphela kwintando.

Ngaba kufuneka sizilawule abantwana?

Lo mbuzo unzima. Ngokomgaqo, akukho mpendulo ecacileyo kuyo. Lapha, kwaye uguquke, kwaye iingcamango zoogqirha nabafundisi abavumelaniyo. Ngokubanzi, umntwana, njengomzimba okhulayo, akafanelekanga ukukhupha imveliso kunye nemveliso yobisi.

Ngaloo ndlela, kuyinqweneleka ukunciphisa umntwana kungekho kwimveliso ayifunayo ekuphuhlisweni komzimba (isithuba sisexesha elide), kodwa, umzekelo, kwimidlalo, ehleli kwikhompyutheni, ebukela iikhathuni. Unokunciphisa ukutya, ngaphandle kokubaluleka kweemveliso zomntwana ezivela kumzimba ezingenayo. Ngokomzekelo, iigwele, iigwele kunye neesekese. Oko kukuthi, zezi ziintlokazana, ezikuphuhliswa komntwana ziyingozi nakakhulu kunokuba luncedo. Ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukuzisa loo mithintelo kumntwana. Abayi kulimaza umzimba kwaye bazise umphefumlo emphefumlweni.

Ngaba kufuneka silandele abantu abadala kunye nabantu abagulayo ?

Phakathi kwabantu ngoku ngokudideka ngokupheleleyo kwiimbono. Omnye ukholelwa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukugcina isigxina ngokungqinelana nemimiselo, yedwa iyenqaba inyama, kwaye enye "ayidli intlanzi, kodwa idla umntu," njengoko uSeraphim waseSarov uthe. Kuthetha - ukusuka kwimveliso yezilwanyana ukwenqaba kwaye ikhangele ngentshiseko, kodwa ukufutshane-ukuphazamiseka kunye nentukuthelo kunye nokucaphuka kwayo akunjalo. Kodwa ngubani ofuna le post? Ukuzila ukutya kuyafana, okokuqala kukuzilahla ngokomoya, kwaye ngokoqobo.

Ngoko, abaBawo beCawa bathi ukuzila ukutya kuyimfuneko, njengokuba umntu onokuyenza. Ezinye izilwanyana zikholelwa ukuba ukunciphisa okunzulu ukutya kukunceda umntu onempilo, kodwa isigulane kufuneka sibe nokuphumla okukhulu, ngakumbi ukuba ugula lunzulu. Abafundisi bayabambelela kule ngcamango, bethetha ukuba iBandla aliyinyanzela umntu ukuba athathe into engaphezu kwamandla akhe. Imithetho yokuzila idalwe kufikeleleko kwaye akukho hlukana kwabanamonki kunye nabantu abahlala kuyo, ngoko ke wonke umntu kufuneka aqikelele imilinganiselo yakhe yokuzilahla. Ke ukuba ukuphuka okukhawulezayo, kufuneka ukuba umntu akhale ngenxa yobuthathaka bakhe, ukuze iNkosi ixolele.

Izifo sele ziselunxwemeni ngokwazo, utsho uYise uYohane, kwaye ukuba umntu akakhonanga ngexesha lokugula, kodwa uyithatha ngomusa, eqonda ukuba konke oku kusuka kwizono zethu, ngoko sele sele isishukumiso. Kwaye ukuba ngaba yena akayikuzikhawulela kakhulu ekudleni, kodwa intliziyo yakhe inokuthula kwaye imihlali iyonwabile, ngoko iposi ichanekile. Kwaye ukuba umntu okwangoku uthanda inxaxheba, uyanceda abahlwempu, wabelana ngesonka-esi sikhundla siyamkholisa kuThixo.

Ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kweziphakamiso zabantu eziqhelekileyo

Kwixesha langaphambili, abantu baxakeke ngokugqithiseleyo. Kodwa ke i-ecology yayihlukile, abantu babephilile. Ukutya kwakungokwemvelo kunye nokucoca kwamanzi, ukhiye, luncedo kubantu. Ngoku sihluke kakhulu kwiinkwenkwezi zamandulo kunye nempilo yabo, ngaphezu koko, zombini, kwaye, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngokomoya. Wonke umntu uyavuma, kuquka abafundisi kunye noogqirha. Ngako oko, izithethe zokhokho bethu azivunyelwanga ngokupheleleyo kuthi, namhlanje, kunye nezimpumputhe zethu eziphambukayo, ukungafani kweso sixeko kunye nokugqithiswa kwamanzi.

Oogqirha bamaOrthodox bathi iinjongo eziphambili zokuzila ukutya kukuhlambulula intliziyo kwizono, ukuyeka ukungabikho kwamhla ngemihla kwaye ucinge ngobomi bakho, malunga nezenzo nezenzo, malunga neendawo ezikuyo. Ukuhlambulula intliziyo yengqumbo, ukugweba, umona, ukuzingca nokunyusa ebomini bakho ubuncinane uthando oluninzi kunye nemfesane kwabanye.

Ngako oko, akulungile ukuxelela ukutya ngokukhawuleza kokutya. Ukuzila ukutya kukuthanda, inzame eyenziwa ngumntu, ukukhanyela, ukunywala, ukrakra kunye nendlela yokuphila ekhululekile. Yabelana ngesiqwenga sesonka kumncintiswano, khokela isigulane uze uncede indoda endala - kunye nesithuba sakho siya kuhlawulela ngakumbi iNkosi kunokuba ulambile, kodwa entliziyweni yakho iya kuhlala yintliziyo nenzondo kwabanye.

Ukucaphula, singakwazi ukuchonga iingongoma eziphambili zeposi namhlanje:

  1. Gcina iLente, kwaye kwangexesha lonyaka unganakwenzeka - uLwesithathu kunye noLwesihlanu.
  2. I-Lent ngaphandle kwenyama kunye nobisi.
  3. Iiveki zokuqala nezokugqibela - indawo elololileyo, ekuphumleni - unokukwazi ukufumana iintlanzi kunye neentlanzi zaselwandle.
  4. Ukunyamekela ngeveki kuvumelekile.
  5. Ungalandeli umgaqo-mandla kwaye ungagxininisi inzondelelo kuwe nakwabanye.
  6. Ziqeqesha kwimicimbi yothando, uvelise uthando ngabantu kwaye uncedise ukubandezeleka.
  7. Yiya ecaweni, uvume kwaye ufumane ukudibana.
  8. Musa ukuzonwabisa, khokelela indlela yokuphila ezolile kunye nobulungeleleneyo. Musa ukugcina entliziyweni yengqumbo, umsindo, ukucaphuka nokungathandeki, ukugweba nabani na ukunyelisa. Musa ukuzondla nabani na, vunyamezela abanye ukungaphumeleli kwaye uzame ukulungisa lakho.

Le yimiqathango enokuphelelwa ngumntu wonke ofuna ukuzila ukutya nokugcina umphefumlo wakhe ucocekile.